two questions about studying in UK

Tommy

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Fate,

I’m moved by your tremendous effort to answer my questions.  Every word in your reply is thoughtful and inspiring.  Not only good for the school search, but also good for how we lead our lives.

I’ll remember and pass to my sons your 3Ps key words, Preparing, Planning ahead, Persistent.  Particularly, I’m enlightened by “There is always an Exception in everything in Life.”  It’s so true!  But we always miss it.

I’m actually at the initial stage to do school search in UK.  Your named schools seem to be MISSION IMPOSSIBLE to my boys!  Nevertheless, there is always an exception in everything in life.  Your encouraging message comes at the right time while I’m in a puzzle as to what to do next.

Moreover, I’m very impressed by your unconditional love to your boys.  I’m also a father of two boys.  Yes, it’s so hard to be a responsible father.  There is a lot for us to do.  Well, wish you and me success in the school search.

Tommy

Fate

Hi Tommy,

I am very pleased to hear that you've become More Focus.

It is NEVER about me telling others what they should be doing, but more about EMPOWERING others what they think is the BEST for their child/ren by me sharing what I have done/experienced/seen.

As stated before, I am extremely busy at the moment with several things happening at the same time, not to mention that I've a book to complete writing within 2 months (if not sooner).

But just to drop a quick note.

I've seen, to some, 'Miracles' happening again and again over the last few years - how children progressing at an amusing speed WHEN THE ENVIRONMENT was Right, triggering off their SELF-LEARNING. So your boys, like any other child, are NEVER too late to Further Advance themselves.

I've seen a student from HK, who was not in the top set at his IS in HK, recently got a few As in his GSCE and now progressing well in his A Level. He REGAINED his Confidence in himself and Interest in learning here in UK, which could be due to him being a Late Developer (i.e. NOT yet showing while in HK), or the way his UK teachers encouraging/motivating him, or the small 1:8 teacher to student class ratio, or ........Whatever the reason, he DOES Change and change for BETTER.

If time permits, I may come back to Edu-kingdom, starting a new thread in 2-3 month time, sharing with others how we as parents can help our child/ren in developing certain Habits, enabling our children to first  fully develop and then utilise their potentials, and also making our children understand it is their DUTY to learn from every incident.

To me, every child is GIFTED in some ways - it is just a question of how we help our child/ren to find their talents.

Bye for now, every one.

Cheers
Fate
Together We Become Better
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Fate

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Hi Annie40,

I'm glad that you've found something useful.

I'm sure you're to help your child/ren to understand,

'To Succeed, one has to have the Right Attitudes & the Right Abilities'
(And in THIS Order)

Cheers
Fate
Doing the Right Things with the Right Persons at the Right Times
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anglo-chinese

hi Guys, I thought I'd share my experience in studying in UK, which definitely helped myself by the decision made by my parents.

I grew up in a middle-class family and went to one of the top Band 1 school. Unfortunately, other than speaking English in a near native accent, I performed very badly in my subjects. And in my HKCEE I even got a single digit mark overall. Because of my characters (who love to talk and ask questions and enjoy helping others etc), I knew I would be better suited in a more International environment. Parents withold the decision to send me to UK until after my F.5, because they were worried I won't speak and write chinese if I go there too young.

I studied A-Level, and got ABCC and went to one of the good universities in London. And now finished my doctorate degree. I became the President in the Students Union as well.

If my parents did not send me abroad, I doubt I can even get to University, not to mention my doctorate degree.

In my case, I was gifted in non-acdemic subjects, and my UK school, despite being very traditional type of boarding school, catered for me.

I feel that many of us are too into the "ranking" of the school, and I hope people will choose a school not because it is No.1, but the school ethos is best suit the child. My brother benefited from choosing an exception school, who were really into searching for a talent from every single students. He eventually went to study in a music college. Again, my brother actually  repeated a year in HK secondary school, and was borderline being acception in any school because of his age (2 years older than his peers). Shall the school not discover his talent, there's little chance of him getting anywhere.

annie40

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Yes, I would choose the school ethos  suit my child instead of  the 'ranking' of the school too.  I would like to point out that without your parents' highly support and open-minded   
****     ****

Hi anglo-chinese,


It's so encouraging to read your sharing.
It helps to reinforce my belief.  Thank you.


