點教d小朋友, 先可以主動做功課呢?

JOJA

亞仔小二啦

仍然係叫先做少少
要等我放工回家才可以督住做

家中只有工人姐姐
但佢又要湊妹妹

可以點教會好d呢?

thanks.

leyangel

用奘罰既方法,令天自己做功課,就係個挂曆度畫個心心,OR 奘個貼紙比佢,連續存夠10個 就有奘,(要話比佢聽點解會有呢個奘)如果有一日係無既就要罰...我自己係用呢個方法,亞女現在好好多,雖然有時佢未必可以堅持到連續10日都自動自覺,但都要比小小奘佢...安慰奘  哈哈~~~ 同時叫佢下次再加油,就有大奘喇~ 小朋友覺得好有成就感GA,同時佢也都知道因為生活所以爸爸媽媽要做野,而佢本身既責任就係好好讀書!每個人都有唔同既工作...慢慢來~~

謙謙媽ME

其實我又想問, 係咪佢自己肯做, 即使啲字寫得唔靚都要讚賞佢呀? 因為我個仔有時會好乖, 打電話黎話我知媽咪我做晒功課, 但返屋企睇, 啲字好似打風咁

lin624

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同老師商量好

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原帖由 JOJA 於 09-10-29 14:41 發表
亞仔小二啦

仍然係叫先做少少
要等我放工回家才可以督住做

家中只有工人姐姐
但佢又要湊妹妹

可以點教會好d呢?

thanks.

yuenwa

我個女每日都要行170級樓梯先返到學, 所以佢好怕揹書包.  佢每日都要留係學校2個小時等我揍佢, 我都要佢係學校做功課.  如果佢有做功課, 就算未做哂, 我都幫佢揹書包, 但如果佢冇做, 佢就要自己揹.

琴日佢冇做功課, 我就罰佢今日自己揹書包上學校, 佢一路行一路叫辛苦.  所以今日佢係學校就算有課外活動, 佢都搵時間做左兩樣功課.

我讚成獎罰分明, 但我唔係成日會獎個女.  一來我個女從來唔受物質引誘, 佢真係無慾無求. 我試過話佢自動係學校做好功課, 會獎佢一D野, 佢唔想做的話, 佢情願唔要獎勵.  二來做功課溫習等都係佢既本份, 佢做得好係應該, 做得唔好就一定要罰.

yuenwa

原帖由 謙謙媽ME 於 09-10-29 18:31 發表
其實我又想問, 係咪佢自己肯做, 即使啲字寫得唔靚都要讚賞佢呀? 因為我個仔有時會好乖, 打電話黎話我知媽咪我做晒功課, 但返屋企睇, 啲字好似打風咁 ...

我個女由K2 開始寫字, 我就有明確話佢知我既標準, 不達標就一定會比我擦, 擦左兩三個月, 就唔敢馬虎.  

所以而家小一, 佢自己做既功課, 除非做錯, 字體通常都好端正.

如果我係你, 我會先讚佢自律, 話佢知媽咪係好開心. 但可惜不達標, 所以要再做過. 但就唔好要佢全部做過哂, 只係擦d好過份的.  但要佢知你的標準, 以後唔可以馬虎.

[ 本帖最後由 yuenwa 於 09-10-29 22:17 編輯 ]

happyvalley

唔想咁快做完功課的理由，就是因為太快做完，跟住還有添加的工作要做，所以拖得就拖。

妳試下話比佢聽，過左七點，就一定要休息，自由時間，佢會立即快快搞掂。

JOJA

多謝大家的分享
等我又試下大家分享的方法先

咁坊間的補習社又如何呢?
我怕小孩子已經上完全日課
再去補習社會好辛苦

但係同區有一間補習社的口碑都幾好
所以若自己做功課係唔work
就諗住試下

始終等我放工回家都要七點幾
吃過飯就八點幾先開始做下功課
遇著明天要默書考試
都要十點幾, 十一點先訓得
都幾辛苦.

yuenwa

原帖由 JOJA 於 09-10-29 22:55 發表
多謝大家的分享
等我又試下大家分享的方法先

咁坊間的補習社又如何呢?
我怕小孩子已經上完全日課
再去補習社會好辛苦

但係同區有一間補習社的口碑都幾好
所以若自己做功課係唔work
就諗住試下

始終等我放工回家都 ...

有d補習託管 (例如 灣仔愛群道浸信會), 小朋友放學後就去, 佢地會幫你睇住小朋友做哂功課, 小朋友唔識做亦會教佢做, 做完功課都會叫小朋友溫習, 但就唔保證小朋友測驗考試合格, 要家長自行同小朋友溫習.  

如果小朋友放學後去, 有人督住做好功課, 家長大概6-7點揍返屋企, 只係同小朋友溫習, 時間會好用好多.

我冇比個女去補習託管, 因為佢可以留係學校有教學助理看管, 但就唔會強制我個女做功課, 所以我要想辦法令個女主動做.

我住得遠, 同個女返到屋企最快都要7點. 通常個女做完功課後, 我會同佢重溫一次當日所學的課本, 主要係睇下佢識唔識.  所以唔會用好多時間.  但每個weekend, 就花好多時間深層溫習, 做補充同默書.  有時老師未叫默書, 我都會同佢默定, 等真係要默時就唔使花好多時間溫.

Laputa

MY approach is very different from you all.  My girl is now K.3.  There is only 2 homework each day and she studied in PM class.  In K.2 she would not starting doing homework until I wentback home.  Starting this year, I

1. Constantly telling her that doing homework is her responsibility as a child/student.  The earlier you finish homework, the more time we can play together.
2.  Play with her everytime she finishes her homework and keep saying that if you could finish your homework earlier, we can play longer and more games.  We did colouring, craft, game book, reading, anything she wanted to play with me.
4.  If she doesn't do her homework and wait until I come back home, I will ask her to do her work in her room and play with the younger sister at living room.  She is not allowed to join until she finish all her work.  Of course, I will still emphaize that I really would like to play with her as well and wish that she could arrange her time tomorrow so that we can play together.

these work for my girl and the good point about this is not linked to any stickers and rewards that are materials.  Finish work early and you can have more time to play, that's the incentive.