對 德 望 學 校 政 策 的 不 滿

eggeggma

係咪時候 off 呢個 topic, 實太 off-track?
yes 都唔好答 la, 唔係又 up la.
thanks

Lovelymama2006

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ChristyBBmama 寫道:
完全同意   
聽講 sister 都唔收學費收左d比較既窮學生喎, GH咁多人咁多家長, 有少少咁既家長唔出其喎, 家長冇修養, 同囡囡同學校又有乜關係呢
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DocDaddy 寫道:
唉！真正

Lovelymama2006

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eggeggma 寫道:
話說有

DocDaddy

Dear eggeggma,

Don't worry. I don't think we need to close this topics cos it is a good chance for us to discuss rationally and to clarify any misunderstanding. It will be better than to say nothing and let any misconception to flow around. I believe that most of the BK parent are intelligent and can see the truth themselves.

The world of children is simple and it is ourselves that make their world becomes more complicated.
As parent, why don't we let our kids to get along with their classmates in their own way and not project our thinking on them and disturbing their social lives.

DocDaddy

Lovelymama2006 寫道:

點都好啦, 我都係聽高年級的家長講, 學校為了不要有noble學校之名, 因此必定收一些家景一般的學生. 當然不是只有gh啦, dgsj 都是.

唔好隨便去label一間學校noble.
其實妳有冇細心分析吓背後嘅成因呢？

私校係有選擇學生嘅權利，正如負擔得起學費嘅家長(如妳)都有選擇學校嘅權利一樣。這是你情我願的，各取所需。我相信很多家長呈願去面試考學校，失敗了心甘命抵，好過靠運氣去抽纖，抱怨終身。

尤其响現在的小一派位制度下(妳話公平又好，唔公平又好)，好多有能力嘅家長都會自己去投考私小/直資。咁有名氣嘅學校自然吸引很多家景不錯嘅家長，學校多了選擇，也自然會選擇這些家長(認為有好D嘅家庭資源去配合)，甚至有D喜歡收全職媽咪D小朋友添。就算名官津都吸引人花千萬去買屋博入啦。我又唔覺得這些名學要特登收一些冇錢學生去避免noble之名，因為唔cost-effective。妳話要收幾多先有效呢？好似宜家GH，DGJS咪一樣俾人話noble。另外，唔通佢唔咁做妳又會唔報佢呀？

其實有啲名校會收一些成績好，或課外活動出息，但嚟自普通家庭嘅小朋友，因會為學校爭光。

總之，noble又好，唔noble又好，最緊要係家長嘅態度，同點樣教小朋友正確嘅觀念。如果連家長都貴族前貴族後，咁又點教好小朋友呢？

eggeggma

DocDaddy 寫道:
Dear eggeggma,

Don't worry. I don't think we need to close this topics cos it is a good chance for us to discuss rationally and to clarify any misunderstanding. It will be better than to say nothing and let any misconception to flow around. I believe that most of the BK parent are intelligent and can see the truth themselves.

The world of children is simple and it is ourselves that make their world becomes more complicated.
As parent, why don't we let our kids to get along with their classmates in their own way and not project our thinking on them and disturbing their social lives.

thanks so much.

Well, my point is that the recent discussion, especially it is provoked by myself, is rather off-track.  As a part-time script-marker, I would definitely fail this assignment as the content does not match the topic.   On the other hand, I would pass the assignment, even giving an 'A'', if the topic is named "the proper ways to raise a kid," "parents' role model is an important element in educating kids," etc.

I believe your kid's world is simple (a best-seller years ago titled 'simplicity is happiness,' something like that) and  she must have enjoyed her school life very much.  keep it up.

Also an important statement: I gives my girl absolute freedom to choose her friends and classmates, way of life and so.

thanks again and enjoy your disneyland trip (if i recall correctly)   

eggeggma

用記大過屈退學只是小巫.
其他招數:
曰日电話到, 月月見家長,
長期隔離在 library 自修 (唔犯 EMB 手則);
停2日學, 返一曰 (一係隔離; 一係留係班房, 一作反, 訓導即到), 再停2日, 再返一曰... (EMB 容許停學, 但不能連續多過指定日數)
校長夠 guts, 可以直接向 EMB 報告, 交 detailed reports 等 EMB 發落, EMB 一定揾番個位比革走嗰個 (9-year complusory education).

可以話學校低莊, 但完全無犯法.

DocDaddy

eggeggma，多謝。
我自問並非一個十分出色嘅爸爸，但都希望盡力教育好我嘅女兒。我不期望她日後有非凡成就，只要是善良，有愛心，對社會有貢獻就夠了。
"培育下一代"這一課還在學習中，如有機會請多多賜教。
"身教和言教"這一課更難，正在努力。

囡囡到目前為止學校生活都是愉快的，當然要維持必要加倍心機。

相信妳的女兒(eggegg，沒錯嗎？)也很享受學校生活。

祝愉快

eggeggma

DocDaddy,
thanks.
Yes, eggegg likes her school very much (maybe you can check somewhere else where I have mentioned her attitudes).
Yes, these topics are very hard and I am learning too.

