有冇左撇子的家長

emmypun

我想問大家, 小朋友去到幾大先可以確定佢係左撇子呢?  因為我聽人講太細個係未可以肯定.  

我囝囝依家21個月大, 從小到現在都係用左手, 無論吃飯, 執筆, 拿東西, 跟別人握手等等都是用左手的.  如果我把物件放在他的右手, 他會轉用左手拿著.  現在就可以確定嗎?

Mrssslui

我諗都好大機會係啦!
因為你話佢會把枝筆轉用左手揸.

小孩子

YANBB 寫道:
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小孩子 寫道:
您們好。

我囡4歲2個月，由佢識用手取物時，我己懷疑佢有左撇子傾向，我沒有特別理佢，由佢自然發展，到佢識用手握筷子同桌吃飯時，我先生及我奶奶就光火︰什麼影響旁人，個個要就你一個，寫字反轉了...等等天大的錯事就是用了左手。硬要她用回正常的手。

我作為她的娘親，她用左手，沒有大不了的事情。在學習上她會困難點，比如握筷子，握筆等，我信她會適應的。但我比她還困難，右教左，首先要自己先學左，字更加不得了，筆序要清楚，唯有唸唸有詞︰上至下，左至右。記起她初寫字，是沒有筆序的，只是模仿，看似字，實是畫圖畫。將來的事?！…唯有兵來將擋。

至於她是不是人們稱的左撇子聰明點，藝術天份高點，都是果句︰由佢自然發展。

但……我是後天培養的左撇子啊，唔怪得呢排去街市買送講價都醒左。

依家咩年代呀﹖我以為我讀小學時先有家長同老師迫小朋友用右手﹗估唔到廿幾年後都仲發生﹖

其實用邊隻手又有咩關係﹖ (最多日後要學結他同GOLF時要用LH專用產品)。你叫你老公同奶奶試用左手食飯﹐睇下點﹗最緊要係小朋友舒服﹗

大把人都係左撇子啦﹗好多外國人都係﹗連前美國總統都係啦﹗仲話香港係國際都市﹐點解有D香港人仲係咁“愚俘”﹐笑死人﹗ [/quote]

老人家思想比較舊d。其實我老公都是左撇子變為用右手，但根深柢固，除寫字(好靚，可能老爺書法靚)，握筷子(我用右手都不及他正確) 其餘都是用左手。可能他們認為我老公都做到，為何我囡做不到。

想深一層，或者我懶。

S.O.S

我地完全無迫個女用番右手，不過成日remind佢都其他人無分別，佢都好接受自己bor 不過用mouse同打golf佢就用右手，因為我懒law

各位daddy mammy,小朋友ge能力同佢用邊隻手無關ga,我地同右手爸媽都係一樣之ma

catcatmom

Hi all BK Mum
我個仔係2yr時候曾經用過左手寫字,但佢入到幼兒園后,老師要佢用右手,佢好聽先生話用了右手,我個女15months用左拿野,但見哥哥用右手寫字,最後跟哥哥用右手寫字,左手寫字都得，哥哥做mud,佢做mud,但現流行發展左右腦,但妹妹看disney vcd,如turn yourself around， 佢一定turn向左，係佢后面拍一拍下佢，佢又係turn向左，行路出左腳先，原來我表姐都係甘+，佢讀書過程就這樣了：
由小到大英文都好好，中文可以，會考英國文學 "A"，英文"A", 但數學科就no eye see, 由p1－中學嘅TEST，考試，都"肥"．你地小朋友係米好似我個女甘？？？係米佢右腦天比左腦好嘅原因呢？

shirley531

hi..我個大仔由細到大都用左手,直至小二做評估話佢原來右手比左手更有力和靈活,結果評為主用手不定和手眼唔協調.吹賬!!

SLI

catcatmom,

As from what you described , yr cousin is in-born right brain dominant. However, without proper training to balance the 2 sides ( left - right) of  the brain. This situation is quite common.

I've a student behave exactly the same as yr cousin , being weak in Maths and Chinese, but very strong in English and Eng. Lit. With my delicate balancing training , now her scores in Maths and Chinese are catching up and improved quite a lot !

Does yr daughter like to draw ?  Or what does she draw then ? That may be an early indication of brain dominance.

SLI :  :

eemay

SLI,
咁如果K1時沒有迫他轉用右手,讓他繼續用左手,咁結果會有什麼分別呢?
thanks!

SLI

eemay,

The left  hand motoring would only reinforce the right brain dominance to a certain degree. Changing to right hand motoring ( writing, or other skills) as dominant hand would NOT change significantly the right brain dominance.

It's when skills of logic , language and maths are deeply and profoundly developed in the left brain, then it will suppress the right brain's potential outflow.

SLI :  :

karen0060abc

我個女係用左手寫字架

eemay

SLI,

Thanks!  
咁即係到底我地應不應該迫左撇子用右手 寫字 ?

S.O.S

我等阿女自由發揮

bud

我仔都係左撇子，對畫畫甚有天份

SLI

eemay,

If you're concerned about his hand-writing , you should force him to change hand, since left-hand writing is surely bad due to both Chinese and English characters are invented with right hand convention.

SLI
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eemay

SLI,

Apart from hand-writing,any other impact of forcing/not to force him to use right hand.
I've heard some ppl advise parent not to force the children to use right hand. Do u think it's right?

Thanks!

emmypun

我諗我會俾佢自由發展, 不過我聽奶奶講話有d 傳統d 幼稚園會逼小朋友用番右手, 唔知真定假, 係咪真係有d咁gei事呢?

tweetybird

我個女都係左撇子的，做任何的野都係用左手的，食飯寫字都係。

Dickyma

我個仔都係,一用左手,的人就問.

Kanax

shirley531,

我個大仔由細到大都用左手,直至小二做評估話佢原來右手比左手更有力和靈活,結果評為主用手不定和手眼唔協調

請問個評估係做d咩,我點知個小朋友邊隻手更有力和靈活d呢？
因為我個仔都係由細到大都用左手,而家佢4歲,幼兒園亦無干涉佢用邊隻手,我地都係由得佢自由發展,但係如果真係用右手好d,咁點算呢？

Mummy

我兩個細路都冇左Yau既傾向, 事關佢地一渣起支筆寫野畫野, 好自然用右手囉起, 所以我都幾sure佢地係右手人, 但我從冇強迫佢地用左定用右。

反而我自己自細係用左手寫字, 點知果時因為學校 (幼稚園時)好傳統, 迫我用右手不特止, 仲兜野 "各" 落我個頭度, 果時我個心好hurt, 到而家我都仲記得!!      

直到而家, 我寫字用右手, 畫畫用左手, 食飯用左手, 甚至我畫眼線化裝, 左眼用左手, 右眼用右手。 自己整手甲, 左手同右手做, 右手幫左手做。  別人眼中我係怪怪地, 佢地會話 "乜咁都得??!!!! 唔知話你勁好定話你怪好。"  但好處多於壞處, 咁點解一定要偏用右手喎。