很不好受 - 小一選校

ecbaby818

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發表於 08-10-19 14:09 |只看該作者

that's right. my son is going to DBS interview this Friday, i take it as an opportunity to find out how well my boy performs among all the others, just an experience for him and for us as parents.
just take it easy, my good luck will knock my door.

Chunyan

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平常心面對la

ting0308

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發表於 08-10-22 21:54 |只看該作者

無辦法啦！家陣遊戲係咁玩，我地做家長都要無奈接受，大家千祈唔好放棄呀。

Hubert媽

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發表於 08-10-23 09:32 |只看該作者

失落完英華再失落smc, 真係好唔開心并開始埋怨自己點解幼稚園唔幫佢搵間英文好d比佢讀......間接將自己情緒放咗亞仔身上, 佢知道星期五六同星期六都要去interview, 亞仔問如果佢唔識咁點, 見到佢好似知道我唔開心, 現在仲要等多三間公佈結果真係好難受.....

loy211

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發表於 08-10-23 10:02 |只看該作者

無得返轉頭,原本名私小/直資都是要系出名門,又或者可以說那些學校出名深,學生兩文三語輕易掌握,我都有後悔,當時有間九龍塘幼稚園收仔仔,但太遠我放棄了.
算啦!向前望吧!不要灰心,互勉之.

lenmama

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發表於 08-10-23 11:07 |只看該作者

Hi parents,
In fact, the schools give you offer or not which is not totally relatived to the ability of your kids, it affects by many factors, like the own opinion/subjective judgement of the interviewer, the situation of your kids during the interview, or even the school think that the family is not fitted for the school, don't forget that parents need to fill in the questionnaire at 1st interview. So, the result is not realistic at all, believed your kids & encourage them to behaviour at their best.

rookiemom

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發表於 08-10-23 11:33 |只看該作者

remember it's only October now, there are many many months to go before everything is final, in June lots of seats will be available from good schools(well, may be not the top schools), don't show disappointment in front of your kids, they can sense it, be positive!

原帖由 Hubert媽 於 08-10-23 09:32 發表
失落完英華再失落smc, 真係好唔開心并開始埋怨自己點解幼稚園唔幫佢搵間英文好d比佢讀......間接將自己情緒放咗亞仔身上, 佢知道星期五六同星期六都要去interview, 亞仔問如果佢唔識咁點, 見到佢好似知道我唔開心, ...

Venuscheng

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原帖由 Hubert媽 於 08-10-23 09:32 發表
失落完英華再失落smc, 真係好唔開心并開始埋怨自己點解幼稚園唔幫佢搵間英文好d比佢讀......間接將自己情緒放咗亞仔身上, 佢知道星期五六同星期六都要去interview, 亞仔問如果佢唔識咁點, 見到佢好似知道我唔開心, ...

我阿仔in左陳守仁, 發覺佢的英文唔係好得, 令我都諗緊我細女好唔好讓她讀國際班的幼稚園. 但我hb反對, 佢認為幼稚園唔洗讀咁貴的, 真係煩惱.

Charlotte_mom

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醒目開學勳章王國長老


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唔好咁啦, 其實中文係難學過英文的, 上左小學, 你就知唔會後悔
信我啦, 揀學校係matching game, 入唔到唔代表佢唔叻, 千祈唔好怪小朋友, 你睇佢已經開始有壓力了, 咁對佢interview係有影響的
唔好俾小朋友覺得自己俾人揀緊, 感覺真係幾差的, 你自己都心痛啦, 當interview係大家俾個機會認識大家, 得就最好, 唔得, 盡左力總叫無遺憾, 如果係有實力既, 出年插班lor
relax & good luck!
有無考d二線學校做back up呀, 有個offer o係手, 個心定好多架

原帖由 Hubert媽 於 08-10-23 09:32 AM 發表
失落完英華再失落smc, 真係好唔開心并開始埋怨自己點解幼稚園唔幫佢搵間英文好d比佢讀......間接將自己情緒放咗亞仔身上, 佢知道星期五六同星期六都要去interview, 亞仔問如果佢唔識咁點, 見到佢好似知道我唔開心, ...

Hubert媽

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發表於 08-10-23 13:39 |只看該作者

其實都試過叫自己順其自然, 但當學校供佈結果後始終都發覺放唔低, 不過現在都已經要想定大抽獎抽邊幾間好, 最怕就是亞仔入了些不太好的學校(因為自己住嗰區的校網不是太好)

loy211

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發表於 08-10-23 19:24 |只看該作者

我的情況一樣,自己區的網不大好,始終有間私小在手就安心.
大抽獎好難講,唔怕一萬最怕萬一.

loy211

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發表於 08-10-27 14:41 |只看該作者

坦白說:這幾個月真的很顛,由上網找各間學校資料,至索取表格,聽講座,填問卷,面試,試過一天走兩間,等消息,失敗,又等消息,那份無奈,無助非筆墨可以形容.我真的很累,很累......

Venuscheng

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發表於 08-10-27 17:57 |只看該作者

原帖由 loy211 於 08-10-27 14:41 發表
坦白說:這幾個月真的很顛,由上網找各間學校資料,至索取表格,聽講座,填問卷,面試,試過一天走兩間,等消息,失敗,又等消息,那份無奈,無助非筆墨可以形容.我真的很累,很累...... ...

上星期in了三間學校, in完真係鬆一口氣, 現在只係等result, 應該只有12月再in一間就可以了, 不過都已放軟晒手腳了. 經過這次小一面試過程, 知道阿仔弱項, 諗住定立大計, 如果幫助他提升語文和說話能力. 我個仔似乎考筆試好一點, 面試可能係要操操, 不過我無後悔無讓他去上面試班, 因為我想如果我比錢他去上了面試班, 唔得時一定比現在更失落, 或者等結果時更緊張, 現在無抱期望, 所以心情ok!

mother904

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發表於 08-10-27 18:08 |只看該作者

經過今次一連幾個月搵小學的過程，我發覺有中學是很重要的，所以一定會揀一間有中學的小學，實在不想三數年後又再歷史重演，真係c唔少細胞。

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nscwong

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發表於 08-10-27 22:57 |只看該作者

I belong to catagories c and d also but my son also failed. I already knew my son would fail when he told me the principle asked him to tell her a story. Hy son just said, 'I don't know how to tell stories.' Story telling is his weakest.

The mosting frustrating of all was that the principle said if the boy didn't greet during the interview, his parent must have failed to teach his child that in their daily life. Such preconception is totally not fair to parents:-x . As the boy knows he is being interviewed, he surely is nervous

and may therefore forget to greet. After all, I am sure most of the parents' children must have at least one bad habit or two. Whatever you say and no matter how many times you say, your child just cannot get rid of the bad habit.

原帖由 skygame 於 08-10-11 21:13 發表
我都失落於英華, 心情比起自己當年失落會考強很多. 但我知道跟著來看到一間又一間失敗時的現實心情. 很不好受. 1. 因為我相信這批參加者大多同時出現其他學校(包括成功的一批). 但有些更包括女孩子. 女孩子一般比男 ...