専注力不足及過度活躍症(ADHD)兒童家長站

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MdmFung

我仔仔都係ADHD,係７月尾經Dr.Hx confirm 的, g 後再揾兒童心理做評估, 睇吓佢邊方面的attention problem 最大, 然後再訓練.  
暑假時佢上咗d attention course, 訓練佢d技巧, 然後我吔開學前兩個星期開始食藥. 因為佢讀半日班, 所以我地食Ritalin(希望時間短d, 同副作用小d) 佢每朝食完早餐就食１粒, 放學食完午飯就食3/4粒, so far 都ok.
佢d老師都話佢有進步, 專心咗, 冇以前咁多口, 抄寫都好咗好多, 阿仔自己成就感都大咗好多.
其實如果可以, 行為冶療同食藥一齊就最好, 不過d時間就唔到, 所以唯有等遲d長假期時再安排...
係之前d post, 我見到有d家長會好灰心, 覺得冇辨法, 都唔知再做乜好...
其實, 就算唔係ADHD 嘅小朋友, 係e家嘅年伐, 係"管'同"教"都唔係咁容易ga la, 係唔係?
總知, 大家一同努力la! Remember "You are not the first one & you are not the last one!" Cheer Up

MdmFung

wewe,
I agreed with Kelly too, maybe you can ask the teacher to help also... if you need more Dr. information, I can help aslo....

Cheer Up

MdmFung

路人(甲), pls PM me if u want Dr. info

小彬女

見到其他ADHD 既小朋友個個都話食左藥之後係上堂情況係好左, 但見到自己既小朋友一次又一之咁加藥, 但情況仍然沒有大改變, 上堂一樣唔專心, 多口, 做事衝動. 還有記性比以前仲差, 問過醫生他們說冇理由會咁, 但事實真係咁麻, 我真係唔知要點做.

我自己都好希望個仔可以係個好環境裏成長, 但係.......

Kellyaugust2004

Randjfung

glad to hear your sharing here . as it's quite quiet than before.
so , how old is your son?

agree that they will improve. but believe as a parent , also want to learn and change.  my son is P.1 now. we've difficulty on my son's homework. he is so insist his own thinking and doesn't like/ want to accept ppl point out his mistakes.
on the other hand, my husband will scold him most of the time. .. which is not good.  

原帖由 Randjfung 於 08-10-15 23:25 發表
我仔仔都係ADHD,係７月尾經Dr.Hx confirm 的, g 後再揾兒童心理做評估, 睇吓佢邊方面的attention problem 最大, 然後再訓練.  
暑假時佢上咗d attention course, 訓練佢d技巧, 然後我吔開學前兩個星期開始食藥. 因為佢 ...

Kellyaugust2004

小彬女,

how about changing to another Dr ? moms here will support u ga.  don't give up. your child needs u.

原帖由 小彬女 於 08-10-16 10:19 發表
見到其他ADHD 既小朋友個個都話食左藥之後係上堂情況係好左, 但見到自己既小朋友一次又一之咁加藥, 但情況仍然沒有大改變, 上堂一樣唔專心, 多口, 做事衝動. 還有記性比以前仲差, 問過醫生他們說冇理由會咁, 但事實 ...

Kellyaugust2004

路人(甲) and irene

sent out pm already. pls check.

原帖由 路人(甲) 於 08-10-15 00:53 發表
PM 我收唔倒呀, 麻煩你再pm多一次呀

MdmFung

原帖由 小彬女 於 08-10-16 10:19 發表
見到其他ADHD 既小朋友個個都話食左藥之後係上堂情況係好左, 但見到自己既小朋友一次又一之咁加藥, 但情況仍然沒有大改變, 上堂一樣唔專心, 多口, 做事衝動. 還有記性比以前仲差, 問過醫生他們說冇理由會咁, 但事實 ...

唔好灰心la, 有冇社工可以幫心, or maybe 行為冶療?

小彬女

Kellyaugust2004,

我係 睇緊政府架, 有得轉我都想轉個醫生, 因為呢個醫生每次返去覆診都係幾分鐘, 問佢既問題佢完全答我唔到.

Randifung,
社工都有既, 佢地只係幫到我舒緩我既情緒, 其他野都係幫唔到幾多. 至於行為治療方面, 之前都排到我個仔, 因為我係返工既, 佢要連續半年每個星期一日, 我實在請唔咁多假, 我問佢地可唔可以剩係亞仔做, 佢地話唔得, 所以冇接受到.

而家都搵緊小童群益會睇下有冇呢類既行為治療, 但係排期等約見先知亞仔要咩服務.

唉........................

