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痛苦的決定，容易的選擇....有嘢想分享，希望大家明白。小女為N無人仕，但仍能打入決賽，仲成功獲得取錄。但其實收到信前，已同家人商量，無論怎樣，都唔會讀Co-ed，因為覺得整個過程都感覺不爽，十分之不公平。First interview,有關係人仕有權見校長，機會大約五揀一;街外人就唔係Blue-blood，唔該見老師，自己打生打死後，五十揀一，當然係精英。當時，同D家長傾開，已覺成個遊戲係玩緊我哋，大家好似做場show咁。又奇怪，竟然call我哋2nd interview,去到等，感覺奇怪，大部份嘅小朋友都坐唔定，究竟點揀人，再望望家長們，咦，個個滿頭白髮，平均年齡四十以上，行頭十足，校長見完佢哋都90度敬禮，唔知係唔係自己友。到我哋，唔知點解校長態度180度改變，咁又冇呼喝我哋，不過明顯唔同囉，話哂我哋唔係藍血人。
好嘞,完哂interview,立刻開家庭會議，大家都話有D唔對路，決定展開全面research，周圍問。點知發現以下現象:
喺某一高級會所，撞到個朋友，傾起偈嚟，佢話自己個女First interview見校長，原因係佢叫咗自己law firm嘅阿頭寫信，哇!!!第二日,同班舊同學食飯，傾開考學校，有個好Friend嘅同學話，佢個女都係N無人仕，不過都有得見校長，原因係有終審法院李國X封信，仲入埋2nd interview添，哇哇!!!一個星期前，同D讀緊Co-ed嘅家長傾，佢哋話，校長講就話任何學生都唔會感到經濟壓力,但實情係試過有兩次，班主任上課時玩數人情，讀出每位學生所捐出嘅銀碼，最少的有$500，最多有$25,000，個仔返到屋企咪問爸爸點解你捐得$1,000呀，哇哇哇!!!
寫到這裡，其實仲有嘢想講，不過怕大家悶。Let me type Eng. now as I am really slow with Chinese, the whole passage is about how unfair it is of this prestigious school. No doubt, it is still a good school, not the top school of course, no way it can reach the top with this kind of admissions process, you can see their academics and sports results comparing with other real top schools. No. 2, I have to stress that I am not a poor parent either, financially well-off, but I can't stand the attitudes of the parents in this school, I can foresee if my daughter gets in, there will not have any kinds of real close-friendship gatherings at all. Don't want to live in a cool world. No. 3, the headmistress said in the interview, her students don't need to study very hard as long as they have a basic foundation, wow, it's good, but only after I found out with the parents. They said what the teachers taught in the class are really basic stuff, no one can survive in this school without going out to learn from private tutors at least 3 times a week. Exam. questions are not based on the stuff they learned in the class, more so, if you can't get good grades, oops, it's your faults. Enough said, I want to stress again though, it is a above average school, but not suitable for our family, that's all....for those who want to keep the acceptance offers, good luck to you, but think whether it is good for your kids or it just makes you feel good to have kids studying in that school.......my advice is "DO NOT BE SELFISH, ESPECIALLY TO YOUR KIDS, OTHERWISE, YOU'LL REGRET 20 YEARS LATER".
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