lie to classmate Daddy is her driver!!

GAT

I know a real story - a girl got into ST XX Convent in CWB.
In her primary one, she found the school is very very compeitive and people are rich and like comparing a lot - then she lie to her classmates the Daddy that drive her to school everyday is her DRIVER!

TRYTOBEHOMAMA

It's so funny!

thomasha

It's sad.  I guess her parents may not have taught her the correct values.

原帖由 GAT 於 10-12-11 00:04 發表
I know a real story - a girl got into ST XX Convent in CWB.
In her primary one, she found the school is very very compeitive and people are rich and like comparing a lot - then she lie to her classma ...

nataliepsc

Yes, I also think this is sad, very sad indeed.

brian61950

慢慢她會知道自己有幾錯·
我細個讀書時也有同學唔比他的父母去接放學,後來知道他原來嫌棄父母做小販，怕比人知,人地笑·
現在回想,多麼幼稚，但go back to 從前,幾歲人仔，笑人或被笑又點知乜野大道理.

順其自然啦,大大下會釋懷及後悔甘對父母.

weisscarton

如果你認識呢位小朋友，你應該仲快請她父母安排她見社工及老師。學校有社工，如果小朋友在價值觀及情緒有問題可約見尋求扶導。
第一年家長會學校已講明唔準在學校派生日會咭。每年家長會校長都會有德育講座，教導家長關心子女，父母不要寵壞孩子。

KwanPark

what a pity !

Erica-Lee

I think her behaviour may not due to comparison of family background as she is just a little girl in P1. How can a small girl think in this way?? Sometimes, we adults may interpret their behavious using our adult views. Would there be another simple meanings in their small world??

sabmar

i agree, she is only first term in her primary one, she may not even be able to recognise all her classmates in her class, not to say she knows a lot of rich people and needing to lie!

YolandaTam

我細個都試過講大話, 話自己屋企做生意, 我嗰陣都係小一.  你咪話啲小朋友唔識, 可能大部份係, 但有啲真係知架.

不過咁講大話係好影響人際關係.  自己心裏面有秘密, 係唔會放開懷抱同同學仔相處架.  如果樓主識得個小朋友或佢家長, 最好諗辦法幫吓佢哋唔好再咁講大話啦.

goo_littlebb

佢爹哋有車送佢返放學, 已經好好啦! 仲比較乜? 人比人比死人架!
我認識既呢間學校家長, 都係普通人家, 有D兩公婆都係打工仔, 當然都有有錢既人~

Astoria

有錢嘅一定有,但絕不是大部份, 學校亦十分着重德肓, 教小朋友不要比較, 如sister說叫家長不要攪大型生日會.
我見大部份家長都好humble, 相信這是個別例子, 如你認識此小朋友, 勸她找學校社工吧!

CiaoEveryone

Sometimes, kids don't know the correct value of a humanity. Kids sometimes have the wrong human value is not rare. They just need to be taught. It will only be sad if her parents don't know what she had said and have no chance to teach her the correct value. If anyone know this girl's parents, please tell her parents this situation. This will be a help to the girl.

ratafan

Haha, it's funny and normal!  I don't think it's a very big issue wor.  That reminds me when I was in primary school, when I found my classmate's house was 3000+ sq ft with a kitchen bigger than my entire apartment, I created stories saying that my home had a backyard.  When I heard my schoolmates bragging where they have been during Christmas holidays, I started fantasizing having spent a white Christmas at Finland Santa Clause town... That's only a dream, doesn't really harm! Girls like to compare with each other, particularly if they study at girls' schools.  When they were small, they try to compare the new dresses they have, the Barbie dolls they possess,...When they grow up, they like to compare with their friends how handsome their boyfriends are, how many boys invite them to dance in Christmas balls, ... When they got married, they like to compare how rich their husbands are, how cool and expensive their cars are, how smart their kids are... sometimes feeling jealous when I found others are better off.  But that's true!  There's always an inner self.  Kids are the most innocent, they wouldn't hide their feelings.  And what's more, most people are meant to be boasting of their achievement and wealth in character. That explains why LV, Hermes, Channel are so successful... a bit out of topic though.  There's no need to see psychiatrist or psychologists!  I have never seen one but I LIKE comparing with others!  I still find myself normal wor...

NT-1

It can occur in any kid in any school with any social backgound.  I don't see the point of having addressed such case existed in XXX school particularly.  Kids are innocent at this age.  Why do adults always label certain kids with certain pyschiatric concerns when they do or say something not appropriate to their ages??

IJai

that is so very sad

yaulinda

To my understanding + observation,
students from this school tend to compare their participation in extra curricular activities/ compare the ability of 扮靚/ than to compare wealth.

Edsie

you need $$ to go to extra curricular activities/  扮靚!!!!

4eyesDad

What will the school do about it?
Does this reflect the quality of teaching or value of the school and the larger society as a whole as much as the value of the parents?

mango22

原帖由 Erica-Lee 於 10-12-11 11:07 發表
I think her behaviour may not due to comparison of family background as she is just a little girl in P1. How can a small girl think in this way?? Sometimes, we adults may interpret their behavious usi ...

I agree ....!