9優何凱琳轉讀心理學 「志不在醫」 棄4年苦功

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gigivinda

我覺得中五會考未必能分高下，因為課程沒有中七那麼艱深，單是努力操練也會有不錯的成績。

而且，一般地區學校著重為學生安排每一個課程的小節，筆記來讀。學生習慣了給人操練的方式，就在大學對自發學習的模式感到不適應。

對於凱琳能成功轉系，這是一件好事。她能找到自己的方向，不勉強自己符合別人的期望

annie40

太好了, 何凱琳才十八岁就明白应该为自己而活! 境界高出我们终日营营役役,对子女诸多期望的父母好多.

虽然好多隐形的Auntie , Uncle 当左凱琳系dream daughter(如我), 听到她无念医科就有D失落感, 好似阿女唔多听话甘.

但只要阿女开心又懂事, 绝对应该鼓励她: 女大女世界, 不用理会阿爸阿妈姨妈姑姐阿猪阿狗的想法. 我们的意见有时跟路人甲, 丙的水平差不多的. 最终决断应在阿女手中

原帖由 kenfu 於 11-10-24 09:04 發表
【明報專訊】2007年憑會考9優1良成績，以16歲之齡破格入讀中大醫學院的何凱琳，本有望成為本港史上最年輕的醫生，不過中大發言人昨證實，凱琳實習期間發現自己「志不在醫」，未有如期於今年完成醫科課程後完成實習。凱琳上月起 ...

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peter_pan

If she chose an academic subject rather than medicine, I don't think she would have had any problem.
On paper, medicine is a noble profession in that you are helping people in need, and that you are well respected.
That is the 'glamorous' notion most kids have about medicine.
But in reality you'll have to deal with breaking bad news, comforting the dying, confronting griefing relatives.....not to mention facing blood, pus & broken limbs!
It would have been better for her to study a science degree first and then apply for medicine as a graduate student later when she was more mature.

原帖由 kenfu 於 11-10-24 09:04 發表
我覺得有點可惜!!
亦反映了太早入大學可能未有成熟的心智了解自己的意向.

ANChan59

My son told me he would like to take medicine in HK last year.

The first thing I arranged for him was clinical attachment in public hospital, he saw open surgeries (bloody....), a patient died in operation, complaining patients in the ward and out-patient, long working hours......

Is it the profession you want for coming 40 years? If yes, good luck to him and work hard to achineve excellent academic results and interviews. If not, don't waste the space, do something else......

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I am happy to know she found the right profession and will contribute to the community in the future.

khmama

我朋友既女本來都想讀Medicine, 但一聽師姐講話每人派條屍比你, 用足一個月學劏屍, 即刻打退堂鼓.

panbaby

喺呀, 我細個讀書時, 有一日在飯堂見到個 Medic 仔, 咁走上去同佢傾偈, 但見他神色不善, 咁問他有咩事? 我到現在都仲 記得佢講 : "我呢排解剖, 有次一刀切下去, 俾嚸 液體 (我唔知是咩...) 唧到自己, ..." 　佢仲玩　gag，　"好彩有副眼鏡頂住，　'啡' 唔到去隻眼到..."


讀醫年期長又辛苦, 見盡人間生老病死, 唔係個個都適合讀.

原帖由 khmama 於 11-10-24 22:20 發表
我朋友既女本來都想讀Medicine, 但一聽師姐講話每人派條屍比你, 用足一個月學劏屍, 即刻打退堂鼓.

hhma

聽講唔係派, 係每人"買"一條.....

原帖由 khmama 於 11-10-24 22:20 發表
我朋友既女本來都想讀Medicine, 但一聽師姐講話每人派條屍比你, 用足一個月學劏屍, 即刻打退堂鼓.

khmama

吓, 仲要比錢? 其實邊o的人會賣自己條屍比人劏?

ANChan59

Thanks for your info.

annie40

刚好相反, 小女不一定读医,而我亦非常唔想她读, 因为少了年青人应享受的social life, 很可惜!

但有次看书,见D初哥们第一次劏屍时滕滕震, 就问阿女要劏屍惊否?  她回问: 那人已否死去?  我说: 当然已死.  然后她回答: 那就毫不是问题矣!

技术上这种天生可以把理智和感情分隔的人比较罕见.

原帖由 khmama 於 11-10-24 22:20 發表
我朋友既女本來都想讀Medicine, 但一聽師姐講話每人派條屍比你, 用足一個月學劏屍, 即刻打退堂鼓.

ANChan59

技术上这种天生可以把理智和感情分隔的人比较罕见.

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Agreed, don't waste the space and the funding from the tax-payers if the student not ready.

tongyimtong

15歲就決定終身職業，對小孩來說太大壓力。

所謂天才都要有一點運氣才會成功。如果凱琳的父母好像ANCHAN59一般有見地，她的成就會不同。可惜她的父母只是草根工人，不懂得為女兒打算。

當年她家人如果不是虛榮﹐讓女兒低調地，一步一腳印地先完成一個本科學位，再慢慢進修上去。她在大學的老師指引和經驗洗禮下，一定會有正確的選擇。

其實金錢和時間的損失其次，聞說凱琳近一年不敢接觸從前的老師和朋友。可見不快的學習經歷對她打擊多大。希望她快些走出不快的陰霾，從新投入校園生活。相信憑她的聰明，會有更好的發展。

ANChan59

當年她家人如果不是虛榮﹐讓女兒低調地，一步一腳印地先完成一個本科學位，再慢慢進修上去。她在大學的老師指引和經驗洗禮下，一定會有正確的選擇。

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I am not sure study Medicine was her parents' wish or school's wish. I will put benefit of doubt to her parents.

We all share the same disappointment as her parents and herself. Wish her recover and bounce back soon.