CCKG K2 還是St Cat K1？

73662710

弟弟的兒子在2009年12月出世的細仔在MOS BoxHill讀K1, 因為太細，所以報了st Cath repeat K1，點知CCKG收了k2，小孩很聰明，但害怕升上小學後，比超大仔大㚢細一歲有多，怕他會無自信。過來人可給些意見嗎？謝謝。

aliceyoyotang

CCKG for sure!

Mcmugs

其實我地讀書年代都無大細B分。身邊唔小同學朋友都係年尾出世，成绩成就都比唔少大B好。

其實比左小朋友去考，但放棄呢個機會為乜呢?老師俾信心但似乎自己父母都無信心俾小朋友…

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wankapo 發表於 13-4-15 14:20
我覺得細b喺幼稚園分別大，但上小學就無分別！

我自己係9月細b, 官小讀，小四時我考全級第7， 小六考全級 ...

In sum what I wanted to say is that in the long-run it doesn't matter.

however, lui is also right that perhaps the kid will grow up in an environment when he is not naturally and effortlessly better off then its peers.  on the other hand, I think it is good training and up to the parents to make-up for the seemingly disadvantaged position.

i am end Sept small b myself, but neither me nor my classmate, a end-oct b felt unhappy about it because we were neither bottom of class nor top of class and we didn't deliberately attribute our grades to  being disadvantaged as a small b.


afterall, no one will be successful without some hard work or sacrifice.


but one thing of concern is that as far as my understanding goes, each kid may only join the government primary allocation scheme once.  So perhaps the parent need to  plan ahead just in case participating as small b will be a problem.

wankapo

我覺得細b喺幼稚園分別大，但上小學就無分別！

我自己係9月細b, 官小讀，小四時我考全級第7， 小六考全級第二，中學入brand 1學校，中一考第一，所以我覺得小學校無分別！

ffaye

原帖由 lui 於 13-04-15 發表
在學時真的沒有那種衝競，因為自己也不知道是什麼原因，反正就是比人差，我是很後期成績有些突破，上了大學 ...

我自己都係一月超細b,但我從來唔覺因為細而比人做得差，反而有d優越感因為我細d但反而比人做得好d。
其實小朋友發展各異，我個二月大b除左身高外我唔覺佢比其他細b有優勝既地方。所以我覺得如果能力ok,做細b未必係壞事。

LWL1212

原帖由 breadbb 於 13-04-15 發表
5月7月都算超細b?

5月7月吾叫超細B! 甘我個近12月點算？

breadbb

原帖由 kerkermui 於 13-04-15 發表
其實我從少身邊都有兩個超細b
一個5月，一個7月
當年由調景嶺搬出九龍，學制唔同，讀緊高班下學期，出到嚟 ...

5月7月都算超細b?

kerkermui

其實我從少身邊都有兩個超細b
一個5月，一個7月
當年由調景嶺搬出九龍，學制唔同，讀緊高班下學期，出到嚟插高班/小一上學期，好好彩有小一收，學校講明讀唔掂就留班，最後係以學能測試成績入讀神級中一(成個區得兩個位)
第二個，响鄉村小學讀書，都唔知點解會細咁多都得，只知年年考第一，當年以A-level 最佳成績入HKU

我都係信"大B"讀書會jetso d，我係度住預產期生咗兩個年頭仔
但係，咁細就話佢唔得？定係比佢試試先呢？

當然，每個人有自己嘅決定，在我...正反思將來如果有機會，應唔應該跳班...

lui

在學時真的沒有那種衝競，因為自己也不知道是什麼原因，反正就是比人差，我是很後期成績有些突破，上了大學。現在不是有很大成就，只是比一些人好一點。這個是因為我對工作的承擔及熱情。或者當初不是細b,現在更有成就吧。我也只是用自己及其他人的分析帶出覌點，認同不認同也是家長的決定：）

evacalbee

lui 發表於 13-4-14 23:39
I need not to take a look around. I was a CFO of a listed company at the age of 32. I am a super sma ...

多謝你的分享!
但都想知, 會唔會因為你係細B, 所以比人更努力去追, 致今天的成就呢?
會唔會, 開頭十年比別人辛苦, 往後收成?
因為我覺得, 望住別人去追, 有target, 思想行為上的進步一定會比那些『自以為大過人就叻D的大舊衰』多 . 不過都因應個人性格係遇强越强, 定自認失敗.