I made the same decision by choosing the school ethos suit my child instead of  the 'ranking'.  Until today I feel good at the school.  (of course, I doubt it sometimes, 疑神疑鬼)

However,  I also believe that without your parents'
and UK schools’ enormous support and open-mind, you and your brother’s talent in non-academic subjects and music would possibly never be discovered and appreciated.


Someone says a mind being like a parachute -
it only functions when it’s open.

annie

HKdevil

Thanks for your information Fate, it is always so detailed and so informative, i must admit i learn a lot from your reply.

While you strike me as a very determined person, and a firm believer that nothing is impossible if we try. i like that because i am that kind of person too i like to think.

however, i think there are other factors which would affect our decision as well, it is one thing that we want to send our kids to the best school available, it is quite the other whether those schools are suitable to our kids.

my example will be this; i have three kids myself, one with a very obvious talent of singing and naturally she wants to do a music degree in future, now if that the case, OXbridge would not be of much useful for her.

Second daughter wants to be actress, again oxbridge should not be the target for her either. In asmuch as i would like her to go to grammar school, i also seriously doubt about if those schools really suits her.

my experience would be there, find out what their talents are and then find a school which could nurture their talents instead of aiming exclusive for the reputation of the school.

This is my two pennies worth opinion in raiding children, of course I still have so much to learn.

Again let us strike together to become a responsible parent, afterall, best parents make a better world.

God bless us all

Fate

Dear Responsible & Resourceful Parents,

I always remind our boys,

'I'm not here to make you become ME II because you're UNIQUE.
And you've to find your OWN ways in Life YOURSELF.
Because this's YOUR Life not mine.
My duty as a Father, amongst other things, is to....
BALANCE you'

As such, I Balance my boys at the Right moments.
For example,
When they're too Confident,
I remind them that X, Y etc. are better than them in some areas;
When they're not Confident,
I remind them that they're  better than A, B etc. in certain aspects.
(Key Point : they've to be BETTER of themselves, progressing every day)

Another moment  when I Balance them.
When they Lose Interest in Music, Art etc.,
I remind them these subjects can stretch their Imagination, improve Concentration;
When they're Too Focus on the above 2,
I remind them to get CORE subjects (e.g Maths, Eng) right FIRST.
(Key Point : Everything is Important but some are MORE important at a particular moment)

Applying the same logic, I am only here to BALANCE your views.
When you think certain things are not so important,
I'm here to remind you, 'Well, have you thought of.....'
When you think other things are very important,
I'm here to remind you, 'Yes, but what about......'
(Key Point : 'Do we just want to hear what we WANT to hear & NOT the FACTS?)

The Questions you may have in mind/have been asking others regrading overseas education are :

- Where do I find the Relevant Information about schools?
- How do I compare schools?
- Which school I should pick when there are several offers?
- When is the best Age for a child to study overseas?
- Which Country is the best for my child?
- Which Year level is the best for my child?
- What Subjects are best for my child?
- How do I conclude a particular school suits my child?
- What are the study options available for my child?
- How do I ensure my child settles smoothly?
- How do I know my child is learning/progressing properly?
- What is the most important factor in a child's learning?
- Why there are so many different Tables?
- Are Leagues Tables Relevant?
- Is Ranking of a school important?
- How to Read BEYOND the Tables?
- Do schools with many Chinese students mean something?
- How do we as parents support our child?
- What if my child rejects the idea of overseas studying?
- How do we prepare our child for the overseas education?
- Should the child get actively involved - it's their Education?
- Is studying in a ......
- What is...............
- Why.......

And Ultimately, 'What Education is all about?'

Again, I'm NOT here to give you the PERFECT answer.
Nor do I pretend I know EVERY answer.
Nor to give you the answer that you are looking for.
But rather, I'm here to help you finding the answers YOURSELF.
Because it is YOUR Child - You should know YOUR UNIQUE child better than I do.

Remember Academic Achievements is only 1 of 16 What I've called  MUST HAVE.
Which are to ensure our child to get the Ultimate Prize in Life : TRUE Happiness.

