點解唔收？

Rickylama

似乎幼稚園收生就在計分，住址，宗教，世襲，只不過加上出生日期，大仔大女機會大些，真難為一些沒條件的小朋友，面試有表現也會食白果。

LeeLee2007

Yipapa 發表於 12-2-28 10:34
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BTW, can you share the "Button" that your found...cheers

Button: to do something she like

It is hard to explain.

My girl's passion towards Disney ticket only makes her "bling bling" eyes for 15 sec (as we hv annual pass)
Kid these days is over-supplied of toys/dress/etc (she is the first kid in my hubby's family tree, thus.....)

I can only say, everytime when I "train/play" with her for interview preparation, she really enjoys.
And after all interviews, she still asked me to play interview with her.

All kids are different, try to explore the "button" of him/her

Yipapa

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For KG admission, whether same religion will count or not, it is total up to the KG's policy  

For P1 admission on, if the parents are working in the same school, basically it shall be straight in, unless it is a school of DSS or private schools not Govt or aided one

Living location and religion will become crucial on the P1 Discretionary Places admission stage (B).
But whether you can get the region points will up to the interpretation of the school you are applying for.
I know that for some Christian schools, they may only count for the same church you are being baptised, this 5 point may be difficult to get.

Of course Luck is equally important in Central allocation stage, but this is not a factor we can take control of

朱寶媽媽

Rickylama 發表於 12-2-20 19:34
似乎幼稚園收生就在計分，住址，宗教，世襲，只不過加上出生日期，大仔大女機會大些，真難為一些沒條件的小 ...

我同先生在未結婚之前已經係基督徒,個囡仲有張嬰孩奉獻證明書,我大大話話幫佢報咗超過8間幼稚園,,咁又點呀,到最後只有2間幼稚園收,其中一間仲係村校,有一間仲waiting,其他都比人reject,我有個鄰居以前在某間幼稚園做主任,都幫我問waiting個間有冇機會,佢都話因為太多waiting等緊,都幫我唔到.另外有一個街坊,佢老公在某間村校做校工,本應有20分,佢個囡在自行派位都唔得,所以我覺得計分，住址，宗教都未必有太大關係,睇你好唔好彩.

zoewong426

Luckily, my daughter's "button" was turned on at her first TL interview. She just love cooking game very much, after TL (Caine Rd) interview, she was allowed to stay at the school's outdoor and indoor playground for an unlimited time. She played the cooking game with other children and enjoyed so much.  Also, I told her if she answered teacher's questions and performed well, she would get an Ocean Park/Disneyland ticket for bonus from the teacher (actually I have bought the tickets already). Surely I pretended that the teacher really gave us tickets for her well performance, and from that day onwards, she loved to go to interview. Even after the last interview at SPK, sometimes she would tell me she wanted to go to interview. I don't know if my method is right or wrong, anyway, I have turned on her "button" and she could perform differently. I think her "button" is related to her favourite activities, my girl's are cooking game and playing in the 2 Parks.

Yipapa

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BTW, can you share the "Button" that your found...cheers

LeeLee2007

This is a very touching post, thanks all parents for the positive energy that is shared.

I never know interview is so hard, as I was thinking my girl is big girl ( I purposely skipped the interview slot last yr ) and we are catholic and live in HK Island (heard from fd all are very important criteria for school application) . And, here are the things happened  - I got the first waiting letter from PB (a kindergarten that my fd said is very easy to get in). Then, my alarm rang. From that day on, I used diff methods to sharpen her. In the 2nd interview school - Rosyhill (she did very gd that day) we still got waiting. Felt "helpless" but kept on "upgrading" my method to train her, and finally I found the "button" to let her perform (and now I believe all kid has a "button"). But, God made the task to be even more difficult for me, she was sick, recovered & sick again for that month or 2; whenever there was interview, she would get high fever that night before. At St Margaret 's door, she was still 38.5c but she insisted she had to go, and she even told me "I will do good". The "classic" was at TL, teacher asked her question, she was actually "dizzy" and answered all but response time was 10- 15 sec after question was asked. After all interview, she is now a more polite and obedient kid. It also trained me up of how to nuture her.

My girl got into St Margaret PM (that is my third best choice in my mind) and Good Hope AM (my second best choice). And my best choice, SPK is "dreaming" for the result that will release soon.

Think positive, work hard towards the goal you want to achieve, put all those things you cant control aside (like the things you think is unfair....) I very much argee a parent (in this post) said your child can feel your positive energy; and another parent said all the things that the kid has learned is never a waste, it is very remarkable to her development indeed. And one day, what you are asking for will come to reality.   
There is still chance in May/June for waiting offer. Keep up!
God blessed!

