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flostangraphy

長期抗戰",買定"長期抗衰老"藥都得...

原帖由 silvia_ng 於 16/10/2009 00:58 發表


呵呵....咁就要睇你緊唔緊張佢地既功課啦!
今年都係忙幾個月, 但上左小一之後就變左"長期抗戰"....所以一定會緊張+辛苦+肉緊+刺激+高興...(下刪一萬字)...過而家..... ...

angelprincess

不過真係唔好太緊張啦!    我個女而家五年班, 之前幾年我真係好勞氣 , 好激氣 , 好嘔血, 有陣時會同打仗咁 . 所以兩個禮拜前我終於出現毛病啦!  我瞓唔到覺同食唔到嘢, 心跳同呼吸都唔係幾好, 又肚痛又胃唔舒服, 個頭又唔係好舒服, 成日好多嘢諗.  後嚟睇咗好多次醫生, 醫生認為我係有初期嘅焦慮症 同情緒病 , 佢叫我唔好咁緊張, 就會慢慢好番架啦~  呢個禮拜我終於好番好多啦, 瞓得同食得.  我都同自己講, 呀女讀書嘅嘢唔好太緊張, 同埋唔好諗太多啦!
不過我噙晚又比個女激親 , TOBS派番嚟, 全部都係錯唔小心, 佢電話同我報告完之後, 我就收線唔再聽佢電話, 佢可能知事態嚴重:cry: , 於是就喺我放工返屋企之前好勤力咁溫中文默書 (婆婆話比我知), 寫啲字重好靚.  返到屋企我就同佢講, 我以後唔會叫佢溫書架啦, 不過如果佢有唔明可以問我, 可以叫我同佢默書, 如果佢鐘意做我比佢嘅練習, 佢可以做完比我改. 我話我唔會迫佢同叫佢做溫習架啦:-x .  跟著佢食完飯之後, 竟然自己好主動咁溫下星期嘅中英文默書, 仲叫我同佢默, 仲只係錯得一兩個字, 唉~ 如果佢可以早啲係咁, 你話幾好呢 ! 我諗我以後都係要用呢啲招數先得.  自己又唔駛咁勞氣, 又可以令佢自動自覺.  可能我之前就係太緊張, 佢知道呀媽一定會提佢同幫佢溫習, 所以攪成咁.  好彩而家都未太遲, 希望佢keep著係咁啦~  真係老懷安慰 .  所以各位daddy, 媽咪, 有時真係要心腸硬啲, 唔好理佢.  不過呢個係我而家嘅方法, 你地仲有咩好方法可以分享呀!

原帖由 silvia_ng 於 09-10-16 00:58 發表


呵呵....咁就要睇你緊唔緊張佢地既功課啦!
今年都係忙幾個月, 但上左小一之後就變左"長期抗戰"....所以一定會緊張+辛苦+肉緊+刺激+高興...(下刪一萬字)...過而家..... ...

flostangraphy

thanks a lot for sharing!!!!

原帖由 angelprincess 於 16/10/2009 10:46 發表
不過真係唔好太緊張啦!    我個女而家五年班, 之前幾年我真係好勞氣 , 好激氣 , 好嘔血, 有陣時會同打仗咁 . 所以兩個禮拜前我終於出現毛病啦!  我瞓唔到覺同食唔到嘢, 心跳同呼吸都唔係幾好, 又 ...

SueBeeCheung

Angelprincess,

你要好好保重.身體要緊.


Congratulation!你終於找到合適方法help亞囡...

Thanks for your sharing.....  Let me try.

原帖由 angelprincess 於 09-10-16 10:46 發表
不過真係唔好太緊張啦!    我個女而家五年班, 之前幾年我真係好勞氣 , 好激氣 , 好嘔血, 有陣時會同打仗咁 . 所以兩個禮拜前我終於出現毛病啦!  我瞓唔到覺同食唔到嘢, 心跳同呼吸都唔係幾好, 又 ...

angelprincess

SueBeeCheung,

好多謝你嘅關心!  我而家會識得唔好咁緊張架啦!  我都唔希望有啲咩事, 我仲要睇著我個女大學畢業同結婚生仔架.

原帖由 SueBeeCheung 於 09-10-16 12:14 發表
Angelprincess,

你要好好保重.身體要緊.


Congratulation!你終於找到合適方法help亞囡...

Thanks for your sharing.....  Let me try.

...

TINGMUM

我地真係要好好保重自己的健康, 我有位好朋友剛離世, 她半年前知我健康出現問題,勸告我在職家長要懂得紓緩壓力,不要搞到自己小病變大病! 見到她兩個就讀傳統小學的小朋友沒有了媽媽, 家不成家, 真是好感觸! 所以在適當時,真係要放手小朋友自己去面對! 因很多家庭都沒有閱讀"爸" 他們好多時是個大忙人, 很難幫得上忙!

flostangraphy

好感觸!  sigh...