After finalising my 33-night stay in HK in the coming UK Summer holiday next Tue,
I'm to concentrate finishing my final draft of my first book.
Then I'm most likely to start a new thread, hopefully, in May.
Trying to help some parents to REFOCUS.

Meanwhile, you may wish to visit the following sites,
http://www.cre.org.uk/
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/
http://www.guardian.co.uk/education
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/education/

Last but not last,
I'd like to share with you all my recent E mail to my Global HK friends,
And here I'm now, wishing you all a Happy Dragon Year.

2012/1/24

龍年龍的傳人表真心, 一顆永恆不變香港心,

各位來自香港同身處香港的朋友，

想不到，
一條北京大儍狗，
大罵港人全是狗：
港人怒呼巳受夠，
誓要討此孔家狗。

想不到，
聽此北大狗獸的一番廢話，
令我記起老人的智慧佳話：

'朋友要久不久，
碰碰頭聚聚舊；
不然時間一久，
感情淡無得救。'

終想到，
新的一年，新的開始。
先祝大家：'小氣'。
做事要按步就班，由'小' 做起；
做人要面對困境，不要 '氣' 餒。

再祝大家：'長氣'。
香港靚女/媽：婀娜多姿、青春 '長' 駐；
香港猛男/爸：足智多謀、'氣' 定神閒。

更祝大家：'谷氣'。
精叻子女，潛能漸露毋須 '谷' ；
精靈BB  ， 健康快樂滿朝 '氣' 。

總之，大家一家人，
老老少少，一團和氣：
上上下下，一齊打氣。

總之，大家香港人，
不要勞氣、激氣；
不用鬥氣、負氣。
最重要爭番啖氣！

夠晒長氣、有D熱氣、無小腸氣
不是作大教授、不是賴布衣第N代後人
賴睡衣
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(Have to go for our weekly family swimming)

HKdevil

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Thanks for your sharing, I like it very much.

Fate

Dear Attention to Details Parents,

Ops, just realised that the I'd NOT included the 1st para. to my last comment.
(Which was posted on HK TIME 12-2-4 23:32)

The 1st  para. that should have been included was :

'It's embarrassed that me keep coming back after saying 'It's my LAST comment'.
But I've to come back again to offer my sincere apology to parents sending me pm.
Although I've replied a few, it's impossible for me to reply all due to time constraint.
Perhaps I could point some of you to the right direction here by the following sharing.'

(Then continue with the last comment posted on (HK TIME) 12-2-4 23:32)

I always remind our boys,
'I'm not here.....

Cheers
Getting Old Fate
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www.fatesecrets.blogspot.com

tweetybird

My daughter was born in Hong Kong but she has the citzenchip as parents were born in UK.

In our case, which year would be the best for us to send her off please?  What would be the school fee approximately?

Thanks very much

anglo-chinese

I would recommend to send her for Year 9 (which is 13 years old). There are 2 reasons:
1) most schools accept admission at Year 9

2)If you want to send her at Year 12 (after F.5), she only has 2 years in UK, and will be classified as overseas students for university fees purpose. The fees difference  is £9000 vs £13500
£9000 is payable after she starts work above a certain salary level, but £13500 is to pay up front

for fees, you can choose a state school and again send her  in 2 ways:

1) choose a state boarding school. the boarding fees is roughl £2500-£3000 per term compare to £8000 at least in private school http://www.sbsa.org.uk/find_school.php you can use this site to find the state boarding school

2) choose a normal state day school and live with a host family. I know a guardian company charge £800 per month for accommodation and food.

CPU1995

Hi Fate,

May I know your comment on Reading School? How do you compare this state boarding school with other state boarding schools?

Also, what's the difference between grammar school and non-grammar school? Is Reading School a grammar school?

Thx!

Fate

Dear Vulnerable Parents,

WHY

Why does Fate keep coming back?

I find it funny that I've to keep coming back.
You, however, may not find it funny once you've learnt of my reason in coming back.

I started reading this thread because I knew Ruby1219 from my last thread, and would like to find out what kind of help she might need this time.

I started worrying as it was obvious to me, as an experienced police offer, that someone MAY try to take advantage of some desperate parents.

