若４間私小都收, 點樣選擇好呢?

Childhood

幫個囡囡報咗 DGJS, GHS, APS, KTS, SFA 等私小, 一個假設性的問題: 若真係全部都收她(當然首選DGJS, 但我冇想過會咁好彩), 咁4間學校依次序應該點排名呢? 可否比意見 .其實4間都各有所長, 我自己4間都鍾意.
小女現讀 St.Catherine's. 較文靜、聽話, 但好有創意. :

JOELCC

GHS is better.

rdc888

No need to think now, think of the interview lar.

cherriemama

Ha Ha.... 點解你囡囡同我囡囡完全一樣? 連性格, 所讀學校, 報考學校都一樣!!  不過我仲未諗掂, 我打算收o左先揀, 話唔定到時只得一間收我囡囡我就唔駛咁頭痕!  

原文章由 Childhood 於 07-10-16 22:21 硐表
幫個囡囡報咗 DGJS, GHS, APS, KTS, SFA 等私小, 一個假設性的問題: 若真係全部都收她(當然首選DGJS, 但我冇想過會咁好彩), 咁4間學校依次序應該點排名呢? 可否比意見 .其實4間都各有所長, 我自己4間都鍾意.
小女 ...

Childhood

原文章由 cherriemama 於 07-10-17 09:02 硐表
Ha Ha.... 點解你囡囡同我囡囡完全一樣? 連性格, 所讀學校, 報考學校都一樣!!  不過我仲未諗掂, 我打算收o左先揀, 話唔定到時只得一間收我囡囡我就唔駛咁頭痕!  

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如果真係得一間收,或冇一間收, 咁就緊係唔駛頭痕啦, 但若全部都收(或有兩間收)你先去考慮, 決定, 如果唔夠時間, 你會好容易作出錯誤的選擇 .對嗎?

cherriemama

唔會唔夠時間, 如果我囡囡咁好彩間間都收, 我會先俾留位費, 到時慢慢再諗!

原文章由 Childhood 於 07-10-17 09:14 硐表

如果真係得一間收,或冇一間收, 咁就緊係唔駛頭痕啦, 但若全部都收(或有兩間收)你先去考慮, 決定, 如果唔夠時間, 你會好容易作出錯誤的選擇 .對嗎? ...

AndyRain

以我自己既經驗..........未到最後一刻都揀唔到的. 除非係至top同無咁top既收了你小朋友, 呢d咁明顯既對比就會好容易有結果.  

或者都係用那老土方法,,,,,,,將每間學校的好處, 唔好處 list晒出黎, 你看張list會較為明顯.

再唔係..........俾晒留位費先啦.  

我明白你的心情, 你是想盡你最大既努力去為孩子揀最好既學校.  慢慢黎啦, 還有時間.

gwan

I understand sometime parents may feel '15' or '16' about different schools, but the best is to do the research now and don't hold too many offers as there are many other kids who are not so good at interviews and are on waiting lists. I know some parents would hold up to 6 to 7 places for their kids, that's really selfish unless they have good reasons. I can understand if someone hold 2 or 3 offers because they can't make up their mind, but over 3......is just kind of out of the line. Sorry if I offend some parents, but I have a friend whose son was very quiet and failed all interviews, he was on waiting list and only got an offer at end of August, his  family suffered greatly during the waiting process.

AndyRain

我所指最後一刻係指交留位費.  真係無辦法先係最難揀的2間交晒留位費, 我相信真係好難多過3間會咁難揀的. 因為你大概都有d心水的, 只是要時間叫自己去肯定這個選擇是最好的選擇而已.

Childhood

多謝意見.
相信每位家長都係"想盡你最大既努力去為孩子揀最好既學校"

原文章由 AndyRain 於 07-10-17 10:54 硐表
以我自己既經驗..........未到最後一刻都揀唔到的. 除非係至top同無咁top既收了你小朋友, 呢d咁明顯既對比就會好容易有結果.  

或者都係用那老土方法,,,,,,,將每間學校的好處, 唔好處 list晒出黎, 你看張list會較為 ...

TomDog

因為報名前已篩選過, 我覺得是但一間收都值得開心嘅。 但如果有超過一間收, 我會揀囡囡比較鐘意個間。我覺得set左的目標都幾清晰, 無打算同時留多過一間的位。

不過, 間間學校都成千人報名, 入哂waiting list都唔出奇。 如果不幸 d 位讓很多拿不定主意的人hold住, 那就要看邊間學校先放個位俾我了, 但如果定左一間之後, 有更加心儀的學校同我話有位, 唯有give up之前個間, 咁我就無奈做左hold住d位的人嘍。又或者, 苦等到臨開學先知有邊間收。

愈多人hold位in the first place, 就愈多人陷入以上的scenario.

Yau_Cheung

原文章由 Childhood 於 07-10-16 22:21 硐表
幫個囡囡報咗 DGJS, GHS, APS, KTS, SFA 等私小, 一個假設性的問題: 若真係全部都收她(當然首選DGJS, 但我冇想過會咁好彩), 咁4間學校依次序應該點排名呢? 可否比意見 .其實4間都各有所長, 我自己4間都鍾意.
小女 ...

