SPCCPS vs DGJS

yourmobile

Daughter's dream vs my dream. Please comment and advise us. Thanks.

retriever

wellmax 發表於 17-1-1 13:08
I think there're ppl from every school that will find a good spouse while others remain single. It's ...

睇番 佢地D 公開刊物入面d校友新婚消息，其實同畢業年份 couples或娶師妹比例唔少。

mytambb

wellmax 發表於 17-1-1 13:08
I think there're ppl from every school that will find a good spouse while others remain single. It's ...

有趣。也許也是名女校的畢業生。其實婚姻是贏的競賽、商業的行為嗎？如果是，誰可以贏得漂亮呢？金錢、名份、地位？最終什麼又是最重要呢？

wellmax

原帖由 Yeahly_ly 於 17-01-01 發表
本帖最後由 Yeahly_ly 於 17-1-1 01:08 編輯

呢個統計唔易～等你出post:happy ...

I think there're ppl from every school that will find a good spouse while others remain single. It's true for all schools. Finding a lifelong partner pretty much depends on one's personality and luck. There's not a formula with which school the girls' can find a good spouse. It's right if the woman is too strong, there're hardly any men beating their ability.
Also , it's hard to define how to obtain a nice marriage. Strong women feel they're good that they can earn anything themselves , not needing to rely on men. While some (or many HK ladies' mentality ) think that marrying a rich man and not needing to work is a nice thing. So different ppl got different perspectives towards a nice life.

Yeahly_ly

wellmax 發表於 16-12-31 23:39
My friend from spcc got married with her spcc classmate after completing graduate school. So it's tr ...

讀男女校女仔遇返舊同學結婚～起碼一早有機會識左先已經好好！

Yeahly_ly

hkpapa852 發表於 16-12-29 12:01
有冇可以俾料我做吓我多年嚟都想做但又做唔到既統計?

邊間學校既畢業生嫁得好D?

呢個統計唔易～等你出post

wellmax

原帖由 Yeahly_ly 於 16-12-24 發表
本帖最後由 Yeahly_ly 於 16-12-24 08:31 編輯

Sorry 媽媽對女兒既角度....學業重要....終身幸 ...

My friend from spcc got married with her spcc classmate after completing graduate school. So it's true that spcc can help for future partner hunting.

Bevaja

DG girls，絕大部份都好有禮貌，亦好少寸寸貢。好多時，外界印象都唔係事實。

我想講，麻烦的，多數係DGJS啲家長...

retriever

florence.lau 發表於 16-12-30 13:55
這個帖很有趣，由揾學校變左揾老公。

Ok, 既然是聖誕新年，就用一個輕鬆的角度去討論吧！

叻得來內斂係一種智慧。

retriever

cmchang0927 發表於 16-12-30 21:27
其實以前我都成日聽人講dgs女仔點點點點(唔好野)，甚至連小學老師也曾表示入左會比D女仔點點點點。。不過我 ...

籠統d講係d 字頭張揚外放d,s字頭壓抑內斂d.

學校係咁教，副作用係咩，要睇同細路本身既化學作用。

cmchang0927

其實以前我都成日聽人講dgs女仔點點點點(唔好野)，甚至連小學老師也曾表示入左會比D女仔點點點點。。不過我見我女升左f1好開心，問佢有冇比人蝦，佢話“呢間學校D人好nice的，冇人會蝦人㗎!”
佢又帶幾過同學上過屋企，都係純純品品有禮貌型細路女咁。。所以我也不知係新ㄧ代bb些or人人看到的sample size不一樣。
阿女有小學同學去左spcc曾見過有女仔比口多多男同學説難聽説話整到大哭，但我又不會因此覺得spcc不好。
青少年，年少輕狂總有吧!只要學校整體校風好便ok了。

Soming

BearBearMummy 發表於 16-12-30 11:16
我等hkpapa個嫁得好數據排名黎選校， 到時係咪擺喺升中版呀？

哈哈哈~~  正! 好提議BOR!

mamaokasan

festival mood ma...relax ha...

florence.lau

這個帖很有趣，由揾學校變左揾老公。

Ok, 既然是聖誕新年，就用一個輕鬆的角度去討論吧！

讀女校就不懂跟男性相處？不會吧！現在有那麼多聯校活動，我讀中學時都已有不少同學拍拖了。尤其是DGS咁鼓勵大家參與課外活動。

樓上説interview 時老師給了一個大交义給小女孩，我估計老師是在看看小朋友能否perform under pressure. 要知道DG要培養的，是不屈不撓的精神。潛臺詞是：alright, I was wrong, but how can I do better next time?

這種不屈不撓的精神會影響婚姻？看你怎運用吧。用得好，只會是雙贏。

To disagree without disagreement 是一種藝術。學校是一個很好的培養地方，因為人多自然意見多，尤其DG的女孩子都是有主見的。但怎樣去compromise 哩？是一種學問。在學校，老師都提供機會給同學自己討論，自己決定。這種處事方式，用於婚姻上，也是雙贏的。

最近見到一個畢業於spcc的朋友，她是在一家international private bank 裏工作的。她跟我說了不下一次，説在她公司的intern 裏，最醒目的是一個DGS的女孩。説她醒目，不只是説她英文好,做野叻，而是説她話頭醒尾，會看眉頭眼額。這個例子當然可能只是個別例子，但想指出的是，如果認為DG的女生一定菱角太多，也未免以偏概全。

至於我這位畢業於spcc的朋友，她是單身的。但這就代表她不快樂？相信只是個人選擇吧！

Yanamami

如果講紧DSE同学界成績都未必係学校－手“栽培”而係家長学生功勞既話，有無好歸宿都入埋学校数，会唔会有点兒那个？

BearBearMummy

我等hkpapa個嫁得好數據排名黎選校， 到時係咪擺喺升中版呀？

mamaokasan

ochan650 發表於 16-12-29 14:53
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我同你想法一樣！我是SPCC舊生。我個年畢業同學只有兩對夫妻是同學，仲有一對最後 ...

my school was an coed secondary school. with time, we all get our own hubby/wife...and the remaining classmates,somehow they automatically paired up! at that time, i thought- it is not really bad to have attended co-ed school! save up a lot of dating process....esp when you enter 3x !

mamaokasan

hkpapa852 發表於 16-12-29 12:01
有冇可以俾料我做吓我多年嚟都想做但又做唔到既統計?

邊間學校既畢業生嫁得好D?

嫁得好 maybe even more difficult to get into oxbridge! (haha. just kidding) but it is so true (well to our family only) : as an old-school traditional parents, it is a lifelong 幸福 to my girl。


our relatives is this case - they both knew each other at coed and got married. the male studied very hard to get into medical school. The female is very elegant. very幸福~

Yanamami

siden 發表於 16-12-29 18:00
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可能小学係男女校，升中先係女校，跟从小都係女校既会有d分别｡我两个女对男仔無乜幻想，唔恨亦唔会怕醜~

siden

Yanamami 發表於 16-12-29 17:48
其实你唔多明而家女校、男校既狀况同生態……mixed choir个个礼拜有一齐練习、辯論隊/泳隊亦有交流、又有 ...

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本質和感受完全不同

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Paradoxically 會少咗好多無謂同fancy幻想。

好難在此明言同詳述。