原帖由 TINGMUM 於 16/10/2009 12:43 發表
我地真係要好好保重自己的健康, 我有位好朋友剛離世, 她半年前知我健康出現問題,勸告我在職家長要懂得紓緩壓力,不要搞到自己小病變大病! 見到她兩個就讀傳統小學的小朋友沒有了媽媽, 家不成家, 真是好感觸! 所以在適 ...

[ 本帖最後由 flostangraphy 於 09-10-16 13:06 編輯 ]

flostangraphy

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[ 本帖最後由 flostangraphy 於 09-10-16 13:38 編輯 ]

principal

angelprincess,

First of all, please feel relaxed.

I can fully understand what you described.
I think the problems happened on you apply to a lot of parents in HK these days.
The crux of the problem attributes to the general atmosphere in HK that most of the parents want their children to be ultra-competitive in all aspects.
Originally, this is not wrong and it’s very natural that parents want their children to excel in most aspects, hoping that they will have good careers in future.
However, we can see there has been a vicious cycle at least in the past 10+ years that many parents go to the extreme so a very “unhealthy” atmosphere in HK has been established.    

That does not mean that we can just let go and do nothing.
Some sorts of parents’ assistance are essential, especially when the children are in junior grades.
The important thing is to strike a balance between the school work and the leisure time.

The next question is how to strike a good balance??
It may vary from one child to another.
The important point is not to go to the extreme.

Another common worry for us is whether our children can get in a Band 1/good secondary school or not?
Obviously, most of us want that.
Getting in a Band 1/good secondary school and then a world-class university can assure our children’s good future to a large extent, though there might still be some rare exceptions.
However, kids going to in Band 2/3 secondary schools do not necessarily mean it’s the end of the world.
If look at one’s lifetime, getting in good schools is only a few of the millions hurdles that one has to clear in his/her complete lifetime.
There are many more problems that our children need to learn how to tackle them by themselves. 

We always read many positive newspaper stories about some young people who do not have very good academic results at the beginning but they can catch up at a later stage or create some new/successful business/careers through some other ways.

Life is a marathon!!
We never know who the winner is till the end of the game!!

Besides good academic results, one may also need to have sociable character, good communications skills, strong will, just to name a few key traits of a happy person.
Last but not least, I think “luck” and “destiny” also play a significant role, though some people may not believe in this but only their own abilities.

Please take very good take of your own health.
Nothing is more important than one’s health, especially some hidden diseases are irreversible.

And that's why I alway make jokes and smile in order to keep a balanced state of mind!!  


 

原帖由 angelprincess 於 09-10-16 10:46 發表

不過真係唔好太緊張啦!    我個女而家五年班, 之前幾年我真係好勞氣 , 好激氣 , 好嘔血, 有陣時會同打仗咁 . 所以兩個禮拜前我終於出現毛病啦!  我瞓唔到覺同食唔到嘢, 心跳同呼吸都唔係幾好, 又 ...

[ 本帖最後由 principal 於 09-10-19 12:29 編輯 ]

flostangraphy

thanks principal for spending the time on a such meaningful message!!!
"traits of a happy person." that's the most important thing both me and my wife would like our son archive!
各家長, 一齊努力!!!

原帖由 principal 於 16/10/2009 13:33 發表
angelprincess,

First of all, please feel relaxed.

I can fully understand what you described.
I think the problems happened on you apply to a lot of parents in HK these days.
The crux of the problem  ...

[ 本帖最後由 flostangraphy 於 09-10-16 13:48 編輯 ]

principal

TINGMUM,

I am very sorry to hear such news!!

As most of HK people are too busy nowadays, we also need to pay attention to our own health from time to time and find ways to relieve our stressful life.

Therefore, the slogan is always
"Don't worry!  Be happy!".

原帖由 TINGMUM 於 09-10-16 12:43 發表

我地真係要好好保重自己的健康, 我有位好朋友剛離世, 她半年前知我健康出現問題,勸告我在職家長要懂得紓緩壓力,不要搞到自己小病變大病! 見到她兩個就讀傳統小學的小朋友沒有了媽媽, 家不成家, 真是好感觸! 所以在適 ...

angelprincess

Our dear e-Principal & Tingmum,

Thank you so much for your 肺腑之言 .  其實我只係想大家唔好咁緊張, 好似我咁.  點知仲要你地安慰, 咁關心我.  我而家會識得relax同放手比個女去做佢應該可以應付嘅事.  希望我少少嘅身體不適唔好影響大家嘅心情啦 .  突然攪到大家有啲down down地.  So sorry, 我會繼續努力, 大家互相勉勵啦~  突然覺得好warm , 多謝哂各位家長 ~ Yes, 'Don't worry, be happy'

原帖由 principal 於 09-10-16 13:33 發表
angelprincess,

First of all, please feel relaxed.

