interview期間孩子唔願坐走左去, 應該點?

Toffeenut

我個囝十分好動, 平時上Playgroup都好多時坐唔定又唔俾人捉實坐o向度, 工人帶就好好多, 我帶就...

想問可以點做?

eggmama

I don't have effective method for such case as my girl was like that when she was 18-20 months, but I want to remind you -- don't raise up your voice during interview, keep smiling even your kid is not cooperative. Teachers may understand the kid and appreciate your patient.

原帖由 Toffeenut 於 09-10-14 00:42 發表
我個囝十分好動, 平時上Playgroup都好多時坐唔定又唔俾人捉實坐o向度, 工人帶就好好多, 我帶就...

想問可以點做?

Toffeenut

多謝你的意見呀!!!
咁我應該行去捉番佢埋座位(佢可能10秒內又走左去), 定還是由得佢呢(佢捉左去係四圍攪課室入面d野)?

scholar

interview只要表現他平時一樣就可以.

你囝囝係坐唔定,即使佢interview可以坐定定呃到人,返學一日老師都會知.

如果學校覺得ok就會收,如果學校唔識處理,佢收咗你可能對你個仔冇好處.

bbeasy25

I have experience.  My son was not sitting on the chair more than 1 minute during HKPS interview. But the teacher was keep telling me that no problem, just want to see your son and understood child like to walk around.  I think no hope at all after interview.  However, I got acceptance letter.  Don't worry.

Toffeenut

scholar,

其實根本就無可能呃到老師... 就算我想, 都無可能, 個囝點會俾面我...

bbeasy25,

如果係咁就放心點了! HKPS我都會報的, 想請問, 咁小朋友走開左後老師做咩呢? 係咪同你傾完計, 就唔再繼續小朋友果part interview呢? 同埋佢地係外籍老師定本地老師面試架?

bbeasy25

外籍老師 interviewed us but it was random.  Teacher just talked to my husband and I catches my son to sit down, and repeated this action again again.  I have no time to talk to teacher.  

If you interested in HKPS, you should adapt their admin service, and also they will change policy without notice.

kerkermui

原帖由 Toffeenut 於 09-10-14 11:34 發表
多謝你的意見呀!!!
咁我應該行去捉番佢埋座位(佢可能10秒內又走左去), 定還是由得佢呢(佢捉左去係四圍攪課室入面d野)? mouth:" />

我會話: 唔好意思, 呢度太過有趣喇.. 太吸引喇! (可以加多句: 佢好奇心好强架.. 平時鍾意... )
然後睇吓老師有咩反應.. 佢可能會話隨得佢.. 又可能會幫手引佢返嚟
呢d嘢.. 隨緣啦!
總之記住: 嗰度唔係教仔嘅地方, 俾個慈母樣+好明白小朋友就ok

Toffeenut

多謝咁多位媽咪俾意見! 感激萬分!
我諗我都算好有耐性既(俾個囝訓練出黎), 希望到時佢起碼俾少少反應老師, 咁就算結果係點, 我都滿意了.

bbeasy25,
你所講... 是否對此校admin有意見呀? 如果提出或pm話我知?

kerkermui

原帖由 Toffeenut 於 09-10-15 14:42 發表


你所講... 是否對此校admin有意見呀? 如果提出或pm話我知? ...

你search吓d舊post啦..
kln tong嗰間超收.. 通知家長返1/3/5 , 2/4/6
迫d家長quit, 嗰d有幾個offer 嗰d quit哂.. 佢就夠位.. 然後通常d家長返1-5!

聽聞interview都好亂~

但係Ascot就好似樣無乜點聽到有negative嘅嘢..

jswailam928

我都睇過呢個post, 1,3,5-2,4,6事件
仲睇過話呢間係好難入的, 因為又係有n班, so 2010 k1 會好難入, 之前我都想報, 而家都係no la.........

MYPPBB

My son used to be walking around when he was in playgroup.  I asked the teacher for advice and she told me to control him from walking away.  If he gets used to walking around in class, he will not sit still in the future. I have to let him know how to behave in class.  After that, I have always reminded him to sit properly during the playgroup but not forcing him to sit.  Now he is in N1, and the teacher told me, sometimes, he will walk in class, but not frequently, and the teacher said it is acceptable at his age.

