真道中、小家長聚談

deniset

Dear James&Simon,
RE: Homeroom Teacher Cell Phone
There should be a separate notice on the phone info.  We got the notice last year approx. the 2nd / 3rd week of Sept. You can also call the school office and ask them to give it to you in case you need it now. Neither have I got it at present. A bunch of notices will follow. Until then, you'll find too many of them.

RE: Classmate List
In the past, we didn't get this from the school. Nevertheless, there was a group of committed parents in my girl's class who updated the list themselves and distributed to the rest of us. I haven't got the list either. How about the rest of the parents here?  

軒Mother

Hi all, 我都唔明學校點安排, 我個仔都係讀DS1, 我都有發覺1E班特別多人, 問過學校又無確實答案, 只話遲d會分散, 又無講幾時
我個仔已第三年, 已習慣學校o既嘢好多時都問唔到確實答案, 不過自己覺得問題不大就無所謂, 亞仔開心就得   
今日我個仔架校車都遲到, 遲o左十分鐘先到屋苑,返到學校一定遲, 亞仔唔鍾意排遲到隊,  將軍澳區都遲到 , 我會再觀察多幾日, 如果再係咁, 一定向高太投訴

軒Mother

Re: Classmate List
我也從沒有由學校給予班名單,可能是個別老師做法

qq_dad

For the class list, we don't have either.  Just like deniset, we, parents contacted each other and made a list.  Besides, we had created a forum for the parents of the same class to chat last year.

deniset 寫道:
Dear James&Simon,
RE: Homeroom Teacher Cell Phone
There should be a separate notice on the phone info.  We got the notice last year approx. the 2nd / 3rd week of Sept. You can also call the school office and ask them to give it to you in case you need it now. Neither have I got it at present. A bunch of notices will follow. Until then, you'll find too many of them.

RE: Classmate List
In the past, we didn't get this from the school. Nevertheless, there was a group of committed parents in my girl's class who updated the list themselves and distributed to the rest of us. I haven't got the list either. How about the rest of the parents here?  

軒Mother

Hi James&Simon,
我個仔今日收到有關班主任的電話號碼的通告, check 吓   個仔書包有無.

zoemaywang

hi軒Mother

kittty

Hi zoemaywang & all,

my son enjoy in new school, too.

zoemaywang 寫道:
my daugher very enjoy new school

軒Mother

Hi zoemaywang, 您個女是否讀FS1? 她習慣嗎? 有無陪她返學睇佢早會?

cow

軒Mother wrote,
今日我個仔架校車都遲到, 遲o左十分鐘先到屋苑,返到學校一定遲, 亞仔唔鍾意排遲到隊, 將軍澳區都遲到  , 我會再觀察多幾日, 如果再係咁, 一定向高太投訴

Most school buses including those of the other schools should have the same problem. It will be better after a few days.

zoemaywang

my daugher fs2 she very happy now she go to school by schoolbus

KenBaBa

Dear qq_dad & Deniset,

I am sorry that after double-check my duty roster, I find that I would not be released until night time this weekend ..... so ..... I expect to come not until 16/9 ..... sorry!

Dear TTmon,

Thanks for your reply. Concerning the overwhelming class size problem, I think it is because of the school is becoming popular and it is difficult to reject the requests from so many parents and students. Also taking into consideration of the possible turn over rate, may be the class size will decrease in due course. I agree that it is compromizable and not a big deal if the class size dose not exceed 10% in the initial stage but of course it is better to have a new class created (if resources, teachers, classroom available) to accomdate the surplus in order to be fair to all those being affected.

Dear RogerC,

I share your feelings. I welcome the extended schooling hours just because it fits my own situation. I regret that the new arrangement turns out to be inconvenient to others especially those live at distant areas. As the case now stands, the school bus ( under the direction of the school administration ) nevertheless must do something to minimize the time spent on the roads. I wish the situation could be much improved at the first instance but on the other hand, I would like to ask those being affected to be patience because the school term has just begun and in my experience chaotic situations in the initial stage for most schools are not uncommon. Just like this afternoon, my son's class was released 15 minutes behind the schedule due to the class was so noisy that no one hear the bell ringing and discover the time has been running out !!   ) that consequently, many scholl buses were definitely affected and their set-offs delayed !!! Anyway, views of RogerC should be taken weight on another aspect that the change was unilaterally initiated by the school ( for whatever reasons ) and the school administration therefore should review the situation in good times and to take appropriate remedial actions if the outcome is unsatisfactory.

