Why some parents keep asking opinion between two or more schools

waitwaitwait

Why parents are not set priority before apply those school? In case all of them offer, just choose the higher one...... am I correct?

sytw

我覺得有時又好難怪d人會出post問邊間好，因為未有offer前問又俾人話真係收你先算，到有offer問又俾人串而家先問，有時想清楚了解一間學校唔係咁易，果d簡介會/網頁資料又咁官腔，除非識人係入面讀緊，唔係真係好難知咁多，當然上網問都未必能得到答案，但大家都係家長都係想為小朋友揀間適合既學校，答到既咪大家互相幫忙下囉！當然如果hold住幾間offer唔放，左諗右諗到8月既就好唔岩啦！

SCKnight

上騎，中騎同下騎唔係應該心中有數嗎？
考得一線學校應該已經有充份考慮，到有唔同學校Offer嗰陣，出啲問有幾間一線名校收咗應該揀邊間嘅Post。唔可以怪有家長覺得有人喺到晒命，甚至向其他家長傷口洒鹽。

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ilj 發表於 11-12-22 15:37
啲人係會霸到8月先決定到架.....喇

IC,原來可以hold哂 d offer既位,我仲以為去得一間註冊,就要簽紙放棄其他offer tim.
咁hold得8月就離譜d.

baekdoosan

一定是兩間心儀學校都是一線名校, 非常出名那種...

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ilj 發表於 11-12-22 13:16
選間好學校影響深遠, 6年小學以至中學派位, 當然要審慎無錯,所以K1開始已經選間岩佢學校選 ...

K1-K3,對小朋友的了解多了,對自己期望的教育模式亦可能有所改變,加上各學校的行政或方針亦可能有變,比d機會人考慮不是太過份啫.
我個朋友自K1就揀左一間佢認為最啱的小學,就係K3有埋offer之後,先發現剛過去1年轉校長,間學校变得谷左多好多功課,佢好在仲有一間offer在手.

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kochiman2004 發表於 11-12-22 15:22
When do you consider to be reasonable timing to release extra one or more ?  Like Dec 2011, 1st quar ...

唔會到八月卦,我諗係咪1月就要註冊,應該註一間啫,係咪??我唔記得,好多年前.
到時d位咪會release出黎.

kochiman2004

When do you consider to be reasonable timing to release extra one or more ?  Like Dec 2011, 1st quarter 2012 or else ? ... If really thinking upto August 2012 ... nothing to say except "cheap"

flyda

好似大人轉工咁有offer都會做下research之嘛；有人考慮錢有人考慮地點同前途等，brainstorm下好正常啫，唔會接受唔到掛，放鬆啲啦香港人。

頑皮鬼之父

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認同，不防放開腔襟並從別人的角度思考

lestat

waitwaitwait 發表於 11-12-21 23:24
Why parents are not set priority before apply those school? In case all of them offer, just choose t ...

每個小朋友的性格, 才能, 專長都唔同, 而每間學校亦有唔同特質, 有好處亦有壞處, "甲之熊掌, 乙之砒霜", 即使好運有多個OFFER晌手既, 都想為自己小朋友搵一間最適合既小學, 問下意見, 正正係大家來呢個討論區既原因.

J_D74

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其實你係岩架, 不過呢, 學校公報的時間有前有後, 可能最心怡那間在後面才出result, 所以有家長會hold多過一間, 大家可以理解的~~~

abinayams

選間好學校影響深遠, 6年小學以至中學派位, 當然要審慎, 不是買件衫咁簡單, 人人都愛自己既小寶寶, 點解唔可以問問意見, 再細心考慮?等到出年6月重HOLD幾個位未決定就唔好, 而家剛剛收到OFFER考慮下, 問下意見有MUD問題?話人自私唔放位既家長, 請站在別人立場想想
利益申報: 我個女暫時4間WAITING, 無一間實收,但我明白遊戲規則, 惟有趁呢幾個月再谷下個女, 靜待6月佳音

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waitwaitwait 發表於 11-12-21 23:24
Why parents are not set priority before apply those school? In case all of them offer, just choose t ...

其實我好明白你感受,不過希望你也能理解其他家長,可能要少少時間考慮先夠胆唔要某些offer.尤其近年......
得閒讀多幾次自己個login name,等下等下,一定有offer.

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cmir 發表於 11-12-22 11:31
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But don't you find ppl always ans ," why don't you ask until the school gi ...

cmir

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But don't you find ppl always ans ," why don't you ask until the school give you the offer" or "don't think too much, the competition is keen, apply first and get a chance"

KK07

Why cannot think again after being accepted?  Even though the initial ranking in my mind is A, B, C.  I'll still ask for comments if I were being accepted by A & C.  Pls also see from other's angles.