番禺會所華仁小學(二) - July 2007

麟媽媽

開學了！祝各位少爺身體健康！

chelsea

Just back from the kid's school.  The assembly is short this afternoon, no prayer with only announcement of the school affairs.  The class number 10 and 20 of every class are required to have random temperature checking.

Students are optional to wear surgical mask.

Chelsea

麟媽媽

Optional? 我以為一定要添？
我叫左亞仔帶，因為佢仲有幾聲咳，
佢唔係感冒未清，只係氣管敏感，
希望過左呢d 黃梅天，咁會好d。

chelsea

Yeah, that's why I ask my son to take off the mash or else people might thought he's sick.  

原文章由 麟媽媽 於 08-3-31 14:45 發表
Optional? 我以為一定要添？
我叫左亞仔帶，因為佢仲有幾聲咳，
佢唔係感冒未清，只係氣管敏感，
希望過左呢d 黃梅天，咁會好d。

chelsea

Morning friends :)

chelsea

Morning friends :)

chelsea

Raymond,

I guess the life and death is a cycle for us and no matter how rich or poor one must go thru it.

It's natural to have such feeling and that from the other angle.....

Her mom has never found the companion that was as companionable as solitude.

Your friend has never found a fighter father that is busy with "fire-fighting" to see the sparkling fame in his face.

And from this, your best friend has seen a true friendship in his difficult times.

Best wishes to your friend and his family at this time.

P.S.  My dad's operation is 10 am this morning and expect to finish late night today, I tease him the time enough to travel to Aust.

Take care.

原文章由 raymond1981 於 08-4-3 08:28 發表
Hi everyone
This Year of Rat is a sad year.  My best friend told me two days ago that his father has terminal liver cancer.  I called his mum and she's coping with the anticipated loss of the only hal ...

chelsea

Raymond and Lun Ma,

Same old slang, we all know we the destination will come to us but this day has happened to my father a few hours ago.  He died peacefully.

Chelsea

原文章由 raymond1981 於 08-4-3 16:57 發表
Hi Chelsea
I wish your father all the best.  I haven't heard from my friend.  I hope he's ok and can make it there in time.

I don't know why.  So many people I know have left in the last couple of ye ...

麟媽媽

Chelsea,

我地都明白人老左，總有呢一步....
希望你爸爸得到安息，不再受痛苦，
你都唔好太操勞，保重。

nancytse

Chelsea,

Oh..........I'm so sorry to hear the bad news...........:-|

你要保重身體呀!!!
主會為您照顧世伯!!

麟媽媽

你地派左測驗範圍未？
唔知點解亞仔地仲未講，
只係話中文測1-4 同埋6，
補充1-3 咁咋，其他既都未知.....

chelsea

Morning friends :)

chelsea

Raymond/Lun Ma/Nancytse,

Thanks for your condolences to my dad.  The great loss is heavy for us can't let go easily.  This consider to be a temporarily arrangement and we had plan with him thereafter.  The purpose of this is to remove the cell that discovered every check up annually, he has no sign of sickness or illness before he proceeds the surgery that made the whole family mourning for him.

Chelsea

麟媽媽

Chelsea,

我都唔知點安慰你好.....
當年我嫲嫲有病，
幾次醫生說好難攪了，
最終多次手術治療，
我嫲嫲活多了六個月。
回想，佢多賺的六個月過成點呢？
必定不易，可說是「挨」過的。
我地在世後人，當然唔捨得，
但勉強用藥/儀器將佢留住，
最終...難逃人生最後一步。
換個角度看，世伯之前健康自如，
5 日後離開了，家人當然難於接受，
但在於老人家來說，可能是修來的福氣！

[ 本文章最後由 麟媽媽 於 08-4-9 16:46 編輯 ]

chelsea

Lun Ma,

I guess part of the recovery is to express the grief to avoid the break down.

Thanks for being there especially I need the courage to move on, like my friend said, I have now 2 pairs of small eyes watching me how to deal with the loss of beloved family.  But I mean even I have religion, we are just "Human", weak and soft that can't accept the fact, in theory, yes, but in reality, can't overcome in a short period of time, I guess you understand me.  I prepare the sins and will confess to GOD that I will wear the traditional costume, inscent stick plus the bow to my most honor and respectful DAD.  I will ask my heavenily father to take care of my earthly father to give him the rest and eternity.  My tears have streamed down daily for the past few days.

The whole family will gather this Saturday to share the grief and the bowing to him at the "Longevity Shop", the temporary "home" for the soul and ash.


Chelsea

麟媽媽

Chelsea,

我明白既...我同麟爸都經歷過，
當時麟爸出左差，我老爺暈左係廁所，
之前仲好地地，咁就離開左。
當年麟爸打擊好大，久未平復，
十分自責內疚，未能見最後一面，
所以我好明白你而家既心情。
天主會明白既，你唔好諗太多，
我會為你祈禱，願你爸爸安息。

chelsea

Morning friends :)