啟發很深的特輯 - 「世襲教育」

HoHoMom

The price to pay for this kid to stay within top 5 is way too high here. If I am asked to work all the time without any holidays, I'd rather quit. And I can quit because I am an adult and have choices. Children can't and don't.

Normal studying for tests and exams plus daily homework and revision is properly necessary and beneficial for the kids. But I can't believe some parents will still rationalise this sort of "slavery" by saying it's for the kids' own good.

原帖由 ahtan 於 10-10-20 23:20 發表
Thanks for sharing. Very touched esp after the second part....
Personally I think that Dad with a kid from LS is pushing his son too hard....the way that he said it," he doesn't have holiday..." Poor  ...

tongyimtong

原帖由 ANChan59 於 10-10-21 10:22 發表
Absolutely agree with your experience and observations at different regions.

The keen competition is so real globally, if parents just ignore it, overprotect our kids.......... What's their future?

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很同意﹗我有朋友的兒子已13歲，從來不會自己挾餸。問他想吃什麼，永遠︰「無所謂，唔知，你問媽咪.....」

又有我兒子的同學﹐12歲連自己去toilet 都不會沖厕。在學校一有不高興就向家長哭訴........

還有1個朋友的兒子已30歲，今年開始讀第三個學位(但都是學士課程)。他從無投身社會工作的意圖。他父母只要他鍾意，永遠不需要向家庭負責任。

還有我一個親戚，今年45歲，過去幾十年不停讀書、讀書。從來無一份工做多過2年。幾十歲男人，家裹水、電煤全部有事不懂自己解決。父母未死同父母住。父母死了等老婆外家分身家。

我和我先生看到這些都有很深啟發。我兒子從小就要自己照顧自己。六歲便跟外展義工野營。八歲起年年到outwardbound上summer course。又帶他做義工，在家要他做家務等。

可能有點離題，但我真心相信教孩子「谷」是無用的。我只相信「啟發」和「引導」。

ANChan59

原帖由 HoHoMom 於 10-10-21 18:27 發表
But I can't believe some parents will still rationalise this sort of "slavery" by saying it's for the kids' own good.

Satisfy his unfulfilled dreams.........his ego......

lengBma

原帖由 mat媽 於 10-10-19 14:31 發表
「世襲教育」！津校更世襲啦！最好冇左old boy/girl 的分！

十分同意

lengBma

原帖由 vaga 於 10-10-19 15:45 發表
作為家長, 都大概知道宜家既教育制道係點, 所以睇完條片, 都冇乜太大感覺。

反而最印象深刻.....就係片段入面有個parent佢接受interview時talk好多English, 但當中又use左好多Chinese既conjunction同埋phrase, 真係 ...

我完全有相同感受, 點解要又中又英. 真係好un耳

babiesmother

很佩服梁校長。
希望所有小朋友，不論貧富，都有機會接受最好的教育。

vvwawa

Do u think only pretty face can 嫁個有錢人? I don't think so! If u are not好叻嘅女人, 讀書好叻, u might only be one of those model,actress... 有錢人 's wife have to be presentable as well.

原帖由 locky_twix 於 10-10-20 12:57 發表
有個次後做埋律師,嫁個, 但生完女之後, 做全職mama.
我在想, 讀咁多書做咩, 教個女做咩, 莫非就係為個女可以嫁個有錢人?
如果係咁,係終極目標的話, 應該儲定錢等個女一長大 ...

ssdiana

Educational officials should see this video
quote]原帖由 lengBma 於 10-10-22 01:06 發表


十分同意 [/quote]

VKwan

條片入面咁多受訪者講人脈，甚至DB old boy都係咁講，查實現實生活中名校的人脈作用係咪真係咁大咁神奇？有冇DB LS old boy / 知情人士講解下當中奧妙之處？

小女子自細讀屋村學校，自問對此完全不知。

rayckng

I am not DB/LS old boy but I am aware that some of the large scale company senior management will first to find someone in their network (worked or studied together before) for some senior posts rather than through a head-hunt agent and of course will not post the vacancy in the newspaper...

This kind of network is very important during the knock-door application in P1 admission as well if the old boys are one of the key members in your desired primary schools...

原帖由 VKwan 於 10-10-31 22:29 發表
條片入面咁多受訪者講人脈，甚至DB old boy都係咁講，查實現實生活中名校的人脈作用係咪真係咁大咁神奇？有冇DB LS old boy / 知情人士講解下當中奧妙之處？

小女子自細讀屋村學校，自問對此完全不知。 ...

manmak88

人脈是看你做那一行吧.......

