小朋友入左名校, 但 ....

CFaHB

滿江紅 .... or arm arm 合格多 dd

佢媽咪怪學校太深, 比分比得緊 .... (不過又有人可以攞到近滿分)

小朋友初小咋 ...

當年入到名校, 佢媽咪真係開心到顛架, 所以一定唔會轉校

我唯有叫佢再努力d啦, 個底打唔好, 點再上呀 ?

佢同小朋友已經日日開火, 咁好咩 ?

hui3328

就算是名牌大學或名校MBA 畢業, 最大幫助只是畢業後第一份工而已. 之後僱主主要是考慮你在之前的職位的表現, 有什麼Achievements. 如果大家都是大學畢業, 不要因為你是名校, 而比較容易升職.

有人可能認為名校畢業比較容易成為專業人仕. 但今日香港的所謂專業人仕, 除了醫生收入算不錯外, 其他如律師, 工程師, 會計師都唔容易搵食, 除非你特別出色.

在商界, 大公司及投資銀行的確喜歡名牌大學的尖子. 比較容易取得入門機會. 但是否能做得出色, 還是要看表現.

人生的奮鬥路漫長而遙遠, 有人一早鋒芒畢露, 但也有很多人大器晚成. 張五常當時讀皇仁被踢出校, 他28歲才入大學, 但卻成為一大天才及怪才. 不要太早為你的孩子下定義.

smartmatt

原帖由 grDaddy 於 09-11-1 00:09 發表



I will say that:
After you have graduated for many years, people won't care whether you are number one in class or last in class, they will only ask you which UNIVERSITY did you graduate from?

I t ...

After many years...interviewers want to know about what you did in your last job and how you can perform in the new job; maturity, and leadership skills/potential.  University/ schools becomes a very small part of the consideration.

cfaye

原帖由 november11 於 09-11-5 10:19 發表
樓主朋友個小朋友, 間名校係要考入去架 bor ~~

睇唔到有講邊間學校喎 ，請指教

frenchfries

其實, 無論津貼或私立既名校我估計好多都是這樣的:

教科書可以好淺, 功課唔多, 咁就唔會有人話啲名校谷得啲學生太辛苦. 但佢地考試就好深, 考既有些根本學校就無教既. 咁家長自然就會自己谷. 因為其他家長谷, 如果唔谷就可能會唔合格, 包尾. 考得1,2年包尾既多數都唔會再留下. 名校又可以再收外來的'好學生'. 這就是名校之所以有好成績既'magic'.

november11

樓主朋友個小朋友, 間名校係要考入去架 bor ~~

cfaye

呢d米係 大抽獎惡果lo，能力未夠班就好彩抽中入左名校，仔女能力又唔夠，家長support又唔夠，邊會讀得開心又學到野。

Laputa

The following observation is so true.

難怪很多名校出來的人, 都怕他們的子女走自己的路而紛紛將他們送進國際學校.

frenchfries

名校既師資, 教學方法, 管理是否比普通學校好呢? 我覺得不全部是吧. 有些名校之所以能成為名校. 方法不外乎收取有經濟能力及家長願意自己谷小朋友的學生. 所以在政府派位時, 很多名校水準下降. 所以要轉直資私校. 小朋友幾歲時根本看不到誰長大後讀書會叻. 很多學業有成的人小時候都不是特別出色. 為什麼經名校挑選的學生會考成績會比人好呢. 其實這只是名校選家庭背景可支持的學生. 然後利用它的名氣, 汰弱留強. 因為只要有空出的學額, 家長們自然前仆後繼爭相為子女報讀. 名校的學生就像上了鎖鏈被同儕互相比較及學校隨時會趕跟不上的學生出校的壓力拉著向前走. 很多小學生已要讀到半夜1-2點. 我相信普通學校的學生這樣催谷也一樣會有好成績的. 所以名校只是給你一個環境去谷子女.

難怪很多名校出來的人, 都怕他們的子女走自己的路而紛紛將他們送進國際學校.

