個仔好怕醜，可以點解救?

Charlottebee

我個仔好怕醜，見到陌生人固然之唔出聲，就算係見到啲 Uncles/Aunties (我地啲朋友) 都面無表情，連打招呼都難要佢開口。 老師都話佢係比較內向，唔多出聲嗰個。 但佢响屋企就完全唔同，咀 gel gel，好多嘢講。 點算??

請各位媽咪賜教，會唔會有辦法或者參加甚麼訓練可令佢大膽D，唔好咁怕見人。

bigkids

how old is your son ar?
try to go to join some playgroup and see see.

Charlottebee

原帖由 bigkids 於 09-12-2 01:47 發表
how old is your son ar?
try to go to join some playgroup and see see.

He is in primary 1.

JJandSS

Try drama lah, like PIP, my son got same problem in kindergarten (he even simply hid behind me when he saw someone other than his family members), i organise some drama course with stage expereince in this summer, now he is in P1, he did improved a lot and not so shy as before. other than this, for your own training, repeatedly repeatedly reinforce him to greet people, say hello etc at least even though he may be reluctant, even he did not do it, don't scold, let it be, but remind him again and again, i use 3 yrs to make my son to say hello to others, as mommy, our face must be very think and we must be patient too. keep up

原帖由 Charlottebee 於 09-11-30 15:51 發表
我個仔好怕醜，見到陌生人固然之唔出聲，就算係見到啲 Uncles/Aunties (我地啲朋友) 都面無表情，連打招呼都難要佢開口。 老師都話佢係比較內向，唔多出聲嗰個。 但佢响屋企就完全唔同，咀 gel gel，好多嘢講。 點算??

請各位 ...

lokaci

Chatlottebee,

我係之前有講關於LEE樣嘢，你可以去睇下.


http://forum.edu-kingdom.com/vie ... ;page=1#pid32549647

Charlottebee

原帖由 JJandSS 於 09-12-7 12:39 發表
Try drama lah, like PIP, my son got same problem in kindergarten (he even simply hid behind me when he saw someone other than his family members), i organise some drama course with stage expereince in ...

Thanks for your encouragement!

有時候我也會叫佢自己買東西,付錢, 如去麥記買軟雪糕, 或去餐廳攞飛仔排隊食飯,不過通常佢都表現到好緊張話唔肯去. Anyway, 我會繼續叫佢去嘗試.

daisy17772

I think some ECA would be helpful but only if it is of his interest.  For the same token, a person would be more motivated to make the way for himself if that particular event interests him.  e.g. Getting him to buy food himself at McDonald's, if he's interested in buying some toys/games, let him ask for stocks/price etc.  If he's not doing it for him, don't give in, and don't do it for him.  Then gradually you are sending a signal to him that if he wants something, he has to ask for it.

Start training a kid to solve a situation /find out solutions himself/herself since they are small will be more beneficial.

Charlottebee

我想幫我個怕羞仔報D類似話劇,朗誦或合唱班, 等佢有D面對群眾既機會練大膽, 請問各位媽咪知唔知道沙田區有沒有呢D興趣班參加?

cherrypiano09

我係鋼琴老師,其實多學生都係敢 ,所以現家我開始讀child 心理學去了解小朋友,其實音樂有時係可以培養小朋友self-confidence ,多d表演慾, 可以make 小孩o既信心反回來,而且個人仲開心o左dim, 咁o既case 唔好胡亂去d playgroup 住,因為間間教育中心d 質素唔同,有時好沒系統.

Charlottebee

原帖由 cherrypiano09 於 09-12-15 17:43 發表
我係鋼琴老師,其實多學生都係敢 ,所以現家我開始讀child 心理學去了解小朋友,其實音樂有時係可以培養小朋友self-confidence ,多d表演慾, 可以make 小孩o既信心反回來,而且個人仲開心o左dim, 咁o既case 唔好胡亂去d p ...

其實佢現在有學緊彈琴, 不過我諗學彈琴都只係一對一, 未有好多機會面對群眾, 所以想佢去d活動小小、人多d的興趣班習慣多點面對群眾.

ymc2727

我個囡今年k3, 以前佢都係咁, 見到陌生auntie 撩佢, 佢仲喊添, 之後我日日同佢出街, 等佢比d sales 姐姐撩, 等佢同人多d 對話機會
返咗學之後, 就同佢d 同學仔混熟d, 等佢固定有一班朋友仔, 當然d mami 又會一齊出嚟gathering, 個女見多幾次同學仔d mami, 就自然冇咁驚青, 開始會主動行埋去d auntie 度講朋友仔d 曳嘢
我諗你個囝都係唔多識同陌生大人溝通, 你由一班熟朋友開始會易入手d

katherinelam825

re cherry 老師:
其實我大學主修心理學我都係彈琴, 你只係讀左少少兒童心理學, 了解小朋友幾多呢? 同埋child psy 的知識好多都同教琴沒有太大關係, 你點apply心理學知識去教琴呢 ? 如果無好多咩theory 可以apply, 你係咪唔應該用心理學係度出pose 呢? 同埋增加self confidence 前你點同佢地communicate 呢? 一個教佢地的人要有咩素質呢?? (唔好只答我有愛心同埋耐性)
希望你用老師身份的時候, 講野要負責, 唔好誤導人, 同埋一科child psy 係唔夠了解一個小朋友, 只可話多d info

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kwokleungkk

如果想小朋友在群體活動中成長，可以考慮做童軍或者其他制服團體。

sara_mama

好辦法！