2009-2010的小一家長齊洩洩氣啦!

itbaby

剛睇完不同家長的話題,忽然有很大的感覺,真的想藉此洩洩氣!

  

由於近日要聽講座,填表及請假報名等,令自己真的感覺好煩,好忙,好透不過氣!連平時唔多理事的老公都講,怕小朋友入唔到適合佢的學校.




其實,自己讀小學時,亞爸亞媽都沒有咁對我哋!但自己唔做,又怕自己係個唔稱職的父母,是否時代真的變了,而我思想仲係好落後呢!




好似一d家長咁講,試問一個5歲的小朋友,那可能做到咁多嘢(又要有禮儀,識答不同類型的問題)呢!我哋大人有時都未必做到晒啦!甚至乎有d小朋友仲未夠5歲喎!

小朋友若未能入讀合適的學校,家長實有某程度的失落(我諗我會囉!),咁亦影響咗小朋友的心情,真的好似其他家長話,時間快d過,唔好比小朋友同家長都有咁大壓力!

我今日發覺自己係已遞交的報名表中填漏咗小小嘢(其實係小小的資料),但個心不知幾唔安樂,覺得自己太大意,好驚會影響到小朋友!你哋話,我係咪經已走火入魔呢?

   

講完了,舒服很多!真的希望大家繼續努力,替自己的小朋友找到理想的學校!

  

Geni

你講o既o野, 我身同感受~~~ (報名面試不斷, 發現交o左o既資料出錯, 唔知乜o野學校先至o岩小朋友....) 真係好累~~~

Small_Cloud

我個仔今年讀 k2, 我宜家已經驚緊啦

jennytms

你講的說話真對, 我也有有身同感受,試問一個咁細的小朋友又點能夠答一些很深的問題, 我亦曾聽一些面試完的家長說面試時要唱歌, 甚至天才表演, 覺得現在的小朋友真的很可憐, 又要學呢樣學那樣, 什麼童真都沒有啦.     我就會以平常心對付將要面臨的面試, 我亦沒有特別訓練自己的小朋友, 只是同他講俾心機就可以啦.....

祝各位的小朋友都能入到一間心儀的小學!

努力, 加油!

Geni

PS.
當年我阿媽都有幫我周圍報學校, 琴日同佢講開, 佢話當年都係14xx幾人掙120個位~~~

FungMm

Hi all,

真係好攰但不能休息(指真正的休息, 腦內總是interview, application, portfolio etc.).

就好像自己要面對好大的決定而時間就越來越短.... 更加的是無助的feeling.

每次見到囝囝就要提醒自己一定要平常心不要讓他看見自己的"煩惱樣".....

同朋友傾他們總是說: 不用緊張您囝囝一定無問題......但是談可容易呀!

所以能夠在此"可吐可快"真是為大家"停一停, 加加油" thanks all.

itbaby

我就係同自己的朋友講,佢哋好似唔太理解,仲以為我要幫個小朋友考名校,要求極高那類.其實我一d都唔係佢哋的諗法,我只係想搵一間真係適合小朋友的小學咋!

FungMm講得啱,我哋真係好無助,好似無人幫到我哋咁,有d似孤軍作戰的感覺!

另一方面,真的好開心能力係這裏暢所欲言,大家坦誠分享!

  

MOTHERTO

Itbaby,
I have same feeling as you but now it's the begining

loy211

昨天in完第二間直資小學,一班家長在會議室等候,那份無名的壓力直湧上心頭,個胃好痛,直至in完我才暫時鬆一口氣.這場戰爭,現在才剛開始,10月,11月才是私小面試的高峰期.
唉!自己的區,政府小學,較好的很少,但多人爭:
想替他報直資,私小,但競爭大,首名子女,又行小班,名額少之又少,嗚鳴......
各位家長,大家互勉......

andykwan

"合適的學校" usually demand >>> supply

so pressure created in face of selection...