唉, 大細呢個話題沒完沒了, 大家還是隨心去做吧

tabo.eddy

恕我直言，難得小朋友有能力，但家長試都唔俾佢試，讀都未讀就話怕面對失敗。仲要以為重讀做大仔一定會好d！咁樣安排條路真係會順利d嗎？個人覺得反而握殺了小朋友的能力，而這樣不願面對挑戰的心態亦會影響小朋友日後發展。

純粹個人意見，多多得罪。

lui

I need not to take a look around. I was a CFO of a listed company at the age of 32. I am a super small B. In my days, a jan bb like me can get a place a year ahead so during my school life, I was the smallest in class all the way from kindy to university. If there is another chance, I would not choose to be a small b. I was always behind of my peers and I can say I had a feel that I have no talent at all. This was all about the ability, confidence that came with me at the school life. The book outliers makes an analysis on the big b on why they are successful and the major reasons are their recognition and involvement by the teachers are different from small b ( as big b usually outperform small b, they are given more opportunity). It stated that these factors lead to an ultimate success  in a particular aspect as the above two factors themselves are important for schoolers. Also, if you ask the education specialist, they can tell you the difference of small and big b up to the age of 10 at least.  This can explain why most schools in Hong Kong do prefer big b. so for playing safe, why one still risk to take it as most of us know the game of p1?

oooasis

當然係cckg，我覺得某一年份的小朋友就應該係某一年份讀書，除非特別理由，例如跟唔到，發展遲緩，咁先需要遲一年。
一間合格的幼稚園，課程設計一定是適合這一年紀的小朋友。何必認為細b會跟唔到呢？
而且，讀多一年，大過人地，做的好過人地就有自信？咁對其他小朋友豈不是又不公平？
既然計劃去考而後又考到，我覺得應該讀。
當然，放cckg的offer出來會珍貴過st.cat好多。

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原帖由 lui 於 13-04-11 發表
You make the right choice! The best seller book " outliner" analyze that big b has been in advantage ...

But you will not be comparing yourselves with same age kids throughout your life?

And is it fair to assume that all kids grow at the same pace and someone a couple months older are definitely taller stronger smarter and faster than the so called small b?

Life is a long journey.  Smarter people progressed faster and further.  Take a look around.  Some people rise to CEO or managing director before 35!  

This illustrates that age is not a determinant factor of your success but ability.

jijincat

咁難得考入cckg, 要repeat都係cckg repeat啦！

melonfans

73662710 發表於 13-4-13 16:30
原本想如果cckg收可能会直上，结果还是退一步，小孩轻松一点。这是个艱難決定。我们並非缹事找事做。 ...

cckg考砌圖, 已經考緊小朋友小肌肉同智力. 個interview 內容係經過設計.  政府個智力/大小肌肉測驗內容都考呢d!

其實收得嘅小朋友都係outstanding,  點解樓主會覺得你個小朋友力有不棣!

細b能力超越人大有人在, 只要多加培訓, 教導就可!

我個年代都吾會有人repeat kg, 近年真係聽好多為咗考名幼而repeat!  

73662710

原本想如果cckg收可能会直上，结果还是退一步，小孩轻松一点。这是个艱難決定。我们並非缹事找事做。

JoyceNgYY

恕我直言，既然一開始都唔打算讀CCKG，咁何苦去考呢？第一，浪費雙方人力物力，又等本來有Offer的變咗waiting要等你放位先有得讀，第二，對你自己都冇著數，因為下年你再想讀恐怕你今年reject咗個offer佢哋下年唔會再收你。根據你所講的論點，無論有冇SC既offer，你都應該唔會考慮CCKG，咁你應該係報之前就考慮清楚啦！假如沒有SC你會考慮CCKG的話，咁你講的就前後矛盾了。

evacalbee

原帖由 73662710 於 13-04-12 發表
多謝大家的意見，根本現在很多10／11月的小朋友都會做大仔，我們repeat K1,小朋友都只是同同齡的小朋友做同 ...

決定了記得快d放位，唔好等自己心大心細。