男拔 Vs 林護

catcatmom

我有個街坊個仔, 小二轉入了喇小, 個男仔本來好頑劣, 係公園拉個小BB下來, 自己坐上個秋千, 跟住比亞媽大罵. 我個仔同佢係好好朋友, 但入了喇小後, 個男仔竟然成個人正經了, 乖了很多. 我見過多次佢地學生行為都唔多好, 聽聞中學生會好些.

不過後來亞仔同我講, 個男仔說:喇小好多男仔行為好差(可能男校既原因, 學生人數又多.), 蝦蝦霸霸, 有$既同學欺負無$既同學喎! 佢自己都比人蝦, 可能0甘樣乖了很多.

原帖由 csonliuson2000 於 10-12-13 17:09 發表
AnChan 59.
多謝你的意見.
我兒子在DBSPD 就讀. 基於一條龍. 並设有担心升到中學DBS. 但我兒生個子矮小, 常在校被蝦. 老師不管.學校根本不理, 所以產生離開念頭.
全家常常感到不快, 不是每個人都適合讀名校 !
是真實 ...

[ 本帖最後由 catcatmom 於 10-12-16 00:34 編輯 ]

artroboy

你嘗試用AnChan 既方法問吓仔仔, 如果佢既答案係否定及想離校, 每天都不想上學, 又無另一方法去解决的話. 咁你要認真地考慮幫佢轉校. 千祈唔好睇輕校園欺凌對小朋友成長背後的影響, 特別是長時期的. 名校固然係好, 但一所適合及提供愉快學習環境的學校對小朋友是更為重要. 不但可重拾回自信, 成績亦會上升及愛學習.
我當年 P. 3被一班(隔離班)自以為又靚又似公主既同學玩針對, 事源係我整穿咗個頭要紗布包住一個禮拜, 比班公主話我個頭生"棘厘" , 跟住次次一見我就由街尾喊到街頭. . 足足喊咗 3 年 . 其他班 d 小朋友都 . 真係 成班都chi chi 地.
好彩我個班都仲有幾個老死陪我, 但果幾年既感覺真係好難受. 好怕放 小息時間. 為免再有其他無厘頭既針對發生, 我嘗試令自己更强, 令自己變成令人喜愛的同學. 上到中學, 果班公主都有主動撩返我玩. 但果幾年既陰影始終都仲有 d d , 每次諗返都覺慘.
唯一好處係我變得比常人更喜歡鋤強扶弱,  but 最慘係我依家幾廿歲仲成日頂撞 Boss...維謢下屬.. 所以我就黎要比人炒 ga la.
講返正經野, 如果仔仔返學真係好 down, 就忠於自己既諗法 la, 無話一定係名校先有前途既. 條條大路通羅馬, add oil~!!

原帖由 csonliuson2000 於 10-12-15 22:45 發表
Astroboy,

"我以前讀女校, d 女仔小圈子行為更討厭, 又無厘頭咁玩針對. 有時自己都唔知衰乜".

I certainly agree with the above statement. I understand that a shool is a small society. He has to face it hi ...

[ 本帖最後由 artroboy 於 10-12-16 13:01 編輯 ]

SmallTungmama

你個 case同我朋友差不多,  結果他在升中時轉了校. 幸好他成績出眾, 很多學校也收他.

原帖由 csonliuson2000 於 10-12-13 17:09 發表
AnChan 59.
多謝你的意見.
我兒子在DBSPD 就讀. 基於一條龍. 並设有担心升到中學DBS. 但我兒生個子矮小, 常在校被蝦. 老師不管.學校根本不理, 所以產生離開念頭.
全家常常感到不快, 不是每個人都適合讀名校 !
是真實 ...

mayc

聽講喇小有一位名列前茅的學生選擇升林護不升自己中學,而我囝也有一位同學不升一條龍的中學去了林護!
我認識幾個DBS的學生,無論是名列前茅或是成績平平的,都是科科都補習!與其又要交學費,又要比補習費,不如慳返D學費!

原帖由 SmallTungmama 於 10-12-17 13:48 發表
你個 case同我朋友差不多,  結果他在升中時轉了校. 幸好他成績出眾, 很多學校也收他.

[ 本帖最後由 mayc 於 10-12-17 16:21 編輯 ]

ANChan59

原帖由 mayc 於 10-12-17 16:07 發表
聽講喇小有一位名列前茅的學生選擇升林護不升自己中學,而我囝也有一位同學不升一條龍的中學去了林護!
我認識幾個DBS的學生,無論是名列前茅或是成績平平的,都是科科都補習!與其又要交學費,又要比補習費,不如慳返D學費 ...

What's their names and which classes? What's the sample size?  
Just hearsays again

goodmum97

原帖由 mayc 於 10-12-17 16:07 發表
聽講喇小有一位名列前茅的學生選擇升林護不升自己中學,而我囝也有一位同學不升一條龍的中學去了林護!
我認識幾個DBS的學生,無論是名列前茅或是成績平平的,都是科科都補習!與其又要交學費,又要比補習費,不如慳返D學費 ...

My kid is studying in the elite class in DBS.  He does not have any private tuition class.  His classmates are all very intelligent and diligent.  May be birds of the same feather flock together.  He studies very hard by himself and he is among the top 20 in the whole form.  As far as I know, there are only a few of his classmates who have  some tutorial classes (normally English) outside the school.

ANChan59

In this forum, so many hearsays without any evidence.

Don't be upset.