原帖由 VKwan 於 10-10-31 22:29 發表
條片入面咁多受訪者講人脈，甚至DB old boy都係咁講，查實現實生活中名校的人脈作用係咪真係咁大咁神奇？有冇DB LS old boy / 知情人士講解下當中奧妙之處？

小女子自細讀屋村學校，自問對此完全不知。 ...

manmak88

昨晚有時間看完, 如果大家有時間請也看看"樓奴", 那對兄弟case真的好正

老實說世界一定唔公平, 比得起就有好學校(也要人家收)
其實除了比得起之外, 家人的努力才是最成功的因素吧
當然去到小朋友不喜歡返學真的好像好可憐......
不過如果大左真的要去做樓奴就更可憐(看樓奴的case)

鮮魚行個校長是好人, 他的小學學生應該壞極有泡, 不過個高低程度分野就比較大, 我覺得佢最中的一句是"窮不是罪", 人是可以進步

所以我們希望的就是小朋友進步

反觀"樓奴", 兩兄弟都是公屋出身, 都讀成書
一個做牙醫, 不過老老實實, 到現在都未有樓
另一個大學未畢業就去做地產經紀, 現在有4個單位......

兩兄弟同一個家庭都可以甘唔同, 所以廿年後我們小朋友是龍是虫無人知, 只是現在可以努力去教, 為何不做?

manmak88

讚成, 現在才記起孟母三遷
有好學習環境真的好重要

原帖由 k.kung 於 10-10-18 15:58 發表
在實際的學習生涯裏當然有被其它次級選手阻擋而做成難以突圍的困局, 相信發生在一般官津校的機會較多。 官津校無收生權, 小一學生能力參差, 同學間的學習步伐不一至, 直接阻慢教學進度。此為第一個阻擋。

不同意學 ...

manmak88

唔好甘啦, 大家都只是發洩政策不公平
一邊罵﹐一邊谷好正常

原帖由 dong-dong 於 10-10-19 09:25 發表
家長啊家長﹐有些錢的﹐有幾個會選鮮魚行而棄男拔﹖為什么﹖不外乎男拔是名校﹐學生背景好﹐人脈廣﹐課程深等﹐所以盡管心裡痛恨﹐還是一邊罵﹐一邊又拼命催谷自已的小朋友以踏入名校之門。 ...

rayckng

人脈 not only focus on your careers but also in your daily life.
If you have connection with someone "importatnt" in a primary school, you can even got a seat in 1st round. I know a case that for a quite good primary school in SSP, not with religious, someone only got 15 points but her relative is a princpial of another primary school, then her relative just gave a call to the principal, she "luckily" got a seat in the 1st round. The rule is that for those with equal marks need to have a draw but who know that if it is a purely a draw. I "guess", EDP will not go to every primary school to look after the draw in round 1...
Another case is that if you know someone in a Govt Hospital, if you got sick, you can have a better "arrangement" such as arrange a better doctor for you, shortern your quene time etc.

原帖由 manmak88 於 10-11-2 09:23 發表
人脈是看你做那一行吧.......

Ocwc

稚子無辜
“我雖不殺伯仁，伯仁因我而死”

伯仁：晉代周顗之字。晉元帝時，鎮東大將軍王敦于武昌反叛，進軍石頭，今南京，企圖篡位稱帝。其時王敦之弟王導正在建康，元帝所在地，今江蘇江宁縣南，處境相當險惡：周顗申表全力營救，然而未為王導知曉。不久，王導奉詔去石頭見其兄。王敦問及：周顗此人如何？王導不作答，周顗遂為王敦殺害。日后王導偶見周顗申救之表，泣道："我雖不殺伯仁，伯仁由我而死。"

manmak88

啊...... 我覺得講到甘就有些遠了
你可以說同母校是多少有點關係
不過對關係來說, 還是先看親威, 再看朋友
書友就...... 先看是那間大學, 再看中學吧
我覺得太sale 個人際有點不太好
名校多名人, 不過有幾多名人會比面是另一回事
努力學點做勁人好過

原帖由 rayckng 於 10-11-2 12:28 發表
人脈 not only focus on your careers but also in your daily life.
If you have connection with someone "importatnt" in a primary school, you can even got a seat in 1st round. I know a case that for a q ...

ssdiana

If this is not your cup of tea, just take it easy....

原帖由 VKwan 於 10-10-31 22:29 發表
條片入面咁多受訪者講人脈，甚至DB old boy都係咁講，查實現實生活中名校的人脈作用係咪真係咁大咁神奇？有冇DB LS old boy / 知情人士講解下當中奧妙之處？

小女子自細讀屋村學校，自問對此完全不知。 ...