MdmFung

Hi Kelly,
仔仔已經七歲半la, 係傳统小學讀二年級. 其實係一年級下學期我已經有懷疑, 不過因為接近考試, 而我知自己超級緊張, 可能會唔知點算好, 所以等到學期尾冇壓力嘅時侯先去面對 (哈哈, 其實可能等吓有冇其績會發生-點知冇!:( )
我仲記得係見醫生前,自已不停上網揾資料,去買書睇,去做check list,有時覺得阿仔5、6個point都中, 有時又好似得2、３個, 總知唔知自己想點, 到後來老公話咁擔心, 不如去check 吓啦. 到醫生confirm 咗時, 我真係down到不得了, 又自責, 因為ADHD有可能係父母嘅遺傳, 係天生, 總知唔係小朋友自已想, 而我哋作為父母親嘅, 就令佢條路比人辛苦D, 要比人付出多好多, 你話點會唔心痛! (講講吓真係要再kiss吓個仔先得:loveliness: . 而我仲有過四歲半嘅女, 佢會係ADHD 嘅機會又比正常嘅小朋友多5倍, 你話唔驚就假!
不過, "Life must go on" 係由你自已選擇點去面對. 而且, 如果大人自已都唔勇敢、積極同正面去面對個症, 又怎可能幫到個小朋友.
至於做功課問題, 就算其他小朋友都可能會有same problem. 如果佢咁堅持自己的想法和答案, 都唔聽你教, why no放手比佢錯一次, 你可以同佢講, "媽咪今次跟你嘅方法, 如果老師都話你嘅錯, 咁下次就要跟我啦!" 你試吓d個方法得唔得.
到你老公嘅問題, 都係要你同佢做多d心理輔導, 要佢理解同諒解阿仔, 叫佢覺得要發脾氣時, 就由你接手. 同樣, 如果你想發脾氣時, 就由佢接手, 希望咁樣會好d啦

MdmFung

原帖由 小彬女 於 08-10-16 16:31 發表
Kellyaugust2004,

我係 睇緊政府架, 有得轉我都想轉個醫生, 因為呢個醫生每次返去覆診都係幾分鐘, 問佢既問題佢完全答我唔到.

Randifung,
社工都有既, 佢地只係幫到我舒緩我既情緒, 其他野都係幫唔到幾多. 至於行 ...

政府個d有時就真係比佢激死, 好似阿仔咁, 佢哋回信俾我話要等到2010年尾先有醫生見, 到時先再作治療同食藥....真係冇佢辨法!

你會唔會考慮睇多個私家醫生做back-up? 我知有d家長會睇政府同私家, 如果冇也特別就照等政府覆診, 有特別or urgent 時, 就去見私家醫生...

Kellyaugust2004

Randjfung

thanks so much for your sharing. i've a big flight with my son tonight.  (as my husband comes back home very late once a week, my son is more naughtier).   
i also found that when the medicine effect go away, he is evern worse than before .
don't know what's the solution. i feel bad when my patient gone as he is really really difficult to handle. all my friends said i'm a person with big patient. but... still can't control myself .

原帖由 Randjfung 於 08-10-16 21:22 發表
Hi Kelly,
仔仔已經七歲半la, 係傳统小學讀二年級. 其實係一年級下學期我已經有懷疑, 不過因為接近考試, 而我知自己超級緊張, 可能會唔知點算好, 所以等到學期尾冇壓力嘅時侯先去面對 (哈哈, 其實可能等吓有冇其績會 ...

MdmFung

原帖由 Kellyaugust2004 於 08-10-16 22:22 發表
Randjfung

thanks so much for your sharing. i've a big flight with my son tonight.  (as my husband comes back home very late once a week, my son is more naughtier).   
i also found that when the medic ...

有冇唸過幫阿仔揾個補習老師, 有時由外人教佢哋會好d, 又冇咁傷母子感情, 以前我一同阿仔做功課我就想死, 令到大家都好唔開心 (Mom vs Son & Mom vs Dad) e家好咗好多, 補習老師做bed guy, 父母就做good guy, 我吔仲多咗時間玩...

MdmFung

原帖由 Randjfung 於 08-10-16 23:09 發表


有冇唸過幫阿仔揾個補習老師, 有時由外人教佢哋會好d, 又冇咁傷母子感情, 以前我一同阿仔做功課我就想死, 令到大家都好唔開心 (Mom vs Son & Mom vs Dad) e家好咗好多, 補習老師做bed guy, 父母就做good guy, 我吔 ...

sorry...sould be bad buy

p.s. 如果可以係食療時段, 成效仲大

irenenghm

hi Kellyaugust2004,

thx, pls check pm

原帖由 Kellyaugust2004 於 08-10-16 12:42 發表
路人(甲) and irene

sent out pm already. pls check.

Kellyaugust2004

Randjfung
i guess it's still too earlier to send him to those tutorial class. (or i guess a tutor is better for him, right?).
but it's a solution.

原帖由 Randjfung 於 08-10-16 23:09 發表


有冇唸過幫阿仔揾個補習老師, 有時由外人教佢哋會好d, 又冇咁傷母子感情, 以前我一同阿仔做功課我就想死, 令到大家都好唔開心 (Mom vs Son & Mom vs Dad) e家好咗好多, 補習老師做bed guy, 父母就做good guy, 我吔 ...

MdmFung

502, Cookieng & Irenenghm,

pls check PM

MdmFung

Randjfung
i guess it's still too earlier to send him to those tutorial class. (or i guess a tutor is better for him, right?).
but it's a solution. [/quote]

我都係上門一對一補, 我唸a group style is not fit for him ma. 佢都專注唔到, 去補習社都冇用, right?