I hate to say that a few parents or informant's hearsays on elite schools, because of jealous.

mayc

可能只是我認識的朋友是這樣,所以如果有冒犯貴校,請原諒!不過如果小朋友讀了六年都不開心,那就不應只留戀名校個名而繼續不開心下去!始終不是每一個小朋友都適合,而其實由喇小轉讀林護並不可笑,所謂聽講也是我朋友認識的,而我只也是想說林護確是一間不錯的學校!

[ 本帖最後由 mayc 於 10-12-20 10:15 編輯 ]

ElizabethLAI

原帖由 ANChan59 於 10-12-18 22:56 發表
I hate to say that a few parents or informant's hearsays on elite schools, because of jealous.

Really ?  You've got proof ?  
I think no matter which school in Hong Kong (even those people think they are the best of the best), you will hear good or bad comments from different people, it's quite natural because every person has their own preference and values treasured.  We must admit there is no perfect school in reality, but if I am satisfied with it, I don't need to be bothered by any neutral comments or even attack from others.

catcatmom

讀完喇小中學轉了去林護都好正常, 我同意那位樓主說, 林護比喇中一d都唔弱! 如果講公開考試平均成績, 喇中輸比林護. 從朋友口中聽番來, 就唔可以post出來嗎? 只要真便可以, 信與唔信各網人自己去判決吧!
讀完喇小轉林護, 都要好top至收!

原帖由 ANChan59 於 10-12-18 21:01 發表


What's their names and which classes? What's the sample size?  
Just hearsays again

[ 本帖最後由 catcatmom 於 10-12-20 12:00 編輯 ]

ANChan59

原帖由 mayc 於 10-12-20 10:00 發表
可能只是我認識的朋友是這樣,所以如果有冒犯貴校,請原諒!不過如果小朋友讀了六年都不開心,那就不應只留戀名校個名而繼續不開心下去!始終不是每一個小朋友都適合,而其實由喇小轉讀林護並不可笑,所謂聽講也是我朋友認 ...

I didn't say anything against LW, in my previous post I did say LW is a good school academically.

My point is some parents just quoted one or two samples from LS primary school and DBSPD changed to LW and concluded LW is better than LSC & DBSPD.

Back to the original post, I just offer suggestions to the post initiator, he or she needs to address the boy's problem, his or her concerns may not the real cause. He or she has the free will to pick whatever school is best fit the boy's interest.

ANChan59

原帖由 ElizabethLAI 於 10-12-20 10:49 發表

Really ?  You've got proof ?  
I think no matter which school in Hong Kong (even those people think they are the best of the best), you will hear good or bad comments from different people, it's quit ...

I agreed with what you said.

I only teased some parents just randomly quoted something and jump into conclusion.........

elbar

原帖由 csonliuson2000 於 10-12-8 15:46 發表
如果你有得揀, 你會揀邊間 ???

直資會揀 SPCC & DBS

自行會揀 1. QC  2. LW / TST

[ 本帖最後由 elbar 於 11-1-8 17:07 編輯 ]

meddlesome

Hi Parents,

I agreed to what ANchan said for DBS. He or she has definately pin-pointed the difference between DBS and LW.

My sons have been studied in DBSPD and DBS, too.

For DBSPD, it's a happy school but also with invisible pressure, too. Their academic requirement is high, but teaching is so, so (that's what I though). But generally speaking, students are very happy. Of course, there are cases of bullying at school if your son are not strong enough. I can tell, all boys no matter rich or not, they are very self-esteemed (or say arrogant). It's not being trained from school, but because they aware of themself being a elite out of the others. So if you are a bit weak (relatively speaking) at school, you will suffer.
But this kind of sitatuation might foster the weak to push up himself. This can be a kind of driving force.
It can be also a force to led boys feel uncomfortable if he can not break thru himself.

For DBS, parents are not happy because of the academic result is not really good. But for the boys, they are tremendous happy. Boys enjoy school, they have everything to play and explore themselves. Boys from DBS are very independent and agressive. DBS is different from any traditional schools which aiming on study only. Students are all-rounded. Don't put too much pressure on the academic aspects, you and your son will feel happy. The liberal atmosphere around the school will make you feel as if you are in an university. It's an university style secondary school.
All boys are clever and outstanding. Just some of them are not started yet to study (or say lazy). But competition in school in all aspects are still very keen.

If you have chance to admit into DBS, please go and try. It's an experience that outside school can not achieved. I am not hard sell, but why not try and you will feel yourself. Remember I am not emphasis on their academic result. But what your son get will be another side of his life.

Meddlesome

elbar

原帖由 thomas08 於 10-12-13 17:53 發表
林護好，夠進取！
其實所謂名校，不是想像中咁好架炸！男拔我有朋友在那裡教，亦有人在那讀，都不約而同叫我找些進取的学校好D

曾肇添 進取性都很強

ADALAM.

短變長
缺點其實又可以係優點

所有不合理
變得合理化

難怪李生 被人封為 超人(不過唔知道係唔係正義果隻 )

叻代表一切  

meddlesome

It's true. A coin has 2 sides. Everything have it's advantages and disadvantages that originated from the same point.

There are nothing prefect. There are no prefect schools as well.

Parents choose school will have to consider their advantages and disadvantages and weight them.

Meddlesome

ADALAM.

無家教都可以係有兩面

如果窮人無家教 會比人暗笑或歧視

佐如果屋企有錢 受過高等教育而無家教 就可以係正面GE

而且可以 高調 理直氣壯 咁講出黎

.......

呀!! 記得有句話  叫做

笑咩 不笑咩  

到底咩代表咩呢?:loveliness:

[ 本帖最後由 ADALAM. 於 11-1-17 22:32 編輯 ]