What are GHS, APS, KTS, SFA?  What are their full names.  Many thanks.

Childhood

GHS = 德望學校 Good Hope School

APS=九龍塘宣道小學 Alliance Primary School

KTA= 九龍塘學校 Kowloon Tong School

SFA=聖方濟各英文小學

St. Francis Of Assisi's English Primary School

原文章由 Yau_Cheung 於 07-10-17 22:21 硐表


What are GHS, APS, KTS, SFA?  What are their full names.  Many thanks.

gwan

TomDog,

No, you don't have to do that. There is always a timing difference when schools giving out offers. If you have already accepted(deposits paid) your 3rd and 4th choice schools, now you receive offer from your  1st or 2nd choice schools, of course you would accept them too but you should write or call to the 3rd and 4th choice schools, telling them you are giving up your reserved places, so that they can offer to other waitlist candidates rightaway. That what I meant, we can help others without hurting our kid's interests.

Gwan

原文章由 TomDog 於 07-10-17 18:44 硐表
因為報名前已篩選過, 我覺得是但一間收都值得開心嘅。 但如果有超過一間收, 我會揀囡囡比較鐘意個間。我覺得set左的目標都幾清晰, 無打算同時留多過一間的位。

不過, 間間學校都成千人報名, 入哂waiting list都唔出 ...

Charlotte_mom

totally support!
我果時就係一個由十月叩門叩到七月尾既家長, 當中感受, 未試過真係唔明
我都知一個咁重要既抉擇, 有時真係好難make, 不過, 為其他無咁好彩既家長著想下啦!

原文章由 gwan 於 07-10-17 11:09 AM 硐表
I understand sometime parents may feel '15' or '16' about different schools, but the best is to do the research now and don't hold too many offers as there are many other kids who are not so good at i ...

manisaac

其實有否問過我地D 寶貝  佢地鐘意去邊間讀呢
始終係間學校讀6年係佢地, 唔係我地囉

TomDog

原文章由 gwan 於 07-10-18 09:27 硐表
TomDog,

No, you don't have to do that. There is always a timing difference when schools giving out offers. If you have already accepted(deposits paid) your 3rd and 4th choice schools, now you receive ...

Gwan,
我想你有點誤解我的意思. 我試試舉個例子:
1. 我個人原則是at any given time, I'm going to hold 1 seat only.
2. 我報了5間學校, 假設全部都入waiting list(很可能, 是不是?).
3. 假設到12月, 只有school A打電話俾我話有位. 因為我只有一個選擇, 我會係school A 留位.
4. 假設留位之後都無其他offer. 直至明年大抽獎完畢, school B先至打電話黎話有位, 那麼我就變成有school A 和school B兩個選擇. Based on item1, 我要作出決定。
5. 假設我比較鐘意school B, 我就會係改係school B留位, 同時通知school A我放棄學位.
6. 這個決定令我變相hold住school A的學位達8個月之久. 可能有其他人一直在苦苦等侯這個school A位.
7. I meant to be good, 但為什麼會這樣呢?
8. 我覺得啊, 是與其他人幾時release佢地手上的位有關的.
9. 我的意思是說我覺得很無奈.

[ 本文章最後由 TomDog 於 07-10-18 13:09 編輯 ]

TomDog

我有架, 囡囡都有問我: 小朋友可唔可以自己揀讀邊間小學, 我答可以, 但都要睇下間學校有無位。 不過目前佢最鐘意個間, 並非我個人的首選. 但她在她最喜歡的學校, 面試表現也最好, 說不定她最後會入到. (她在不喜歡的學校則試過哭出來, 機會自然 ).

原文章由 manisaac 於 07-10-18 13:04 硐表
其實有否問過我地D 寶貝  佢地鐘意去邊間讀呢
始終係間學校讀6年係佢地, 唔係我地囉

[ 本文章最後由 TomDog 於 07-10-18 13:46 編輯 ]

Radiomama

我路過的, 大家其實都好理性, 想為小朋友預備最好的, 但言歸正轉, 這四間私校的口碑如何呢?

小兒只是k1, 但我已開始為他做research! 想知道多d資料啊!

原文章由 Childhood 於 07-10-17 22:40 硐表
GHS = 德望學校 Good Hope School

APS=九龍塘宣道小學 Alliance Primary School

KTA= 九龍塘學校 Kowloon Tong School

SFA=聖方濟各英文小學St. Francis Of Assisi's English Primary School


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Radiomama

我路過的, 大家其實都好理性, 想為小朋友預備最好的, 但言歸正轉, 這四間私校的口碑如何呢?

小兒只是k1, 但我已開始為他做research! 想知道多d資料啊!

原文章由 Childhood 於 07-10-17 22:40 硐表
GHS = 德望學校 Good Hope School

APS=九龍塘宣道小學 Alliance Primary School

KTA= 九龍塘學校 Kowloon Tong School

SFA=聖方濟各英文小學St. Francis Of Assisi's English Primary School


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