家有自閉傾向的小朋友......

tracymama

各位媽媽:

我終於都睇完咁多頁了,只因擔心家中也有這樣傾向的bb, 他有以下特徵:
1. 喜歡圓形和旋轉的東西, 如風扇和車輪,
2. 19個月還沒有講話
3. 不喜歡陌生人接近, 不喜歡人抱,
4. 不會用自己手指指東西, 只會抓住我地手指指, 如睇書,
5. 曾經喜歡自轉, 但最近很少見他做了.
6. 和他玩遊戲, 如推波, 兩三次他都沒有興趣了
7. 不如意時會發脾氣, 將東西扔在地下.

有几個問題想問各位媽媽:
1.bb有以上特徵, 你覺得他有自閉傾向嗎?
2.睇之前的內容, 有傾向的bb很少有眼神接觸, 這是一定的嗎?還是指陌生人呢?bb有時望我地, 有時叫極都不望, 對陌生人也是這樣.
3.因他還沒有講嘢, 所以多時都以哭鬧來表達需要, 通常我也知道他要什麼, 我想等他會講嘢了再教他用其它的方式表達. 這樣想法對嗎?
4.有傾向的bb是否會有入睡困難呢?

我個心忐忑不安及焦慮, 希望能有mama回應, 無言感激!

Justin2002

Dear tracymama,

From your description, I strongly suggest you bring your bb to 健康院 for a check-up.  Tell them what you observe and what you are worrying.  If they do not refer you to CAC (Child Assessment Centre), go to a private doctor and ask him to write you a referral letter and make an appointment with your area's CAC directly.  They accept referrals from private doctors.  

Your baby is still young and he can catch up quickly if he has suitable environment and training.

Moms here are all experienced and do come and ask! We are more than happy to answer you accordingly to what we know.

Take good care of yourself, don't sleep too late, I can see your message being posted at 3:00 in the morning!

Justin2002

mickeyma

agree with Justin.
Hi, Justin,
How was your baby's first day in school this morning?
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Justin2002 寫道:
Dear tracymama,

From your description, I strongly suggest you bring your bb to 健康院 for a check-up.

hinhinmummy

tracymama

我suggest你盡快帶仔仔去做評估.

Justin2002

mickeyma,

Justin is doing OK this morning (only one hour anyway).  He was reluctant to follow the teacher even Daddy accompanied him.  He just sat down beside me when I was doing the registration with Ms. Tsui.  Later we sat down inside "Language Zone" for a while and he played alone there.  Other kids sang him the welcome song and the class teacher led him to find his schoolbag.  On the whole, it's not too bad for the first day, see how it goes tomorrow.

Thanks for your remembering.

four44

hinhinmummy 寫道:
tracymama

我suggest你盡快帶仔仔去做評估.

yesyes  估下唔洗估估下~~有事冇事都好!!

mickeyma

Great to here Justin was doing very well in the school. I am sure he will adapt to the school life soon. How long will he stay tomorrow in the school?
Who is the  班主任 of Justine. Just want to know whether he is at the same class of Yu.

tracymama

thanks for all your quick responses!
打歲半針時曾見過健康院醫生, bb一入到房就不鍾意, 扭計, 要走, 醫生要他做測試一個也沒有做到, 一路都由我抱住, 醫生越要和他玩, 他就越喊得緊要.后來醫生不理他時見bb都有望她, 就話bb只是語言遲緩, 要我地多的和他傾計(其實我已經係成日同佢講嘢了.無奈), 半年后再去健康院見醫生睇進展如何.

那時心中只是安慰自己bb可能怕生, 不慣環境.  睇來都需要去估下了.我是否應該等bb2歲見健康院醫生時提出呢?還有
想請問你地, 那些行為是明顯的自閉症狀呢?

hinhinmummy

tracymama

你講果d全部都係自閉症的特徵..............希望你吾好介意.

吾好等兩歲啦, 去私家醫生樹, 搵私家醫生直接寫紙比你去評估中心做評估啦.

Justin2002

tracymama,

As hinhinmummy said, all your said symptoms are unfortunately Autistic features which our kids have most of them also.

Get to do something, the sooner the better ....

Justin2002

PoParents

請問各位的小朋友有否愛排列物品的廦好? 我的小朋友喜歡把全屋的時鐘放在一起. 我曾經聽從語言治療師的建議, 用時鐘來和他玩和解釋時間的概念給他. 但他至今仍然要求我們拿全屋各處的時鐘給他收集, 不給他的話他就誓不罷休. 一方面很滋擾家人的生活 (要常常周圍找自己的鬧鐘), 另一方面這沒創造性的遊戲對他沒多大好處呀.

請問我可以怎樣做? 有否經驗分享?