This's why I keep coming back, giving essential information, providing INDEPENDENT links for your OWN research, hinting to you all NOT to assume everything everyone said here as COMPLETE FACTS - because there're always someone has a CONFLICT OF INTEREST.

WHAT

What is happening?

Someone has been presenting an INCORRECT information, which at best is MISLEADING, but at worst, could be MISLEADING with Intent.

I am to share with you all about some FACTS.

First, NOT every UK university offers Home Fee to HK students with UK passports living in UK for 3 years before starting University.

Back in early 80s, when trying to get a university allowing me to pay Home Fee after me living in UK for 3 years previously, I worked very hard to find some universities offering this.  30 years on, now in 21012, due to a BIG cut in government funding, there are now even LESS universities offering this.

Second, even some (BUT NOT ALL) universities still having the Home Fee 3 Year Qualifying Policy, there is NO Guarantee this policy will NOTchange when your child starts their University, especially when at a time, every university need to find more money ITSELF due to BIG cut in government funding. government . In fact, there have been many changes in the education policy in UK for the last 2 years.

(That was why I gave you lot 3 newspaper education sites and the Campaign for Real Education site)

For example, do you know that after some universities raising its fee to £9,000, there are already some of them consider cutting the fee  back to around £7,000?

My experience in the 80s has shown that paying an Overseas Fee has an advantage - I was NOT allowed to progress to the 2nd year due to the facts that I got very poor result in my 1st year AND I was paying Home Fee. Those paying Overseas Fee (i.e. 3 times more at the time) were ALL allowed to progress to the 2nd year, even though their results were as bad as mine!

This means that these days, when at a time all universities are short of cash, Top universities have been accused of Favouring Overseas Students by reducings places for Home Fee Students as the former paying MORE!

WHO

Who is going to benefit MOST by presenting this INCORRECT information (i.e. 3 Year Home Fee Policy)?

Is it the parents desperate trying to send their child to UK?
Or the innocent child to be sent to UK?
Or someone providing a Guardian Service in UK?
(The sooner you send the child, the sooner this person getting paid for the Guardian or Referring Service?)

HOW

How do you make a decision on what age your child should go overseas?

You have to take many factors into consideration.
But at this very moment, I have to URGE YOU NOT TO SEND YOU CHILD SOONER JUST BECAUSE OF THIS ' 3 YEAR  HOME FEE POLICY'.
The only thing that is sure is the one keep urging parents to send their child sooner will get PAID as a GUARDIAN or Referring Agent sooner.

What a responsible parent would do now is to draft a standard E Mail, stating that your child is to apply a degree course in say, Autumn 2015 and your child has a UK passport and the family just relocated back to UK a month ago (i.e. 3 years and 7 months before starting the Uni), then send the standard E mail to about as many UK universities as you want, and see if they would offer your child the 'Home Fee' status.

Also, a responsible parent would check the person offering Guardianship Service to provide TWO references (i.e. Her previous HAPPY Clients), her Enhanced POLICE CRB Check......... and ideally, better off checking independent REPUTABLE organisations rather than dealing with INDIVIDUAL.  
See if this site helps,

http://www.aegisuk.net/

Last but not least, how we behave as a parent would effect our child tremendously - children learn mostly from what their parents DO in addition to what parents Say.  So we as parents have to learn from every incident, showing our children we apply the Critical Thinking Skill, asking 'What, Why, Who, How....' etc. Logic questions to then make a Sensible and Practical Decision.

(CPU 1995, sorry, I've to come back to you some other time - it's 0015 hrs here in UK!)

Cheers
Fate
Never Routinely, Completely, 100% Trust Anyone
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tweetybird

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Thanks for your valuable information.

In fact, we have a family there in Glasgow and London, and thinking of sending her back to Glasgow for the best.  In this case, I do not think a host family will be needed.

She is now with RCHK and a Year 5 student, and RCHK is IB programmed school.  I am wondering what choices do we have in terms of this background?

Thanks very much once again.

tweetybird

Hello Fate

My daugther was born in Hong Kong with dual citizenships (Hong Kong and UK as her father was born in UK) and now is a Year 5 student in a IB school.  