猴子爸

除此之外，我觉得在很多情形下，是方便拿入场券。

原帖由 ysnmama 於 09-11-3 16:13 發表
"名校"就是當大家學歷, 經驗, 表現等也旗鼓相當時. 它最後便很大機會用得著.

ysnmama

"名校"就是當大家學歷, 經驗, 表現等也旗鼓相當時. 它最後便很大機會用得著.

猴子爸

都要看是什么公司，一些专业，有名气的大机构，基本上初入职的大学生，很多都是名大学，名中学的毕业生。起码我自己的所见所闻是这样。

原帖由 mat媽 於 09-11-3 14:28 發表
我的大學同學, 好少是名校(小/中學)出生.
出來做野, 同事都是大學畢業, 但名校(小/中學)出生的都唔多.

mat媽

我的大學同學, 好少是名校(小/中學)出生.
出來做野, 同事都是大學畢業, 但名校(小/中學)出生的都唔多.

monkeydog

Job interviews wont care which primary or secondary schools you come from if you are a univeristy graduate. But good secondary schools will increase your chance to go into good universities

HoHoMom

Totally agree ! Having a chance to 讀書 is actually a blessing. And 讀書 is the fairest game in the world. The harder you 讀書, the better the 回報.

But I do notice that some kids' strength is not 讀書. In that case, the parents should really think about whether more time should be used to develop the kids' other talents. E.g. if music is the talent, the Music School might be a better choice than a traditional famous school.

原帖由 goodmama2003 於 09-10-30 07:09 發表
讀書不一定是可憐的, 成績好就是回報.

只有無父母理的孩子才是最可憐.

ppsfung

原帖由 meipo28 於 09-10-28 17:03 發表
大至係甘 (如有錯誤,請指教)

佢囝囝原本在傳統名校就讀.成績唔係幾好,鄧靄琳於是轉做全職mum希望谷起佢成績. 但係情況無改善,佢更出手打囝,越打越重手,更影響一家人的關係.有一次鄧靄琳猛然發現佢個囝將自己畫成一 ...

成件事只係父母心態上有問題,與名校和細路都無關.
父母望子成龍當然正常,但過份期望往往會搞到走火入魔,將子女變成自己的"比賽功具",這種心態其對父母和小朋友都不好.
既然愛自己的仔女,便應接受他不足之處....只要小朋友盡咗力,就算成績唔好都應該為佢的勤力而驕傲.
講到底仔女的資質部分是從父母遺傳,怪罪仔女唔夠叻或怪學校,不如d大人反省一下係咪應該從另一個正面的角度去面對問題.

tinkerbell2004

Studying is only a process to facilitate our development. All the things will change when you go to work.

Remember childhood is only very short, don't push the child too much. Give your kids more happy memories are very important.

原帖由 grDaddy 於 09-11-1 00:09 發表



I will say that:
After you have graduated for many years, people won't care whether you are number one in class or last in class, they will only ask you which UNIVERSITY did you graduate from?

I t ...

grDaddy

原帖由 ahtan 於 09-10-31 23:17 發表


After you have graduated for many years, people won't care whether you are number one in class or last in class, they will only ask you which school did you graduate from? So if I were the parent, I ...

I will say that:
After you have graduated for many years, people won't care whether you are number one in class or last in class, they will only ask you which UNIVERSITY did you graduate from?

I think famous seconday school and primay school is just 錦上添花.

ahtan

原帖由 ppsfung 於 09-10-29 15:53 發表


唔使介意喎.
係名校包尾都可能已叻過一般學校的大部份人.我覺得呢個社會都係咁,出面大把勁人猛人,就算你幾叻都會有人叻過你,所以要學會接受自己的不足,亦要了解和運用自己的長處.
最緊要係父母心裡明白自己個小朋 ...

After you have graduated for many years, people won't care whether you are number one in class or last in class, they will only ask you which school did you graduate from? So if I were the parent, I won't consider changing school yet. Just try to find out the reasons for all these study problems first. If the kid really hates going to school and doesn't like his classmates, then it's another issue. But seems like this kid only hates homework and studying but not the school environment?

HIN2003

原帖由 goodmama2003 於 09-10-30 07:09 發表
讀書不一定是可憐的, 成績好就是回報.

只有無父母理的孩子才是最可憐.

我都覺得一d都唔可憐, 但就非常充實.