When he attended interviews last year, I usually would arrive only 5 to 10 min before interview and would not let him play too much before the interview.  If he got used to the environment or in the mood of playing, he would not sit still.  But different kids have different characters, some ppls would let their kids arrive 20 min earlier for adapting to the new environment.

miffy3in1

My son also likes to walk around in playgroup.  Could you share with us in more detail how you reminded him to sit still without forcing him?  Do you mean you just follow him and ask him to sit down when he starts to walk around?  I'm also very worried about having him develop such bad habit

原帖由 MYPPBB 於 09-10-16 00:36 發表
My son used to be walking around when he was in playgroup.  I asked the teacher for advice and she told me to control him from walking away.  If he gets used to walking around in class, he will not si ...

Toffeenut

我都好想知點做...
我個囝一要走, 佢唔會俾我捉住, 我唔跟佢, 就咁坐o向度叫佢, 佢好似聽唔到咁望都唔望我, 佢走開太耐(2mins), 我走去叫佢坐, 慢慢拖佢埋位, 佢知又要坐, 會掙扎要走. 總之就係, 佢唔想做就無辦法攪, 佢想做的佢又可以坐好耐(10mins).
另一個問題, 我覺得個囝越來越唔聽話係個工人太縱容佢, 佢想要乜好快就俾佢, 佢食飯扭計又俾玩具又開電視, 我o向屋企時就可以control佢, 但一唔o係屋企, 佢又係咁樣, 咁點好呀....

MYPPBB

原帖由 miffy3in1 於 09-10-16 10:10 AM 發表
My son also likes to walk around in playgroup.  Could you share with us in more detail how you reminded him to sit still without forcing him?  Do you mean you just follow him and ask him to sit down w ...

Usually when I noticed he wanted to get up and walk, I would side track him to other things, like pointing to sth else suddenly or pretended to have sth interested, so that he forgot his intention to get away.  If that didn't work, I would hold him a bit tight and told him other kids were listening or performing the tasks, he should do the same as other kids.  If he insisted to stand up and walk away, I would play the stuff myself or played with other kids and looked like it was very interesting, then sometimes, he would come back.

It was difficult in the beginning, but I kept on trying and trying. His frequency on walking away would reduce time after time.

Hope the above could help!

Toffeenut

Thank you so much for your advice! I think I need to try all you suggested until my son takes a glance at me!!

ami0momo

原帖由 Toffeenut 於 09-10-16 02:04 PM 發表
我都好想知點做...
我個囝一要走, 佢唔會俾我捉住, 我唔跟佢, 就咁坐o向度叫佢, 佢好似聽唔到咁望都唔望我, 佢走開太耐(2mins), 我走去叫佢坐, 慢慢拖佢埋位, 佢知又要坐, 會掙扎要走. 總之就係, 佢唔想做就無辦法攪 ...

你要明白工人係幫你打工, 佢唔係你阿媽唔會幫你教仔, 教仔呢d事一定要自己親力親為, 如果唔係就算佢識都唔會做比你睇 :) 咁細個小朋友想佢定定地, 只可以利誘, 唔可以用硬功~ 多d留意佢地對咩有興趣, 出到街既時候先知道點可以令到佢地安安靜靜 :)

GraceMatt

good point.  So many HK parents always pass the teaching kid responsibility to the helper. If they can see the number of children who got the speech delay problem,  they won't only rely on helper and TV program to teach their children.  
This is so sad that I got two friends' children got the speech delay problem.. so I tried to do better in my role.  

原帖由 ami0momo 於 09-10-21 02:50 發表


你要明白工人係幫你打工, 佢唔係你阿媽唔會幫你教仔, 教仔呢d事一定要自己親力親為, 如果唔係就算佢識都唔會做比你睇 :) 咁細個小朋友想佢定定地, 只可以利誘, 唔可以用硬功~ 多d留意佢地對咩有興趣, 出到街既時候 ...

Toffeenut

原帖由 GraceMatt 於 09-10-21 11:37 發表
good point.  So many HK parents always pass the teaching kid responsibility to the helper. If they can see the number of children who got the speech delay problem,  they won't only rely on helper and  ...

我諗好多家長都知道及認同你地所講既~
不過GraceMatt你講的家長, 應該都是外出工作由朝做到晚, 我想, 絕大部份家長(尤其做母親的)都唔想完全依賴外傭/dvd去教小孩, 只是身不由己, 放工返屋企個囝/囡都瞓左, 早返屋企都仲會親身照顧/教孩子, 我好多朋友都係返全職工兼顧教囝架, 我就好彩唔駛點返工, 我都好佩服我d朋友好似有用不完的精力.