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| 麟媽媽, We'll (four of us) be going to Japan this Christmas from Dec 20-27.  I heard that Dennis would also go too.  No, haven't had any gatherings for a long time.  How about New Year or CNY?  Must have a marathon MEETING!
 
 Raymond,
 I am a mother of 2, a boy & a girl.  As soon as I knew I was bearing a girl i.s.o. a boy, I cried cos I wanted 2 boys badly.  However, since I couldn't change the sex of my baby (anymore), I could at least change my attitude towards it.  I knew God would give me what was best for me.  In the end, my daughter turns out to be just gorgeous.  She brings much joy & laughter to my family.  My elder son is so fond of her too.
 My 2 cents for u is - u'd better accept the 2nd boy ASAP.  God is very good at giving us testing moments to make us strong.  Think of it, there must be a reason why God gives u 2 boys.  There's no point not accepting the child.  Look around at the less fortunate & be thankful for what u have.
 As for the circumcision, I support u to do it at birth.  I experienced that (with my boy) & I feel so indebted to him when he had to do it at 5.
 For the method of giving birth, talk it thru with your wife.  I thought men were more rational?
 BTW, congratulation to your promotion.  P.S. I seldom come to this thread (though my boy is in P1 of WY).  Does my husband know u?  Perhaps LunMaMa knows the answer.
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