PoParents

Tracymama,

Yes, don't wait.  Fortunately 19 months is still early and the room for improvement is great if suitable intervention and stimulation are provided to your kid.

Please also don't mind if I add that some more phenomenum may appear later bit by bit.  But don't panic, just try to have more comprehensive understanding on it and you will be better prepared.

I am about the same as you half year before, but now I know better and my kid improved a lot too!

Work hard!

kmwun

PoParents

有時佢地的固執行為真係無得解釋，唯有日哦夜哦，或者試下搵代替品，例如搵d玩具鬧鐘，指定佢只可以玩玩具鬧鐘。我就因為仔仔固執要"禁"巴士鐘，卒之買咗個私家巴士鐘喺屋企。

PoParents 寫道:
請問各位的小朋友有否愛排列物品的廦好? 我的小朋友喜歡把全屋的時鐘放在一起. 我曾經聽從語言治療師的建議, 用時鐘來和他玩和解釋時間的概念給他. 但他至今仍然要求我們拿全屋各處的時鐘給他收集, 不給他的話他就誓不罷休. 一方面很滋擾家人的生活 (要常常周圍找自己的鬧鐘), 另一方面這沒創造性的遊戲對他沒多大好處呀.

請問我可以怎樣做? 有否經驗分享?

hinhei

唔好咁悲觀.
BB平日對熟識的人會否抗拒??若無,咁即係BB真的是怕生姐!
BB會否同你要目光接觸??

tracymama 寫道:
thanks for all your quick responses!
打歲半針時曾見過健康院醫生, bb一入到房就不鍾意, 扭計, 要走, 醫生要他做測試一個也沒有做到, 一路都由我抱住, 醫生越要和他玩, 他就越喊得緊要.后來醫生不理他時見bb都有望她, 就話bb只是語言遲緩, 要我地多的和他傾計(其實我已經係成日同佢講嘢了.無奈), 半年后再去健康院見醫生睇進展如何.

那時心中只是安慰自己bb可能怕生, 不慣環境.  睇來都需要去估下了.我是否應該等bb2歲見健康院醫生時提出呢?還有
想請問你地, 那些行為是明顯的自閉症狀呢?

jennyho

各位：

請問青蔥或心橋計劃，大約要等幾耐呢？青蔥個邊我都排左有兩個禮拜了，唔知好唔好打去問下呢？定係我太心急呢？仔仔下個月就兩歲了，真係好擔心，依然一個字都無，急死我了！

承承媽媽

jennyho,

你梗係心急啦~~!你知唔知我排青葱(舊年十月頭)算快啦~~!因為佢地o個時咁啱請多個言語治療師,所以承少可以嚮十二月頭有位俾佢上言語治療.所以你話2 weeks only~~你就真係要等吓啦!
同埋唔使急啦~~要佢開口有時真係急唔嚟~~!好似我個仔都跟咗言語治療師3-4堂至開始開口咋~~!o個時都接近三歲呀!不過你又唔使灰心住,每個人o既進展都唔同,唔一定你o個個好似我承少咁遲至開口o既~~!
另外,你有無幫仔仔報幼兒園呀?我覺得佢地返幼兒園都好緊要o架!因為佢地可以學識守規矩同聽指令,又可以俾佢多d同同齡o既小朋友接觸,好過日日嚮屋企無所事事呀~~!

tracymama

Hi,hinhen,
BB和我們有目光接觸, 但只有我和老公才抱到他, 其它人一靠近就喊.最讓我困惑的是他對風扇,車輪子,冷氣機非常留意, 只要可以,一定是眼定定望, 用手去摸.去電器店, 他一定圍住風扇看個不停, 摸個够.我看不到其它孩子像這樣. 唉!

承承媽媽

tracymama,

如果你的好肯定小朋友係經常出現你所講:望風扇,望車輪的話,某程度我都好肯定你的小朋友有偏執性的行為.但別人一接近他就喊,就有可能是他怕生,亦有可能是他很抗拒別人接觸.
既然你咁擔心,我就覺得你不妨找一個相熟的醫生,幫你寫一封轉介信去評估中心,由評估中心的姑娘和醫生去幫你睇吧~!
另外我想問一吓:你仔仔幾時出世,是年頭仔還是年尾仔?
如果你仔仔就快兩歲,不如你儘快幫他報一間好的全日制幼兒園,儘快安排他入學,不過你和你先生就要放手,讓他去學習,不要因為你抱住他時他已經怕生,更何況要他自己一個返學?其實我們在這裡的媽咪,很多都覺得自己的小朋友上學之後,明顯俾沒有上學之前進步了很多,而且沒有父母在身邊,有時給予小朋友的刺激反而更好,因為他們明白到要自己做.當然,2歲開始返學的話,好可能要半年之後才見他們的進步,但起碼是一個好開始.

fairy_hk

請問咩嘢係心橋計劃