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AggieBB 發表於 13-7-27 10:12
Thanks! You hv your point. But in reality, Maid has a lot of works who is preferred to switch on the TV which is the best way to claim the kid down. We do hv a lot of books and toys, is it possible to hv the Maid to read and play with him for 4 hrs?
We can insist no tv for the first few weeks. After that, we hv to look for some activities eg playgroup to spend his time. The ultimate spending and resources demand may be higher than sending him to an easy local kiddy which is just down stair of my building. Additional helper is too luxury for us.
要搞清楚,有兩樣野好重要 (1) nap time (2) free play
小朋友要有 nap,比腦仔休息,才能成長,好多研究都話;多睡覺,夜漫早睡覺的小孩,健康 d,腦部發展好 d
free play 是由他自己想做乜就做乜,可以係拿支筆亂畫亂寫,拿書看,自己同自己傾下計,玩下公仔,煮飯仔,玩車,當然,可以不提供 tv 和 ipad 等
但一定是要 free choice,甚至唔係由成人建議他做甚麼,而是真係他想點就點,要他自己自由做,唔駛理佢,唔駛陪看書,唔駛陪玩,最多大人在旁邊看就夠呢個時間,是給小朋友發展他的創意,唔好以為無聊咁亂畫畫,行來行去冇用
我以前一個 maid 湊兩個小朋友都係咁,小朋友細細個就幫手做家務,唔需要 maid 陪玩陪讀,相反,叫佢地幫下手抹下檯,摺下衫,當然,maid 可能要善後,但有好多野可以做
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