May I have your view please?
1) Should I send her back when she was 13 (Year 9) according to what others suggested in order to qualify for the home fee?

2) As IB is pretty new and not sure what Uni she can apply for, any thoughts?

Thanks very much!!

anglo-chinese

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halo

there are a number of schools that are doing IB nowadays in UK, there is absolutely no problem finding an IB school in UK so don't worry

here's a link to show what schools offer IB

http://www.best-schools.co.uk/league-tables/ib-schools.aspx

however if you are sending her back to Glasgow you need to be aware the education system in Glasgow (Scotland) is different to the rest of the country unless they follow A-level or IB, but I believe you should be able to find an IB school in scotland area.

One of my students went to Fettes College (Edinburgh) which run with an IB programme, their alumni includes Tony Blair.

For South East England (around 1 hr to London), i have students went to Charterhouse and King Edward's School Witley for IB and another for the IB programme in Cheltenham Ladies College

Fate

Dear Alert Parents,

I trust most of you now know the MAIN reason that I keep coming back. (As stated in my last comment 33#)
Which is : To WARN you all NOT to be MISLED by someone trying to sell you of her Guardian/Referring Service.
   
I have done my DUTY as a RESPONSIBLE Edu-Kingdom member, and would like to make my LAST Two replies (to CPU 1995 & tweetybird), which some of them may also find useful.

CPU 1995

1) The following article may be of interest to you, as the Reading School may have a Fundamental Change.
(Do read the READERS' Comments at the bottom)

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1389623/New-11-plus-row-Tories-PM-urged-fight-grammar-schools.html

2) Also, the following sharing from a UK mum, made about  3 weeks ago may also be of interest to you,

'Our local grammar Kendrick is planning to change its current open policy to one based on catchment. Similar super-selectives such as Henrietta Barnett or the Tiffins or Queen Elizabeth Barnet have no such plans, despite the fact that many local students surely do not gain entry. Reading Boys grammar  has a catchment area, but accepts boarders out of catchment. Kendrick has no boarders so its entry outcomes will be affected significantly.

Reading is educationally more like Barnet than Bucks, Essex or Kent. So the proposed change will lower standards across the board within Reading, with Kendrick most affected.

Interestingly the change is only for 11+ and not 16+. This presumably because a fair few of the current girls would have to look elsewhere at 16+. In fact, academically selective options at 16+ are thicker on the ground than at 11+, so it would be less of an issue to introduce the catchment area at 16+ rather than at 11+. Better for local students too. So why a catchment selective at 11+ and super selective at 16+?

Apart from the obvious political pressure put on it by our MP who has his eye on local voters, I'm struggling to see why the change at 11+ rather than at 16+. Our venerable MP had initially pointed out that there is actually no shortage of places, but has since demonstrated that facts don't matter for him either. Putting aside the jungle mentality that passes over most of us when it comes to our DCs, is the Reading seat more shaky, is Reading more small-minded than Kingston or Barnet, is the Kendrick Governing Body weaker intellectually, or something else? There's been a change of Head at Kendrick, is this a sign of things to come, and of more erosion of the sort of school it will be?

This isn't about selection, more why copy Reading Boys when there's no boarding option at Kendrick, and why start with 11+ when 16+ would be far more sensible, possibly with a two year delay to allow year 9/10s to plan ahead. Most odd.

Are there similar changes planned elsewhere? Or already occurred?'

3) Regarding how to compare schools - could you wait until around May?
(I'm too busy at the moment e.g.finalising accommodation arrangement for my coming Jul/Aug 34-day HK trip with my family)

tweetybird

Below please find my quick answers to your  2 questions - contain Valuable information from INDEPENDENT & TRUSTWORTHY Sources.

1) The 3 Year Home Fee Qualifying Policy

     Please refer to my last comment at 33#, under WHAT, explaining in details' NOT every...& NO Guarantee....