Felicia726

Yes, it has always been competitive. I remember that my mom told me to speak up at interview, otherwise, no school would accept me to continue my study. I was so scared and tried my best to answer all questions at the interview. I told myself that I had to speak up, so afraid that no school would take me. Many applicants, we waited at the playground or school hall before interviews.
Ok la, our mothers could find good schools for us, we could do the same for our children. Cheer up.

原帖由 Geni 於 08-9-9 16:37 發表
PS.
當年我阿媽都有幫我周圍報學校, 琴日同佢講開, 佢話當年都係14xx幾人掙120個位~~~

sze_327

~針唔拮到肉都唔知痛~以前睇電視見到d家長叩門,就覺得誇張,現在作為家長既我終於明白,日日都係諗選校問題,就連同朋友傾電話都係講呢個話題,同老公傾又意見分歧,
又話我諗得太多,真激死.
而家等面試,唉,我個心仲亂,擔心個仔到時唔識答兼無反應,都唔知點算.

AliJasEd

I have the same feeling too.  However, just want to share an experience of my friend and hope it makes everybody feeling better.

My friend's daughter got accepted by DGS last year.  He had no relations with DGS and no prepartion class.  His girl was not that outstanding.  He told me that he (including his wife) did the least preparation for his girl, simply two pages introduction of her girl.  His girl got accepted by the school in the first round.  He concluded the succeed was due to his girl was in very good mood during the interview.

So let you kids sleep earlier the night before the interview and RELAX...

shirleyyip04

各位媽媽,
睇完你地所講既野,我真係好想喊出黎,因為真係覺得好辛苦,好驚,好擔心!最慘老公又唔support我,成日話我太緊張,呢重痛,仲慘個生仔既痛

好怕佢表現唔好,入唔到心儀既學校,好無助,有時無助到好想去問卜占掛.......我知呢d係好愚蠢既做法(所以都係諗下),但除左呢d....又有咩可以再做呢!!

雖然要打的仗剛剛先開始,我們一齊努力!希望每位小朋友都可以考入心儀既學校!!!

Geni

我覺得我地依家可以做o既, 就係努力幫小朋友爭取機會, 但最後得唔得, 就睇o下佢地同邊間學校有緣份o既~~~

努力努力~~~

FungMm

Hi all,

我都好feel到我們大家作為家長已經好努力同嘔心瀝血架呢.  大家都不要太氣餒因為我們便是小朋友之榜樣~努力!

我們的關係真是十分有趣, 我們的小朋友是競爭者而我們便是最佳的知己良朋....因我們都十分明白大家心情.

各位好朋友我們一起努力~共勉之.... 好期待我們的happy December.... 哈哈.

原帖由 Geni 於 08-9-10 16:10 發表
我覺得我地依家可以做o既, 就係努力幫小朋友爭取機會, 但最後得唔得, 就睇o下佢地同邊間學校有緣份o既~~~

努力努力~~~

linglingkiki

本來我都吾諗咁多，求其一間學校就算，但去年我去了一間小學工作之後,我就大大改觀..原本打算乜都吾做的我..看到一間小學..學生及其家可以對書記或老師無禮...老師仲可以罰他們..但書記要求學生小小禮貌..就會比校長罵...眼看屋邨小學如是...我都不敢求其搵一間學校...但有水準的學校一個位有幾百人或幾千人爭...想想..為何香港的教育如此?我都不知選學校的是家長還是小朋友...唉~~~勞心勞力..最後可能得個吉....

loy211

我想大家都想他們在一個良好的環境成長,盡力而為吧,可以做的實在不多,畢竟面試的是他們----一個5歲小孩而已.

NgVivian

昨天去面試要囝囝寫中文名，他中文名筆畫多難寫，他問可以寫英文名嗎? 對方在有頗多小朋友和家長在場的情況下回答囝囝，你平時唔駛寫嗎? 囝囝聽了不開心，而我想 因為我只想幚他入一所好學校，不知卻換來恥笑

connie1323

各位媽咪
剛剛收到小一表格,看完後....真是頭痛,是第一次要幫BB揀學校,只得15分,現在都不知揀!!!!只有看看妳們的經驗.........