Interview 咗2間, 情况好似不妙.....

panbaby

係呀, 我嗰陣考之前只跟佢說去玩, 和老師 talk 吓, 話老師想見吓你, 吹吓水, 見完問佢點, 見佢冇反應便扮輕鬆算唔再提.  所以衰咗佢唔知我騰雞.

thomasha

Agreed.  I plan to open my mailbox without my son's presence, and be careful with letters received so that I can control what he should read and what he shouldn't.  

Even the calmest child will be disappointed when he/she knows he/she does not succeed in an interview (parents do too!), and it will affect their performance in other interviews.  

My child is very conscious about patterns and sequence of events, so I believe sooner or later he will ask why he has 2nd interviews in some schools (IF he has any, that is) and not others.  I would probably tell him that every school has different schedules, so we just have to be patient to wait for responses. :)

原帖由 cornelius 於 10-9-16 11:28 發表
Dear peipeiwong and parents,

Pls take it easy!  It may not be as worse as you have thought.  

And more importantly, pls do NOT tell the interview result to your little one immediately it is known.   ...

rosewong

小兒絕不是smart的那一群，故就算報考直資全軍覆沒也不足為奇，但我不太擔心“無書讀”，因政府一定會有offer的（除非您放棄自行派位和中央派位）。
另方面，自己亦考慮到學費的問題，所以現在除了報考三兩間直資和私校外，就是思量著填寫政府派位表格的策略。
（可能我真係預咗亞仔會無間收啦！）

原帖由 dlmcdlcl 於 10-9-15 21:19 發表
same same~ 間間的 submit date 都唔同. 真係好怕會miss左.....

我老公同我講, 盡左力就算,入唔到top school, 就聽天由命 (大抽獎) 點都有書讀~!! 入到一間唔係太差的小學, 加以栽培, p.2 再try



...

眼超超

我都就黎精神衰弱.

panbaby

其實報私校直資多數都想讀政府的, 個問題是政府可能派間豬頭骨給你...

原帖由 rosewong 於 10-9-16 12:07 發表
小兒絕不是smart的那一群，故就算報考直資全軍覆沒也不足為奇，但我不太擔心“無書讀”，因政府一定會有offer的（除非您放棄自行派位和中央派位）。
另方面，自己亦考慮到學費的問題，所以現在除了報考三兩間直資和私校外，就是思量 ...

cornelius

原帖由 眼超超 於 10-9-16 12:11 發表
我都就黎精神衰弱.

Cheer up and relax!!!  

There's a long way to go in the coming 17 years (1 year prior to primary education + 6 + 334) or more.

steve666

好中呀，我眼淚水都出埋。

原帖由 manmak88 於 10-9-16 11:04 發表
大家加油, 其實我覺得
大家來得這裡, 有心為小朋友前途著想, 已經贏了
就算到最後入唔好心目中的學校, 不用灰心, 你一定是比其他人會教自己的小朋友
人始終有高底, 做好自己過到自己就應該開心一些 ...

rosewong

所以我宜家諗緊好唔好第一輪就填間勝算大但唔係自己首選嘅學校，攞個保險，但就嘥左個機會，然後博最心儀

d2343130

如果心儀果間唔係多人爭,不如全力"自行"同"統一"都填佢, 中間時間寫定信比校長, 到最後都派唔到, 再寫信叩門, 起碼"誠意"有到出哂面, 機會都多d.

原帖由 rosewong 於 10-9-16 12:42 發表
所以我宜家諗緊好唔好第一輪就填間勝算大但唔係自己首選嘅學校，攞個保險，但就嘥左個機會，然後博最心儀

d2343130

我估唔識唔重要.
最大問題係, 對人無反應, 無禮, 失控, 要搵家長.....

原帖由 戀仔狂 於 10-9-15 19:57 發表
我仲驚過你, 我阿仔in左2間, 佢話有問題唔識答, 淨係粒聲唔出咁望住個老師.......mouth:" />
佢講返比我知o個陣好唔開心, 我安慰佢話下次再努力啦, 總之唔好驚就得架啦~~ ...

d2343130

考到心儀小學一定"當時"好高興, 但亦有機會入學之後對學校亦會"好興"都唔定. 因為每個小朋友都有特質, 如學校唔好理佢呢d特質, 可能令小朋友同家長都好"難過".....

anyway, 人生中學習只是之初, 仲有好多好多事要同小朋友共同拆解......

有一個正向的思維, 萬事可解!

peipeiwong

原帖由 panbaby 於 10-9-16 11:50 發表
係呀, 我嗰陣考之前只跟佢說去玩, 和老師 talk 吓, 話老師想見吓你, 吹吓水, 見完問佢點, 見佢冇反應便扮輕鬆算唔再提.  所以衰咗佢唔知我騰雞.

I said the same to my son, but he is mature enough to know it is an interview during which he will be asked questions or asked to do somethings.  He is nervous because he knows he is slow and is afraid he doesn't understand the teacher's instructions.

peipeiwong

原帖由 cornelius 於 10-9-16 11:28 發表
Dear peipeiwong and parents,

Pls take it easy!  It may not be as worse as you have thought.  

And more importantly, pls do NOT tell the interview result to your little one immediately it is known.   ...

Thanks for your warm sharing.  We won't tell my son the results until we have confirmed the final decision (well, in case we have the luck to "select"), we don't let me feel we are changing mind frequently.

peipeiwong

Thanks all parents for your kind advices and encouragement.  I am a bit frustrated and worried, but am positive to manage this and see what we can do more to help providing a better path to my son.  That's why I am struggling whether we should apply more DSS/private schools.......     I think I will add 2 - 3 more on my list.

thomasha

Politeness and manners will also be a factor to be considered.  If your child can ask the teacher politely when he does not understand, it may in fact be an advantage.  The process of the interview itself is just as important (or even more important) than getting the correct answers.

原帖由 peipeiwong 於 10-9-16 15:11 發表


I said the same to my son, but he is mature enough to know it is an interview during which he will be asked questions or asked to do somethings.  He is nervous because he knows he is slow and is afr ...

cpcog

Would you tell me what is 一線尾的直資私校?

原帖由 yhk329 於 10-9-16 06:13 發表


就算報直資私校都係有策略的
全部只攻個d幾千人申請的
如果唔係好smart,真係會全軍覆末

舊年我自知小朋友唔係讀最top學校的材料
只係報左幾間一線尾的直資私校
結果報四間都有三間得
大家最緊要係量力而為
大人同 ...

ANChan59

A quick suggestion that seems to be useful for my friends' kids.

1. Find some friends who are teachers as interviewer to drill on their skills;

2. Record the process and review with the kids. (When you said they are moving their body during interview, they may agrue with you, review the video, they will know the problem and correct that before the actual interview).

[ 本帖最後由 ANChan59 於 10-9-17 13:09 編輯 ]

KLeemama

After each interview i would take my girl to somewhere nice, just to make sure she would not afraid of "interview". 各位加油啊！

cat_house

過來人經驗...同意
小朋友面試出來乜都講唔到比你聽﹐你重驚。

原帖由 d2343130 於 10-9-16 12:49 發表
我估唔識唔重要.
最大問題係, 對人無反應, 無禮, 失控, 要搵家長.....

愚人

我個仔2次去interview, 之前1.2 日都問點解要去. 唔想去. 當日一穿起d 靚仔衫, 當堂醒晒, 一定要準時, 老師叫名自己走出去排隊.
去完之後就話好好玩, 聽日可唔可以再來.
比佢激死.