你同意嗎？我真的深深不忿 !

hksarah

在我兒子的學校，這些學生有良好的音樂，如小提琴或鋼琴有8級。他們在學校是尖子生。他們有良好數學和科學的成績。這不是一個特例，我的兒子告訴我，老師說，在精英班的學生, 至少半班在音樂有6,7級。但對於我的兒子，4級鋼琴便不能走得更遠。考試成績始終是平平。我的兒子工作很勤力，但仍然沒有很大的改善。我的兒子告訴我，他知道一些尖子生的父親是工程師。也許他們是天生的，什麼都好。你同意嗎？我真的深深不忿 !

Jean

人比人。你繼續將個仔同人比，你仔會自信低落，你又會長期不忿而有機會得情緒病，Total loss 呀- 做香港人已經係世界上比較幸福的人了!

kkhon

如果不忿我只怨自己唔及人好命可以做full time mama全天候教導同照顧

do-re-me

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你不用難過,有我陪你,有人好過你亦有很多人差過你，笑笑吧

homuimui

Though I let my kid to learn piano, I never ask my kid to practise it and this is up to her. I want her to enjoy learning piano and find interests in it . My nephew had acheived grade 8 at his age of 10; however, he never played piano afterwards.  In this connection, I will not put pressure on my kid on any ECAs she are learning. I deeply believe life-long learning is more important.

SCKnight

EQ is more important than IQ. IQ could only enable you have an easy start, but most of the great person successful factors are hardworking and not easy to give up.

cindyau

對於分數高低我不睇得太重, 最重要是子女是否有努力過,就算小時候聰明過人,唔努力唔孝順都是等如零! 我還記得小學的時候英文默書, 有個男同學佢默書前只是輕輕地看一下,而我就一早在家讀了,他竟然高分過我! 他需然很聰明記憶很好,只可惜只顧玩, 最後大個做了(飛仔)!

Darrenderek

深深不忿because of the 精英班 system?
我的兒子工作很勤力，但仍然沒有很大的改善 - not necessarily because of his talent, but the learning method. This applies to everything including taking exams.  We should learn from others, and then make improvement.  There is no need to be 深深不忿 unless those "outstanding" students are arrogant and trying to look down on your son.

BBTWIN

hksarah 發表於 12-1-8 08:40
在我兒子的學校，這些學生有良好的音樂，如小提琴或鋼琴有8級。他們在學校是尖子生。他們有良好數學和科學 ...

傻啦! 邊個話父親係工程師個小朋友一定醒D, 我老公夠係工程師, 高考數學拿A又如何, 我又唔覺得我的小朋友特別叻. 不過如果真係同DNA有關的話, o甘小朋友可能似我多d. 佢阿媽我數學最差,  哈哈~

bbJP

你兒子幾年級??

km1357

咁我都講下我既不忿, 點解我老豆唔係家誠, 四叔, or 彤叔..

TINGMUM

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我覺得樓主是想講" 自己個仔己好努力, 結果仲係平平, 好唔甘心!"

anna59

一個人讚書好唔好同佢地既父母系乜野職業冇直接關系,問題系: 1. 個人既資質; 2. 佢對果科既興趣同佢對果科既野上唔上心; 3. 勤力: 對於讀高班既人黎講勤力系重要,力不到不為財呀
有好多人以為父母識英文個小朋友既英文一定好好,但事實唔系羅,以前有好多人父母都唔識英文咁個小朋友未一樣讀到好好既英文,家長做到既野系向有能力底下盡量比支援,個小朋友學唔學到野就真系睇佢識唔識唸喇
十隻手指有長短,我都想我個小朋友中英文都好,但事實唔系羅,咁都要接受假,唔使唔開心喎,唔好同人比較, take it easy,大方d

tws2010

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無錯, 以前我都很執着, 不自覺地給自己及小朋友很多pressure, both my kid and myself not happy.  Now I try to relax a little bit.  I told my kid I want her to  be responsible, hardworking and careful.  I don;t relly mind a few marks difference compared with her classmates.  Who knows what the future to be.   Good result doesn;t guarantee a good future.  However, with those three elements, she can enjoy such benefits for life.

do-re-me

有些資優的小朋友很難教，處處頂撞父母，令父母很頭痛

瑩瑩老豆

hksarah 發表於 12-1-8 08:40
在我兒子的學校，這些學生有良好的音樂，如小提琴或鋼琴有8級。他們在學校是尖子生。他們有良好數學和科學 ...

天生也好, 后天也好, 各有前因莫羨人, 有什麼好不忿的? 難道我見到李X楷搵咁多錢, 又深深不忿 !