祝愉快>> You too.

A tip: if your girl can survive this P.1 year, she as well as you can have a break after promoting to P.2.  we are enjoying our honeymoon now  

work hard and don't give up

Dragonite

完全同意你的講法,這亦是我的心願!

DocDaddy 寫道:
eggeggma，多謝。
我自問並非一個十分出色嘅爸爸，但都希望盡力教育好我嘅女兒。我不期望她日後有非凡成就，只要是善良，有愛心，對社會有貢獻就夠了。
"培育下一代"這一課還在學習中，如有機會請多多賜教。
"身教和言教"這一課更難，正在努力。

囡囡到目前為止學校生活都是愉快的，當然要維持必要加倍心機。

相信妳的女兒(eggegg，沒錯嗎？)也很享受學校生活。

祝愉快

Lovelymama2006

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eggeggma 寫道:
用記大過屈退學只是小巫.
其他招數:
曰日

Lovelymama2006

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DocDaddy 寫道:

總之，noble又好，唔noble又好，最緊要係家長

Msma

其實父母貧窮或富貴都唔係小朋友可選擇的，學校乃讀書的地方，要比可比學術，運動，音樂！　點解要比身家呢？人地要比，自己亦可唔參予架？

父母有錢必並無應驕的必要，因不是你能力賺取的，
相反，父母貧窮亦無必要自卑，努力讀書，做另一個黃仁龍！

人地睇小自己，係人地唔了解，係個個人有問題嗎！寬恕佢的無知啦，做父母呢樣一定要教，千其唔好培養小朋友有出”憎人富貴，嫌人貧”的心態！

相反要教佢地盡力做好份內事，就算人”雞蛋內挑骨頭”　亦要寬大同從容面對！

sadsam

Msma 寫道:

其實父母貧窮或富貴都唔係小朋友可選擇的，學校乃讀書的地方，要比可比學術，運動，音樂！　點解要比身家呢？人地要比，自己亦可唔參予架？

父母有錢必並無應驕的必要，因不是你能力賺取的，
相反，父母貧窮亦無必要自卑，努力讀書，做另一個黃仁龍！

人地睇小自己，係人地唔了解，係個個人有問題嗎！寬恕佢的無知啦，做父母呢樣一定要教，千其唔好培養小朋友有出”憎人富貴，嫌人貧”的心態！

相反要教佢地盡力做好份內事，就算人”雞蛋內挑骨頭”　亦要寬大同從容面對！

ChristyBBmama

Msma 寫道:

人地睇小自己，係人地唔了解，係個個人有問題嗎！寬恕佢的無知啦，做父母呢樣一定要教，千其唔好培養小朋友有出”憎人富貴，嫌人貧”的心態！

相反要教佢地盡力做好份內事，就算人”雞蛋內挑骨頭”　亦要寬大同從容面對！

完全同意

中藥

天氣轉冷, 綠色的綿襖還未買到.

Lovelymama2006

Msma 寫道:

其實父母貧窮或富貴都唔係小朋友可選擇的，學校乃讀書的地方，要比可比學術，運動，音樂！　點解要比身家呢？人地要比，自己亦可唔參予架？

父母有錢必並無應驕的必要，因不是你能力賺取的，
相反，父母貧窮亦無必要自卑，努力讀書，做另一個黃仁龍！

人地睇小自己，係人地唔了解，係個個人有問題嗎！寬恕佢的無知啦，做父母呢樣一定要教，千其唔好培養小朋友有出”憎人富貴，嫌人貧”的心態！

相反要教佢地盡力做好份內事，就算人”雞蛋內挑骨頭”　亦要寬大同從容面對！

如果, 個個都好似你講的, 天下便太平了. 只可惜偏偏有人"嫌人貧" 加上太喜歡showoff 啦. 邊個, 你自己想想 啦, 當然唔係話你啦.

ChristyBBmama

Lovelymama2006 寫道:

如果, 個個都好似你講的, 天下便太平了. 只可惜偏偏有人"嫌人貧" 加上太喜歡showoff 啦. 邊個, 你自己想想 啦, 當然唔係話你啦.

其實間間學校都有咁既人, 而且d小朋友唔會覺架喎, 就算有都可以視之為學習(做人和社會現像)嘅過程, 又唔駛睇得咁負面喎, 家長既睇法都會影響小朋友架, 希望你可以睇得正面d啦, 咁先可以enjoy your life架

Darth

    

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DocDaddy 寫道:
唉！真正

ink

中藥 寫道:
天氣轉冷, 綠色的綿襖還未買到.

裕華好似返左貨，不妨去睇下