如何改正亞女, 請幫忙!

Crystalhoilam

亞女是在活動教學學校讀書, 校內沒有問題, 問題只在於性格,  由細到大, 我都不會屈服她的哭聲, 由她哭, 甚至訓地, 我當歌聲, 我會很堅持, 叫她收聲, 她話咸緊, 點收呀, 咸埋先啦啦,
她回家後做自己的練習是為了什麼? 她的自小習慣, 有空便做練習, 她話很好玩, 學到很多東西,有時問下報紙問題, 今次經驗,小孩真難捉摸 , 我也經常參考兒童心理書取經, 但小孩有時實在行得太快, 亞女偏離性格, 好在發現得早, 真的要用時間改正,

cameo

Crystalhoilam,
我唔想去對你小朋友作批評啊,,,就講番我自己個女好了?
上年我去舊油天叩門,面試時基本人人有份,只要依時拎表就可以去interview了~我個女第一日返n1兩歲都無喊過一聲,因為佢鍾意間學校所以佢好"成熟",但去油天interview時我見佢反而唔合作,老師叫佢拎住表去排隊,佢係排呀,但人行佢唔行,到上課室了,佢打橫跳上去,重話自己扮蟹,以上行為係佢自己同我講,但我自己眼見佢一直都黑住面的.....講到尾,我個女對住我唔會"正面"去反抗我,但佢會諗方法去"間接"逆我意思....佢唔鍾意呢一間,就諗方法去"唔合作"~~~
上畫班,佢最喜歡了,全班最細係佢,反而被人讚佢最用心...
學鋼琴,上過一堂唔鍾意,老師叫佢坐好,佢企直,老師叫佢隻手要直d,佢扮疆師.........
其實我個女同你個女年紀都差唔多,我唔敢話有得教or無得教,,但我個女好明顯係需要大人合理o既解釋先會慢慢接受意見,強迫無效,遷就得一次亦只會得寸進尺,,要佢明白一件事唔係咁易,我覺得要花心思同時間,但佢一明白左就會比預期中更合作更能令人意外的啊!!
雖然我自己並唔係一個成功的例子,但就覺得以朋友方式去同佢相處,多溝通,佢會較易將自己想法講出的啊~
一齊努力~

fannyyu

hi,
wants to share some points with you.  i've got some kind of same situation as you. my one is at K3 and going to P.1 next year. so, both of our kid should be at the same age!

my gal needs warm up on most of the activities. she performs well on academy, and so do sports.  it's quite not easy that we can do all by our own to make them improve on their self-control.  you might need some guidance from professional.

(my gal didn't go for 1 interview weeks ago, but, the interview she went last week, she performs so well! it's all about the warm up time.......i can tell).  i'm having a doctor following her case now! she is not a problem one, but, we need to learn how to handle, right!

we can share more if you want :)
good luck!