     DO NOT LET ANYONE MISLEADING YOU ON THIS - ESPECIALLY FROM SOME HAVING A CONFLICT OF
     INTEREST (i.e. Offering Guardian/Referring Service)

     Scotland is getting more complicated as the Political Landscape is changing dramatically and will continue to
     be so, as  it is fighting for its Independence/More Autonomy
     
     http://www.dailymail.co.uk/debate/article-2085143/Scottish-independence-Alex-Salmond-break-UK-matter-us.html

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/debate/article-2092925/Scottish-independence-debate-Is-end-Britain.html

     This will have a Tremendous Effect on how much you're to pay for your girl's university fee in the future.
     The fee is confusing enough at present and could be even more so in the future if Britain is to break up.
     
    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2034143/36-000-degree-Edinburgh-University--youre-English.html
   
    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2030676/Aberdeen-Scottish-university-raise-fees-9-000.html
   

2) Regarding IB acceptance by UK universities, the following articles may interest you (Do remember to read the Readers' Comments at the bottom)

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2030670/The-International-Baccalaureate-backlash-Scores-private-school-pupils-ditched-A-levels-fail-university.html

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/educationnews/9027992/Top-school-reintroduces-A-levels-after-exam-overhaul.html

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/secondaryeducation/8881037/How-to-choose-between-A-levels-and-IB.html

CPU 1995, tweetybird and ALL other parents, please be PATIENT, I'm to start a new thread possibly in May, trying to help you lot to find the full answers YOURSELF.

Amongst other things, I'll give you all a UK website where parents discussing education issues like Edu-Kingdom, enabling you all  to ask questions, share views, discuss concerns etc. DIRECTLY with UK Mums - to AVOID you being MISLED by someone trying to get business from you here in Edu-Kingdom.

Sorry, Ruby, I feel GUILTY of taking so much space of your thread, and parents please wait for another 2-3 months for my thread.

For the time being, do have another great weekend with your family - for whom we have come to this world.

Best wishes
Fate
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Fate

Dear All Smart Parents,

TIME

At last, the Time has come.
Although longer than I expected, 'someone' finally sent me a PM.
Attacking me for accusing her MISLEADING others.

It's about Time that I settle this Once & For All.
Because I believe GOOD should NOT be Teased by BAD.
I therefore have NO choice but to come back again.

I now respond OPENLY to the 'someone' sending me a PM,
The member named,  'anglo-chinese'.
The Following is addressed to 'anglo-chinese'

Dear Dr anglo-chinese,

Although you liked to address fellow parents with 'halo' (in 2#) and 'Hi Guys' (in 24#),
I was taught the Old Way & therefore would like to use the Old Way in the opening.
I trust you do not mind me beginning with 'Dear', then Dr.
(Sorry, what subject did you say you got a PHD in? Please refresh us)

TRUSTWORTHY

May I start with your following comment first.

點評
anglo-chinese Do you really trust Daily Mail? A newspaper who wants all foreign students and immigration out of UK? 發表於 昨天 20:20

To many people, your comment could be a Provocative Remark.
But I think differently as I do appreciate people saying different opinions.
I'm sure you're more than happy to share your answers to the following questions with us,

1) Would you be kind enough to enlighten us on WHICH WORD, SENTENCE OR PARAGRAPH of the 6 Daily Mail reports I quoted has contained, what you claimed, 'wants all foreign students and immigration out of UK'?

2) Ops.... If your claim is NOT based on any of the above 6 articles, but rather on OTHER Articles of Daily Mail,  may I remind you that in the Highest Court in UK, which upholds Justice & Fairness, will sentence a defendant BASED ONLY on the offence currently in court & the defendant's PREVIOUS criminal records will NOT be allowed to be disclosed.

Do you agree that you have made yourself appearing to be rather BIASED and UNCONVINCING, as your accusation against Daily Mail CANNOT be found in ANY of the above articles?.

3) Everything is Relative. Like I may not like my tiger wife that much, but I like my bear mother-in-law less. So, adopting the same logic, although I do NOT trust Daily Mail that much,  I am sorry to say that I find the Daily Mail is MORE Trustworthy than YOU. Do you think I have got the logic wrong?

Because you've a conflict of interest - you have started a thread, ' 有人需要英國監護人嗎？' ; continue to recommend parents to send child at Yr 9 MAINLY for the Home Fee status (in 2#, 31#) ; and you stated it YOURSELF in 31# , '2) choose a normal state day school and live with a host family.
I know a guardian company charge £800 per month for accommodation and food.'



