女拔落敗感言

YLMom

經過漫長的等待, 今天終於收到結果了.
一如所料, 落敗了.
失望是有的, 但不算意外.
無論如何, 總算鬆一口氣.

在此首先恭喜獲取錄的小朋友, 你們真的很棒, 能在女拔讀書, 是一種福氣, 要好好珍惜啊!
女拔真是一所好學校, 這是我們出席了第二次面試後的真心感覺.
當天面試後, 小女告訴我戴校長面試時曾經在她耳畔說了兩句話 (內容不便透露, 比較私人).
我很愕然, 想不到戴校長在我們面前可能較嚴肅, 但對著一個五歲小孩子時, 表露她真正一面, 是那麼有愛心, 有人情味. 我終於明白, 一所學校能成功, 是有原因的. 雖然小女遺憾未能得到取錄, 但是已經上了寶貴一課.

未能得到取錄的家長, 不用太失望, 能夠進入第二次面試, 已經是很不錯了. 其他家長, 即使你的小朋友在第一次面試後未能”進級”, 又或許至今在考小一的過程仍未有理想結果,也不要氣餒. 我們的小朋友本身已是我們的成就了. 只要看一看「親子王國」那邊「想生bb」那個topic, 便會知道, 很多人連想要一個小朋友也不容易. 考小一的過程可能很辛苦, 但是我們有機會做人父母, 有機會體驗考小一這經歷, 不是已經很值得感恩嗎?

有關女拔面試的thread有很高hit rate, 相信不少是來年考小一的家長在「取經」. 小女落敗了, 我當然沒有資格在此談什麼心得.
只是想建議大家, 不要太緊張小朋友能否入到名校,不要以入名校為未來一年唯一的「奮鬥目標」,
因為小孩子四,
五歲是應該快快樂樂過每一天的, 若我們做每件事都只為考學校,一定會錯失一些寶貴的時光.

聖誕節快到了, 希望大家都懷著感恩的心, 歡渡佳節!

marcie

YLMom 發表於 12-1-9 13:28
Yes, waiting list letter.

It is my first time to hear that . What I heard before is either accept or reject.

bbJP

twobirds 發表於 12-1-9 13:54
因為佢地真係叻嘛.....

或者係啦!但果種blue blood feel,唔係淨係自信咁,佢地d父母,即係我d朋友都好叻,不過唔係咁既樣,來自其他本地或IS名校一齊玩既,都冇果種chok樣....唔知呢,好彩我冇女,唔洗煩報唔報.....

twobirds

bbJP 發表於 12-1-9 10:37
我都有很多朋友的女兒讀DGJS,唔知點解,佢地不約而同,d樣真係越讀越chok.好似由內心不自覺地流露出一種高傲. ...

因為佢地真係叻嘛.....

YLMom

marcie 發表於 12-1-9 09:30
Waiting list letter?

Yes, waiting list letter.

bbJP

我都有很多朋友的女兒讀DGJS,唔知點解,佢地不約而同,d樣真係越讀越chok.好似由內心不自覺地流露出一種高傲.幾年間变化很大.

marcie

YLMom 發表於 12-1-8 18:31
My friend's daughter got waiting list.

Waiting list letter?

smallfoothk

本人純粹路過,看到很多這所學校的家長，突然有感而發,名校讀得吃力；"難頂女拔萃 林海峰大女轉漢基"
話大囡係升女拔中F.1 , 話以前用2hrs做功課, 升F.1後用4Hrs, 加埋補習+樂器, 晚晚12點先瞓, 冇晒親子時間,  決定轉校  .

smallfoothk

delete .pls

YLMom

My friend's daughter got waiting list.

J_D74

marcie 發表於 12-1-7 15:51
Anyone has got DGJS waiting letter?

身邊都有好幾個入到second-in, 但都收rejected letter咋, 無聽聞過有waiting list......佢都唔需要waiting list la, 真係好想入的人一定會再叩門, 到時可以再揀多次, 只會有人多, 點會怕有位無人讀呢~~~~

marcie

TYYC 發表於 12-1-6 17:35
I agreed and always stay positive.

I know a girl from CCKG will decline DGJS offer, I believe mor ...

Anyone has got DGJS waiting letter?

myac

LovelyDad 發表於 12-1-7 00:01
As parents, one of our jobs is to educate our child to be humble, warm, honest, kind, helpful, etc.  ...

古語有云:養不教,父（母) 之過.

LovelyDad

As parents, one of our jobs is to educate our child to be humble, warm, honest, kind, helpful, etc. In the past, I have seen parents pushing all these responsibilities to the school (ie, they expect the school to do all these). I believe both parents and schools are responsible for the whole education process.

chongnicole

回復 kochiman2004 的帖子

恭喜呀！兩間學校真系各有各好。

kochiman2004

The decline DGJS offer girl already registered SPCC wor ...

TYYC

kochiman2004 發表於 12-1-6 13:50
Be more relax and looking forward ....

I agreed and always stay positive.

I know a girl from CCKG will decline DGJS offer, I believe more seats from DGJS will become available after the "Grand lucky draw", so there are definitely chances for waiting list kids.

Keep finger crossed,

kochiman2004

Be more relax and looking forward ....

angeemama

回復 J_D74 的帖子

學歷是嫁妝一部份, 比起金銀手飾還有用

I really buy in to this and that's excactly what my parents said to all of us.  They always say only your knowledge will be with you forever and no one could take it away.  Although my daughter doesn't have the luck to be accepted by DGJS, I would not feel upset about it.  She had done her best and she needs to accept that she cannot be chosen all the time.  When you think you are the best, the one sitting next to you could the best out of the best.  

J_D74

LovelyDad 發表於 12-1-6 00:22
I believe a school provides a platform. Whether the child performs will depend on a whole lot of fac ...

If a person can be warm and kind to others, I believe he/she is already very successful person. -->其實同意的, 我女兒5歲幾已經做得到, 學校既commend老是說她helpful, cheeful, 樂於助人, 樂於分享, 很受同學的歡迎.........不過現實歸現實, 希望讀多d書, 第時唔洗我擔心佢自己都養唔起自己~~~^_~ , 我成日同佢地講, 要share都係要本事, 若果自己都無, 點share比人!? 我帶大女去做義工, 我同佢講, 好感恩, 我地有能力去做義工, 幾多人都好想幫人, 但自己都未顧得掂, 有心無力係最悲哀~~