細b真的跟不上嗎?有無過來人分享下)

YY233

常聽到有人說10-12月b應遲一年入學，有無細b媽媽分享下?

angeemama

My girl is 0612 and she is now studying in SC K2..No problem at all.  No worry!!!  I have never thought of having her to be big bb for a year later...They can do it, don't worry!!

小曳人

我會咁睇.. 吸收知識上，應該問題不大
但係肌肉能力上，身體可能同年頭嘅小朋友分別會大d

dolphinmama

只可以講,你的孩子真的很聰明而已!
其實我覺得有細b的父母真的是進可攻退可守,如果孩子今年做細b真的跟不上,明年可再戰做超大b,所以,點講都係唔使擔心呢!

原帖由 angeemama 於 11-3-6 13:56 發表
My girl is 0612 and she is now studying in SC K2..No problem at all.  No worry!!!  I have never thought of having her to be big bb for a year later...They can do it, don't worry!!

dolphinmama

我曾經在bk討論過應否做細b的問題,收集了不同媽咪的意見,原來做細b or 超大b係睇番小朋友本身的發展,以前我就係唔明(亦見過很多細b跟不上的關係),所以覺得不應該勉強,但現在的孩子越來越本事了,強要他們遲一年入學確實不好,不如就早一d讓他/她嘗試來得更適合!

hkspiderman

小兒0611同様讀sc, 現在k2 overall 都同一般大b無咩分別；雖然佢個子較小，但講到手腳協調、大小肌肉都比 " 一般＂大b優勝。由於sc k1是集細b 一班，所以上年小兒在各方面都比較突出，現在k2跟大b同班就沒有這優勢。

其實你想知做超大b是否好點好容易，你諗吓半年前係點就知。

YY233

真多謝你們的分享，在bk能遇到許多過來人和同路人，真開心，能共同分擔在育兒上的喜與難!我相信細b的能力跟大b沒有多大的分別，學習也許最重要是自信心和家庭教育，所有細b加油呀!

InitialD

If you target for 1st tier school, he/she need to compete with very smart kids but one year older...this will be tough. But it is Ok for normal school such as government school, they allows them to have time to catch up.

原帖由 YY233 於 11-3-6 19:26 發表
真多謝你們的分享，在bk能遇到許多過來人和同路人，真開心，能共同分擔在育兒上的喜與難!我相信細b的能力跟大b沒有多大的分別，學習也許最重要是自信心和家庭教育，所有細b加油呀! ...

stinkyrabbit111

my daughter is a small bb 0712, she is now studying in k1 in a kg nearby home ..even the teacher says she is very good as small bb (我間kg都好深, 而家k1下學期學字, 唐詩, 英文phonics etc)...franky speaking, for those  出名d, 傳統學校(kg), even考直資小學, 佢地見係細b, 心裡都有所減分...
雖然我小朋友係一定跟得上, 我都好reluctant同佢repeat,不過因為要入一d好d的學校, 我係一定要行呢條路...

YY233

其實有很多出名小學都收小b，如kts、英華等，其實真實情況未必是那麼難!

babyakambm

According to my nephew, there are a few small B in his class now at Ying Wah (P2 now) ... but they are not the smart ones in class .... pretty hard to chase the homework.

bellabella_oh

i am also struggling with this problem too...my son was born in Nov.  According to my observation to my son, he is doing above average in the class(he got 8 subjects in A out of 12) but I have to admit that he is less good at muscle control eg. when he is holding his pen.  Also, he is less mature in terms of behaviour as compared with big kids.

I also brought him to a Math playgroup last Sat that need to go thr an assessment first.  Tutor was so surprise of his assessment result (me too) that she said K1 student can only go to Level 1 or 2 in most of the cases but my son can strict in to Level 3( I guess that will be of K2 or K3 level).  Thus I think it really depends on your own kid's ability.  Don't waste ur kid's time blindly because of general norm.  Go according to your kid's ability as this is the most important.

Thus even though I am happy with my son's progress so far, I will still observe him more before I decide whether to repeat him.

I think if you could talk to ur kid's class teachers more, that could help.

YY233

我非常同意你的說法，有時我想若大仔的學習一定是好，那麼最好成績的學校應是培正嗎?因它所收的全是大仔或超大仔????

cycream

其實講來講去差別都係幼稚園階段,之後都唔明顯. 而且人人智慧不同,唔可以一概而論做細b定大b好.

my son 0810bb, 佢係only one 細b 係佢個班, 老師都話佢學習無問題, 吸收好快, 只係小肌肉差D, 大肌肉都無問題!

DGJS

If you read the following link, you will find that in P. 10, the following people reported that their girls were accepted by DGJS this year.
ABTreasures
busybusy

ChuLuLu

dada1113
Haymama

kellyjason
lowaichun

natpa

SherBB

sumyin518

YimhYimh

ysschau

YY天使

http://forum.edu-kingdom.com/vie ... c%3DDESC&page=8

Not a big # because not all successful candidates will visit BK. The total # is 13 only. However, if we look at p. 8, there are at least two girls born in late Nov from these 13 candidates. So, small B can perform!

w_y

跟唔跟得上都係睇你要同咩人比. 我同自己比, 而家點都比大半年前進步, 假設其他小孩 (大中B) 都係咁上下資質, 父母又係落咁上下力教育, 咁咪即係大半年前人地已經做到佢而家既水準囉!

如果想各方面都跟得上, 除左天資, 體質都唔可以太差, 父母都要花多D 精神. 天外有天, 又叻家庭支援又好一月出世大B 甚至超大B我都見唔少, 我個開完生日會唔夠幾個星期, 人地又請我啦, 但人地個係大我個小朋友成一年呢! 點比? 所以細B 家長要有心理準備, 跟得上其實都唔難, 但要做頂尖又出色果幾個, 就唔係咁易, 要等多幾年.

pandabonita

叻d小朋友做細b當然冇問題,自己就5會只睇好o個面,dgjs都有超大B,同有冇人統計過有幾多細b不成功的case lei.如果問兒童心理學家,佢多數都會建議做大B.都係o個句,每位小朋友和家庭是獨特,不能一概而論.

kiki.kiki

我B係0811細B, 我同老公由一開始已打算俾佢做細B, 除非佢真係跟唔上.....因為有大B過來人講(即我老公同有D朋友, 佢地都係12月出世), 佢地做大B時係唔開心架.....唔明點解自己係早其他小朋友一年出世~~~

原帖由 pandabonita 於 11-3-7 22:18 發表
叻d小朋友做細b當然冇問題,自己就5會只睇好o個面,dgjs都有超大B,同有冇人統計過有幾多細b不成功的case lei.如果問兒童心理學家,佢多數都會建議做大B.都係o個句,每位小朋友和家庭是獨特,不能一概而論. ...

kkhon

原帖由 w_y 於 11-3-7 18:27 發表
跟唔跟得上都係睇你要同咩人比. 我同自己比, 而家點都比大半年前進步, 假設其他小孩 (大中B) 都係咁上下資質, 父母又係落咁上下力教育, 咁咪即係大半年前人地已經做到佢而家既水準囉!

如果想各方面都跟得上, 除左 ...

Total agree只要小朋友一切學習及發展正常便可，若經常與其他小朋友比較，父母感壓力及小朋友亦辛苦。