(BTW, I am at lost when seeing your ' A newspaper WHO wants' - has the grammar been changed? Do we start using WHO to describe a newspaper?)

THREAT

May I point out that your PM could, to many people, be seen as a Threat because you've used the title,  'stop being nasty ok?',  your 1st  sentence began with, 'please stop attack me on my post', and your last sentence was,

'I feel sorry for your sons to have a pushy parents like you'  - which to many is TOTALLY UNACCEPTABLE, A NASTY CURSE from someone REALLY LOW.

But to me, I just get used to deal NASTY People CALMLY (Sorry to be different from you).

I trust you do NOT mind sharing with us of your answers to the following questions,

4) Why do you think I was talking about YOU, when I have NEVER mentioned any name? (Is it because you felt you'd done something wrong YOURSELF?)

5) Why do you think I was being 'nasty', I was 'Attacking' you ? (All I did was to REMIND Desperate parents to be careful about someone trying to take advantage of them by providing MISLEADING information, the 3-Year Home Fee Qualifying Policy)

6) Why did you say, 'stop attack MY post'? (I thought it's Ruby1219's post. Was it because that you're SO INTO it, you WRONGLY thought the post was yours? And you WRONGLY thought how dare I was to remind others in YOUR post?

7) Why did you bring my boys into this? (Have you NOT learnt the Western Culture, which NEVER bring others like parents, children, spouse etc. into an argument?)

TRACK

In YOUR post, yes this one is yours,  ' 有人需要英國監護人嗎？' , you've stated that you've over 7 years experience of being a guardian, so for the sake of helping those desperate HK parents (i.e. your POTENTIAL Customers) and helping you to PROMOTE your business, I trust you are eager to share with us of your INSIGHTS on Guardian Services,

8) What LEGAL requirements that a guardian MUST meet? (e.g. license from statutory regulator/professional body, public liability insurance, minimum number of fire alarm/toilet/shower room in a house, minimum room size for students etc.)

9) Does the guardian have to be confirmed by the 2 UK credit rating agencies of NEVER having a Default? (www.experian.co.uk, www.equifax.co.uk) (Conforming a guardian is financially TRUSTWORTHY)

10) Does the guardian have to be cleared by the police and be given a CRB Enhanced Disclosure as children and the young are involved? (Confirming a guardian is morally TRUSTWORTHY)

11) Does a guardian have to be cleared by the NHS and be given a Health Certificate? (Confirming a guardian is MENTALLY stable AND has NO infectious disease)

12) Does a guardian have to be cleared by the St Johns and be given a First Aid certificate? (Confirming a guardian can perform life saving CPR before the arrival of an ambulance)

13) Does a guardian's home has to installed with a particular type of Burglar alarm? (Confirming help will come sooner)

14) Do you think it is REASONABLE to ask a guardian to provide AT LEAST two References of HAPPY customers? (Confirming a guardian is Consistently Reliable in providing a GOOD service)

15) Any other ESSENTIAL information that a parent should ask? (e.g. where a guardian lives - as some areas have more crimes than others, www.police.uk)

I trust you agree with me that given that there are 5,000 headteachers are Incompetent,http://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/9062107/5000-head-teachers-lack-leadership-says-Ofsted-chief.html, and 1,000 serving police have criminal records, http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/crime/8987795/Nearly-1000-serving-police-officers-and-PCSOs-have-a-criminal-record.html, you can feel why parents need to be VERY CAUTIOUS about TRUSTING someone to look after their innocent child, because every guardian will NEVER say they are a bad one themselves, will they?

You must have a good track record, so you must be 'over the moon' now for being given the opportunity to show what you REALLY ARE, and why parents should TRUST you and NOT other guardians giving a Lower price or just because they live in London, by you answering ALL the questions.

TRUTH

You've kept urging parents to send their child SOONER mainly because of this '3 Year Home Fee' status.

Given that you've been so keen in promoting this status ,and you've been in the business for 7 years with so many university students staying with you before (so you claimed), yo must have some TRUTH (i.e. FACTS).

