SC K3 家長 - P1 申請 - 吹水加油站！！！

joeyxlma

Hi, 各SC K3家長!

剛看到1、2年前SC K3家長升小一的THREAD, 而家到我地了, 申請小一貌似選擇多多, 其實是考慮多多, 每一步都要想得清清楚楚... 我想我地都可以多多溝通, 有水吹水、沒水收風、有問題的就傾問題、無問題的減減壓也好...

[而家都是水深火熱, 開個THREAD, 不知有沒有理...]

joeyxlma

想統計一下, 大家都報了多少私小/直資?
我數數手指, 都報了接近10間:

優才
陳守仁(TSL)
黃錦輝(WKF)
港大同學會(HKUGA)
聖保羅男女(SPCC)

聖方濟各(SFA)
女拔(DGJS)
德望(Good Hope)
九龍塘學校(kTS)
救恩(Kau Yan)

8日最少有4間要in, 您地呢?

wasabi-cat

我路過既，阿女舊年 k3，今年上左小一。

考小一絕對是場硬仗，因為局住要打。而且，仲係要父母、小孩同心合力去打既仗，缺一不可。雖然前路不明，但為了孩子，作為父母，都要勇敢面對，而且仲要有哂心理準備要作長期抗爭!

不過，而家睇返轉頭，呢個 experience 又帶比我好多野，eg 更了解自己同個女，重新檢視了我同丈夫既價值觀，學習與丈夫多討論、少堅持己見、以家庭為重、平衡各方的需求等等... 在我一家來說，確實每個人都有成長了呢!

前路縱然艱難，但只要齊心合力，一定可以走過，邁向美好明天! 願 sc 的父母及孩子們都順利走向他們的美好明天，加油，fighting!!!

joeyxlma

原帖由 wasabi-cat 於 11-10-3 18:28 發表
我路過既，阿女舊年 k3，今年上左小一。

考小一絕對是場硬仗，因為局住要打。而且，仲係要父母、小孩同心合力去打既仗，缺一不可。雖然前路不明，但為了孩子，作為父母，都要勇敢面對，而且仲要有哂心理準備要作長期抗爭!

不過，而家睇 ...

thanks!
我都係, 不過我老公一向都好緊個女, 小一申請的大部份都是我地一起去討論去做 (寫野的除外), 好似小一簡介會, 選校策略, 都是一齊行動, 分輕了很多壓力.

(好在我地在很多大方向都是非常一致, haha...)

angeemama

I have applied for 6-7 and the coming weekend would be the most critical weekend.  It's true that all three of us involved in this battle have grown alot.  Especially for my hubby and I.  At work, I am the one who give out instructions and make finally decisions to alot of matters.  For my girl, I have to say I could not be as calm and sensible as my hubby.  He gives specific comments and ideas which I could never thought of.  

My girl will go for KTS for interview on Thurs.  On Sat, will have CKY to start with, then TL and finish up with DGJS.  On Sun, we will need to go TSL.  I have never had that kind of interview schedules for myself.  I have only attend three interviews for my work in my life so far.  Felt so sorry to put my girl in this kind of battle.

wasabi-cat

joeyxlma, 見到你可以同老公咁一致，"鄧"你開心，因為好多時好多 parents 都為左上邊間小一都有爭執。祝你早日為阿女搵到間理想既小學!!

joeyxlma

原帖由 wasabi-cat 於 11-10-4 18:10 發表
joeyxlma, 見到你可以同老公咁一致，"鄧"你開心，因為好多時好多 parents 都為左上邊間小一都有爭執。祝你早日為阿女搵到間理想既小學!!

I think I must say, we agree and listen to each other so far... maybe we not yet come to the decision point...

wasabi-cat

"Felt so sorry to put my girl in this kind of battle." ===> angeemama, 唔好比自己同個女咁大壓力，最緊要係個過程之中，建立更好既親子關係先係最重要。雖然未必可以用 "享受"嚟形容呢個過程，但 at least 唔好比呢個過程去 "破壞"左一家人既感情，咁就真係好唔抵。

SCKnight

努力加油！

ac917

幫你推一推！

joeyxlma

Just over the most critical weekend...
Feeling very anxious because my girl did not talk much about the content (same as her usual practice).

It is true that we 3 all join the battle, which is very hard, I think I could say.  I try not to push much, just try to ask her to keep her politeness and smiles.

wasabi-cat

做得好，最緊要放鬆心情，因為細路仔都會 feel 到你既緊張同壓力架﹗舊年我個女都係大部份時間講唔返佢入去 interview 做過 d 咩，可能因為係細女關係啦﹗不過最後都好好彩有 2 間私小收左佢，我仲有得揀下添，哈哈﹗

anyway, 我反而想比個 advice 大家，如果你一心唔想入官、津校，咁係搵直資、私小時就不能太進取，全部都只搵一線學校，因為競爭實在太激烈。我提議要搵定一兩間比較二線既，當買個保險。始終有一間收左你，個心會定 d，同埋到時大抽獎完左之後都仲有得揀下。

joeyxlma

My confidence is eroding as my girl tells me more

wasabi-cat

唔使咁灰心既，要對自己個女有信心。就算未有好學校收，亦不等如阿女無前途、將來一片灰暗！可能係 their loss 呢！記住，而家不是一戰定生死，將來條路點行，仲要靠你同丈夫為個女安排。如果只憑這一役被打沉了，實在唔抵！

joeyxlma

I think those I chose are not all top ones.

joeyxlma

等待真是一個消磨人類意志的玩意, 尚有大約1至2週不等才有心儀學校2nd interview list release, 但已慢慢失去沖勁中...

joeyxlma

This thread seems to be my daily than a discussion, anyway, got a few good news of acceptance and 2nd interviews so far.

Don't know why my emotion is still very unsettled, seems all personal stuff and office stuff crash together...

lingling06

You are not the only one.  When we have nothing on our hands, then we felt frustrated and wondered whether our boy was not as good as we thought.  However, when we have some offers, then we start to worry whether we would make a wrong decision.  

My emotion goes up and down.  Hope that the process can finish as soon as possible.

joeyxlma

原帖由 lingling06 於 11-10-26 17:27 發表
You are not the only one.  When we have nothing on our hands, then we felt frustrated and wondered whether our boy was not as good as we thought.  However, when we have some offers, then we start to w ...

Yes, yes, especially when you have to turn down some offers on hand and betting on whether there will be a next offer.

angeemama

My daughter hasn't got any offer so far as well!  She is a small girl n I understand most of the school would favor big girls!  My hubby n I were a bit disappointed but not too upset!  I still have faith on my girl n if there is no acceptance from any private school, we will wait for the allocation!  We would try hard to nuture her in the next six years n try again during secondary school!  Worse comes to worse, we will just take her back to Canada to study!