Dear all,

My son today received the Notice No. 8 which contained the cell phone numbers of the homeroom teacher and the liaison officer Ms SO.

dcca

想問吓有無家長知道網上每日一篇幾時開始呀!呀女成日追問我，及果$100幾時交呢?   

軒Mother

Hi dcca,
你是否指中文每日一篇? 未有咁快, 應該要到十月先至有得做, 至於學校幾時收$100, 未有通知, 唔好咁心急

dcca 寫道:
想問吓有無家長知道網上每日一篇幾時開始呀!呀女成日追問我，及果$100幾時交呢?   

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qq_dad

Just read the following and want to share.

因假日的關係，上了巴士見座位幾乎已客滿，突然發現還有個座位，不管了，先坐下如須讓位再說！當車子靠站再啟動後，看到前面有位身懷六甲的婦人，手裡還牽個三四歲的小女孩，我趕緊起身讓座，那婦人連連道謝後入座。

一路上， 小女孩一直望著我，當時我還以為是我長得白白胖胖，這小女孩一定是想跟我玩。

我正得意地猛對她點頭時，小女孩突然問她媽媽：
「媽媽！為什麼這個阿姨長得好胖喔﹖跟嘟嘟一樣！」
天啊！我當時愣住了，同時也發現不知有幾十對眼睛看著我，真恨不得能挖個洞鑽下去。

結果小女孩的媽媽，給了一佪我出乎意料的回答---
她對孩子說：「妹妹，妳喜不喜歡花﹖」
小女孩開心地回答：「很喜歡啊！」
「那妳能不能告訴媽媽，花有幾種顏色﹖」
只見小女孩連忙將手指頭伸出來，算給她媽媽聽：
「花有白色的，還有黃色、紅色、粉紅色.... 」
婦人又問：「那妳喜歡大朵的，還是小朵的﹖」小女孩回答「都喜歡」。

婦女接著對她女兒說：「人也是一樣啊！有胖胖的，有瘦瘦的，
只要是好人，妳是不是也和媽媽一樣都喜歡﹖」小女孩天真無邪地望著我，然後對我說：「阿姨，妳是好人，我喜歡妳。」

內心真有波濤洶湧的感動，這位孩子的媽不但替我解了圍，也給小女孩一個正確的觀念。不久，婦人帶著她的小孩起身下車了，我沒來得及說謝謝，但我心中將永遠無法忘懷，這位有智慧的媽媽對她小孩說的那段話。

試想過去的一些經驗，一般的媽媽反可能有哪幾種：

1. 自掃門前雪：妹妹不可以這樣說阿姨(大姊姊)喔∼然後就不理人了。
這是最壞的示範。

2.機會教育型：妹妹不可以這樣說阿姨(大姊姊)喔∼快跟阿姨說對不起。
雖然教導了孩子，卻再一次傷了別人的心。

3.代罪羔羊型：媽媽親自說：對不起！對不起！小孩子不懂事，有口無心。沒有教到孩子，似乎意指小孩口無遮攔，卻說出真實的一面。……等等，

也許大家還有不同的際遇，但似乎都不是很好的方式，重點是妹妹傷了人之後，媽媽還當了加重二次傷害的幫凶。上文中媽媽用有巧妙的比喻，不但化解危機、免除當事人的尷尬，同時潛移默化中，孩子也學到不要以貌取人。

父母能以小朋友能懂的方式適當的去教，除了孩子能接受之外，
對以後處事的態度也會有不同，希望藉由這篇文章，給各位作個勉勵

daisychan

deniset 寫道:
Dear Daisy,
Did you have a chance to browse the student list posted on the 1st Fl. ? Any comments? I still wonder why they put 35 kids in DS_1E.  Like you said, the school should have let the parents of 1E class know about the arrangement in advance.   

RE: S3 Booklist
I'm sorry to hear that you ran into another problem with books , oh no!!  Agree with you that the school should have made the parents aware in advance.
I hope you manage to get them within a day or two.
Indeed, we look forward to an improvement in this respect.

Hi, Deniset,

I have seen the student list on the first day to school. As I remembered, there was originally 37 students on the name list of Class DS1_E.

Some mums told me that there are 36 students in DS1_E cos' the kids are the least "active" in the form and are more "discipline".    

Eventually, I got the remaining books from two bookshops in Mongkok this evening. Thank you!
  

daisychan

Hi, qq_dad,

Thank you for your sharing.