I trust that you are so happy now to be given the opportunity to show us the TRUTH,  HOW PREPARED and HOW CONSIDERING YOU ARE by answering the following question,

15) DO YOU MIND GIVING US THE LIST OF ALL UNIVERSITIES THAT GIVE HOME FEE TO THOSE UK PASSPORT HOLDERS LIVING IN UK 3 YEARS PRIOR TO START THEIR UNIVERSITY COURSE? (about 116 of them, http://www.thecompleteuniversityguide.co.uk/league-tables/rankings)

   
    TRAGEDY

May I remind you that to many people, your NASTY COMMENT of,
'I feel sorry for your sons to have a pushy parents like you'

will make them Very Angry.

But I just FEEL SO SORRY for you.

Because for you to have acted SO LOW could only mean that you probably had been a subject of BEING Pushed YOURSELF (That's may be why you NATURALLY thought others are Victimised like you were before), or you have been UNHAPPY YOURSELF as you've NO LUCK in finding a DECENT, PROPER, WELL PAID job over many many years, might have been forced to carry on studying and might now end up with heavy student loan debt, http://www.dailymail.co.uk/money/news/article-2084992/Jobs-bottleneck-graduates-struggling-work-creates-backlog.html (Is this why you've to take on 4 students - a FULL time job at home?)

I trust you're to share with those hard working parents, who MAY Become your customers, spending a fortune in sending their child overseas, about your Job Experience, helping them to visualise what the future will be for their child,

16) Do you mind sharing with us your JOB EXPERIENCE after finishing your degree?

17) How much MORE you have earned after finishing your PHD when compared with you having a degree only?

DEAR ALL  SMART PARENTS AGAIN,

I've now completed my MISSION in this post with Better than expected results.

Because firstly, anglo-chinese is to answer the questions some of you have asked me through pm.  The most important answers you now to look for are the ones Regarding the guardian and the LIST. But to me personally, every singe one of the above 17 questions is important.

Secondly, you all now have a better understanding of vital importance of the Integrity of a guardian - NOT how much a guardian charge, NOT how much experience a guardian has, NOT how convenient a guardian's home is etc. but HOW IMPORTANT THE MORALITY  and MENTALITY of a guardian count.

Thirdly, I've shown you how (or how NOT) to Present Ideas Clearly & Logically, how to Back points with Evidences, how to Control the Flow, how to Exceed expectation... ..... , which does NOT require a PHD  but ONLY PRACTISE - if I can do it, so can you and your child.

It's been a great pleasure to share with you all and I'm to have my LAST sharing with you an E Mail I'd sent, which is attached below - how I try to build a network for our boys by sending an Open Invitation to All school parents, inviting them to our home for a tea.

See you lot again in MAY.

Best wishes
Fate
One can Fool everyone at some times,
One can Fool someone at all times,
But noone can Fool ALL at All times.
    www.fatersecrets.blogspot.com
    www.myboysmyboss.blogspot.com

Dear Fellow Parents

OPEN INVITATION

We are very Grateful,
To see our son progressing well and is Cheerful.
Thanks to CGS's Staff doing their job so Wonderful!

We then have a Thought.
If CGS's Parents would too enjoy Mutual Support,
By regularly coming together for a relaxing talk?

We are now Inviting,
You if free to drop by our home for a tea & a Sharing,
0915-1115 hrs, Every Term TimeThursday Morning,

We wish there would be a Happy Ending.
For us,   a Pleasure in Asking.
For you, NO Pressure in Coming.

Names provided
(Parents of X in 8X)
Address provided
(3-minute walk from CGS)
Home & Mobile Nos. provided
Emails provided

annie40

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真心喜欢Fate 和 Anglo-chinese 的分享!  我是牆头草, 觉得合用合听就学吓, 太复杂的我看不明白, 也学不来. (天生有防火牆), 非常低层次的.  你们皆是有心有力之人, 请继续坦白分享.

HKdevil

I agreed with Annie40, well said. useful information are all good information, afterall, we call are independant parents, thus can exercise our own judgement. Besides, they are all for references only.

There is no need to attack anyone here, conflict of interest might not  necessarily be a bad thing, as long as they make it known. For one thing, it might mean that they are in the profession and indeed know the rules.

Let us all set a good example for our children and to love one another, not to attack one another.

God bless us all.