I can fully understand what you described.
I think the problems happened on you apply to a lot of parents in HK these days.
The crux of the problem  ...

[ 本帖最後由 angelprincess 於 09-10-19 14:47 編輯 ]

flostangraphy

ha ha ha!!! 我又飄啦!!!

原帖由 angelprincess 於 16/10/2009 14:09 發表
Our dear e-Principal & Tingmum,

Thank you so much for your 肺腑之言 .  其實我只係想大家唔好咁緊張, 好似我咁.  點知仲要你地安慰, 咁關心我.  我而家會識得relax同放手比個女去做佢應該可以應付嘅事.   ...

silvia_ng

原帖由 flostangraphy 於 09-10-16 09:36 發表
長期抗戰",買定"長期抗衰老"藥都得... mouth:" />

哈哈....衰老唔係問題...只恐怕戰線失守

silvia_ng

原帖由 angelprincess 於 09-10-16 10:46 發表
不過真係唔好太緊張啦!    我個女而家五年班, 之前幾年我真係好勞氣 , 好激氣 , 好嘔血, 有陣時會同打仗咁 . 所以兩個禮拜前我終於出現毛病啦!  我瞓唔到覺同食唔到嘢, 心跳同呼吸都唔係幾好, 又 ...

你都要好好TAKE CARE自己呀! 我都唔會比自己太過唔開心, 我可是有前科的(我之前有產前抑鬱同產後抑鬱架):-|

不過我從小都冇父母照顧, 跟本唔知點做人父母。前幾日想同仔仔溫書, 同佢預備英文測驗。但我拿起D WORKSHEET跟本不知從何入手, 我父母從來冇陪過我溫書....我真係唔識教....所以我"焗"住要放手, 同呀仔講我唔識教佢, 但我會相信佢自己既努力, 佢盡左力媽咪就已經好開心。因此呢個TEST我地冇溫過不特止...同掛住同佢地兩個玩.....WELL.....是但啦....應該今晚就知佢得唔得, 唔得都會整個 比佢

silvia_ng

原帖由 TINGMUM 於 09-10-16 12:43 發表
我地真係要好好保重自己的健康, 我有位好朋友剛離世, 她半年前知我健康出現問題,勸告我在職家長要懂得紓緩壓力,不要搞到自己小病變大病! 見到她兩個就讀傳統小學的小朋友沒有了媽媽, 家不成家, 真是好感觸! 所以在適 ...

沒有媽媽的孩子好可憐..... 希望佢地會自強啦! :cry:

silvia_ng

原帖由 principal 於 09-10-16 13:33 發表
angelprincess,

First of all, please feel relaxed.

I can fully understand what you described.
I think the problems happened on you apply to a lot of parents in HK these days.
The crux of the problem  ...

THANKS FOR SHARE:)

angelprincess

蕭亞姨,

Thank you so much.  I'll take good care of my health.  其實教小朋友真係一門好高深嘅學問, 又要佢地知書識禮, 又要佢地身心健康.  不過好彩有你地班家長一齊分享同互相鼓勵~ 我地要加油, 繼續努力! Thank you~

原帖由 silvia_ng 於 09-10-16 14:29 發表


你都要好好TAKE CARE自己呀! 我都唔會比自己太過唔開心, 我可是有前科的(我之前有產前抑鬱同產後抑鬱架):-|

不過我從小都冇父母照顧, 跟本唔知點做人父母。前幾日想同仔仔溫書, 同佢預備英文測驗。但我拿起D WOR ...

principal

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[ 本帖最後由 principal 於 09-10-19 12:28 編輯 ]

silvia_ng

原帖由 angelprincess 於 09-10-16 14:53 發表
蕭亞姨,

Thank you so much.  I'll take good care of my health.  其實教小朋友真係一門好高深嘅學問, 又要佢地知書識禮, 又要佢地身心健康.  不過好彩有你地班家長一齊分享同互相鼓勵~ 我地要加油, 繼續努力! Tha ...

呵呵...咁就一定要等你地教下我點教仔女...我拿起D野果陣, 個心已經唸..乜唔係自動會識既咩 睇WORKSHEET, 齋睇又冇乜用....特別英文同數學都係我認為冇得教既SUBJECT...中文都可以叫佢寫下字認下字...英文頂多同佢串字咋.... 所以一定要你地教下我呢