小朋友入左名校, 但 ....

CFaHB

滿江紅 .... or arm arm 合格多 dd

佢媽咪怪學校太深, 比分比得緊 .... (不過又有人可以攞到近滿分)

小朋友初小咋 ...

當年入到名校, 佢媽咪真係開心到顛架, 所以一定唔會轉校

我唯有叫佢再努力d啦, 個底打唔好, 點再上呀 ?

佢同小朋友已經日日開火, 咁好咩 ?

JT2008

咁樣好大鑊..攪到小朋友對讀書無興趣..幾時到大呀........

good-boy

入名校, 預深 ........

huayan

勉強無幸福...

MaggieHei

如果係我, 會轉校.

因此間學校似乎唔多適知個小朋友. 佢依定先 p2, 幾時才完成 p6 !

而且, 佢成績唔好, 好影響佢自信同學習興趣.

名校係好......不過, 都要睇個小朋友受唔受.

普通學校也能教出好學生......

ttpp

agreed, but if we don't try, how do we know? or maybe the child is a late starter and will catch up later on (I've seen many examples when I was at school).

If changing school from 名校, where would you go? Primary schools that are next level down will normally push the kids even harder, so that their students can get into Secondary 名校.  So for us, perhaps the only choice is to leave "traditional" type of schooling and into international schools.

原帖由 huayan 於 09-10-20 13:22 發表
勉強無幸福...

fsforth

賽翁得馬,焉知非禍;賽翁失馬,焉知非福

gym

Need to find out the root of the problem.  Changing schools may or may not help.

momochiu

which school? 有D 唔多出名學校都好谷, 同D名校一樣谷底, 反而有D名校都唔係好谷。

[ 本帖最後由 momochiu 於 09-10-20 13:58 編輯 ]

daisy17772

Find out the reason why the kid is lag behind. Is it related to the way of their teaching, or the way your child is most motivated in learning?  Or does this have anything to do with a particular teacher, and a particular subject?  
There're other schools in HK (not int'l schools) that do education differently from local elite schools, e.g. logos academy, 優才書院, 國際基督教優質音樂中學暨小學 etc., apart from taking the extreme by going to int'l schools.


Think from the other way, it's not a bad thing to find out there're some problems in P1, at least it's not so late, that the parents could have a chance to reflect on the selection of school for the kids.

daisy17772

原帖由 momochiu 於 09-10-20 13:55 發表
which school? 有D 唔多出名學校都好谷, 同D名校一樣谷底, 反而有D名校都唔係好谷。

Yes usually, if those elite schools are 1 dragon schools, they don't need to be too pushy as there're still years for the school to help improve their students, without having to meet the pressure of secondary allocation.

G-Ma

我會觀察多一年, 如果仲係咁, 我諗我會幫小朋友轉校, 再咁讀落去小朋友會無哂自信心, 對讀書會無興趣, 影響深遠.

原帖由 CFaHB 於 09-10-20 13:01 發表
滿江紅 .... or arm arm 合格多 dd

佢媽咪怪學校太深, 比分比得緊 .... (不過又有人可以攞到近滿分)

小朋友初小咋 ...

當年入到名校, 佢媽咪真係開心到顛架, 所以一定唔會轉校

我唯有叫佢再努力d啦, 個底打唔好, ...

goodboyg

讀完書最終都是工作，讀書同出社會做事是兩回事，有D人讀書唔叻，但工作有成就，最重要的是學習經歷人生，面對逆景懂自強，天生我才必有用，多D鼓勵啦！可以重讀架！

hlbaby2004

邊間小學？

原帖由 CFaHB 於 09-10-20 13:01 發表
滿江紅 .... or arm arm 合格多 dd

佢媽咪怪學校太深, 比分比得緊 .... (不過又有人可以攞到近滿分)

小朋友初小咋 ...

當年入到名校, 佢媽咪真係開心到顛架, 所以一定唔會轉校

我唯有叫佢再努力d啦, 個底打唔好, ...

InitialD

If this is by allocation, it must be either SJ or LS.

原帖由 hlbaby2004 於 09-10-20 17:44 發表
邊間小學？

[ 本帖最後由 InitialD 於 09-10-20 18:09 編輯 ]

火柴人媽媽

非常認同  

原帖由 goodboyg 於 09-10-20 17:07 發表
讀完書最終都是工作，讀書同出社會做事是兩回事，有D人讀書唔叻，但工作有成就，最重要的是學習經歷人生，面對逆景懂自強，天生我才必有用，多D鼓勵啦！可以重讀架！ ...

ETdad

Agree with daisy1772 and goodboyg.
Maybe parents could provide more assistance to the child such as accompany them while they are doing homework (not doing for them), reading books or revisions.
Find out if they really understand what they read.
Otherwise may need to strengthen those areas that they are weak in.
They will need guidance/help in knowing which are the important points to remember for the tests.
Each of our children is unique and with different learning ability.
All in all, parents should learn to control themselves and don’t expect they have the adult’s understanding and reasoning.
We should recall how good we were when we were at their age.
Relax and let’s encourage one another!

martse

我建議嗰個媽咪要找個老師睇功課用教佢個仔....
二年班啫, 仲有好多時間追, ...我有個friend係名校小學時期都滿江紅,到中學先開 hill, 依家咪都係係名大學出呢做律師....爸爸媽媽們要堅持啊, 我地d仔女既潛質有時係無咁早爆出呢....不過千其唔好比個小朋友太大壓力同打擊佢既自信...唔好放棄呀~

MARTSE

原帖由 CFaHB 於 09-10-20 13:01 發表
滿江紅 .... or arm arm 合格多 dd

佢媽咪怪學校太深, 比分比得緊 .... (不過又有人可以攞到近滿分)

小朋友初小咋 ...

當年入到名校, 佢媽咪真係開心到顛架, 所以一定唔會轉校

我唯有叫佢再努力d啦, 個底打唔好, ...

davidmimi

如果係名校成績差便轉去普通學校.

轉去到普通學校都成績差又如何呢?? 係咪轉去國際學校呢??

轉校絕對係消極做法.