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That's why I am managing the expectations of my wife, who has been urging me to open the mailbox every day (I do that already but she keeps asking me if the notification has arrived ). I told her, "Our son is in Group B, he is not particularly outstanding, so don't occupy your thoughts with being accepted by this school. Treat it as a big bonus if he is accepted."
Contrary to what many other parents worry about, my son's performance usually does not bother me - because he is stable and average, and there is little we can do now. My grievances are usually about the handling of the application process. If the process can be made more transparent (for example, Ying Wa), our lives would be much easier.
As a father, I can do my best in providing as many opportunities to my son as possible, but it depends on him to grab these opportunities.
Anyway, I am not going to worry too much about what I really cannot control. I will let destiny take its course.
BTW, when did I become 廿四孝爸爸? I'm sure my effort is outperformed by many other fathers like you. :)
原帖由 KaHeiBaBa 於 10-9-24 17:11 發表
廿四孝爸爸,
請恕我直言 !! (如有得罪之處,敬請多多包涵)
為子女操心搵學校、考學校,其實唔單只在面試安排上感覺苦惱,有時自己作出萬二分嘅努力,亦未必可以事事稱心,因為世事又豈能盡如人意呢 ??
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