Rickylama

真要量力而為，入教會名龍校真難，可在EK訴苦也釋懷了一點，讀那一間幼稚園小朋友也一定開心，報小學又可抽獎，放輕鬆吧！

littlecook

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meia,

家有細B,真係煩惱!叻既仲煩,REPEAT又未必合適!
如果我細B資質一般,我諗簡單D,出年再嚟過!
依家佢又OK喎,雖然唔係樣樣都比得上大B中B!而且又叫做有OK既學校收!
你大囡今年考小一嗎?情況如何呀?
自行你地都應該有宗教分呀!

yaulinda

我都是in得好好，以為有點機會，可是連機會都無，是rejected！但是我知道只可接受賽果和尊重對方判斷，否則太介意的話，一定會激到百病纏身

Rickylama

買唔到樓就話「地產霸權」，入唔到幼稚園可否稱為「宗教霸權」？
留一半左右的位給教徒，一些給友好，一些給舊生仔女，有剩就俾表現好的小朋友，當然大仔大女好教一點。
開始明白小學收生半數抽獎靠地址的好處；將來又要搬去好小學校網靠運氣去抽，計分的上半場就冇得爭。
香港的教育制度實在令人失望。

bigheadchiu

好多家長唔得時都覺得係學校唔公平，得嘅家長會覺得係自己加小朋友努力的成果。。。事實係點永遠係一個迷。家長也不能控制。罵學校也沒用。
自己和小朋友盡力便ok了。

meia

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其實今年真係多人考

當年我個大女把口叻到不得了

但因為佢11月出世, 得一間係九龍塘的收,考小一就更辛苦

到今年細女

佢一月的, 但係陌生人面前, 同啞的係冇分別, 全部waiting /reject

如果好似有d人講, 淨收教友, 我使mut咁煩

所以, 只好慢慢來~~

大家加油

littlecook

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有人以為信教好D,我又覺唔一定喎!我家係基督教,囡囡今年考K,好多教會學校一樣唔收.
或者要信教得嚟仲要識教會高層,有封重要人士推薦信先有機吧?
睇埋有無兄姐讀緊?我大果個讀緊果間,都無收細呢個!
最好有個全職媽媽吧?我都係,但唔見有優勢,可能爸爸唔係專業人士吧?
又有人話睇眼緣,但我B算係好可愛果種(大家唔好笑我自大吧!),有几間老師都顯得好鐘意佢,結果係連WAITING都無!
講聰明講野叻啦,我B都算講野叻學野快果種,又有兩間老師IN完都話佢好叻,結果就係WAITING.
今年經驗係,見得好好既,好彩會有WAITING,見得普通既,一定REJECT.無被選中原因可能好多,但相信超細B係最主要原因之一吧!另外,當然就係今年競爭大啦!几千人去考,樣樣都100分既大有人在!
我已經睇化啦,唔會怪D咩,唔會唔開心!
幸好我B已有學校收,雖唔係一線,唔係最心儀既,但我已經感覺難得啦!
依家再向心儀既叩門!有就好,無都接受現實啦!
日子流流長,前面仲有更大挑戰!只想早D幫考幼稚園呢單野CLOSE FILE!好快又到大既考小學啦!

sheffield

rickylama，知你很好失望，但沒什麼可以幫到你，只希望你小朋友可以找到一間適合她的學校…
說到點解唔收？這對於家長來說，永遠都是一個迷！
考智慧？考應對能力？考獨立性？考眼緣？考性格？考禮貌？考家長？
我成日都會諗，唔同老師見唔同學生，大家的標準又有可能會有偏差，大家對小朋友的感覺又不同…到底係你見的好或是我見的好一點？如學位有100個，是每個老師見的為一個batch，每個batch選10個，揍夠100個就啱啱？或是每個小朋友都有一個分，見晒後就排分數，最高的100個就入？如是前者，成個batch的小朋友都好叻的，咁就算答晒都未必有著落，如好彩，個batch的小朋友較弱，又喊又唔講野，咁就唔識答但唔喊都有offer。如是後者，分分鐘同分的小朋友都有200個，咁又係咪抽簽？我舉的例可能有少少極端，但事實我地真係唔知學校點揀…如我們自己肯定自己小朋友己做得很好，還是冇offer的就只是欠了運！會失望，但也沒辦法，人就係咁，實力要有，運氣更是不可決…

Yipapa

I hust read a column today, just want to share

http://www.hket.com/eti/article/ ... 8%E7%95%B6%E4%B8%8B,P

共勉之,
Best regards to all worrying parents