其實為左乜要做資優評估?

Teresa

為佢搵學校?
滿足自己虛榮心?
拔尖補底?
....???

我仲諗緊好唔好大拿拿幾千蚊去同個仔做.  佢小四喇, 個人好聰明, 有可能O係某方面資優, 不過肯定唔係學業上資優. 相反, 佢既學業為我地帶黎好多麻煩.

佢成日講大話, 左瞞右瞞, 老師/同學/父母/工人... 見人講人話, 見鬼講鬼話, 你同佢對質, 佢一路同你解釋一路諗大話出黎, 要破解佢, 好似警察查案咁... 總之為求過骨, 咩大話都講.  但係普通人唔會信佢咁大膽講咁多咁合邏輯既大話, 因為佢平時個人真係行出黎好成熟又有禮貌, 講野好TUM得人歡心...

唉... 為左要佢戒大話, 已經用左幾年時間, 同佢不斷講道理, 同老師夾計, 比獎勵佢, 打佢閙佢, CANCEL佢既至愛活動....咩都試過!

問佢點睇自己成日講大話, 佢話: 我覺得我好聰明好成功.  你話我擔唔擔心???!!! 我真係好驚佢大個左以騙術黎搵飯食呀!!!

其實... 我唔係想要咩虛榮心, 亦唔係想學校比特殊對待佢, 我亦冇打算同個仔轉校.  

咁既話, 要唔要同佢做評估? 做左之後, 有冇幫助? 如果有, 可以幫到我D咩?

FITTI

因為擔心囝囝..會有其他問题出現!

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原帖由 叮鈴 於 08-11-21 19:24 發表

以上你的論點，已經假設左我沒有教他，也不會教他，亦不曾教他。

唔知點解你要用新account來和我討論，這也只有你知道才知道。

既然你睇到以上方法咁多問題(當然，我無講過那是完美的方法，那也只是一般小家長暫且想到的法子) ...

annie40

Dear Ding Ling,
(sorry for wrongly type your name 'Ding Dong' as per previous email)

Yes, the book name on website is correct.  It's a Korea lady's biography about how to raise up her 3 step children (all Chinese) in US.

The title is very wrong because it's not a book guiding us to raise some 'Elite' children.  It is just an ordinary mum's sharing.

Also, I've sent you a personal email. Pls check it.

Thank you.

Best Wishes,
Annie

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Dear Ding Dong,

Thank you for sharing.

Extraordinary!  How come you got so much information.   It is very informative and supportive to nuture our little angels or tiny monsters.

By the way, I woul ...

是以下這本嗎？我看到簡介，那位媽媽好棒，雖出身名門，卻仍靠自己邊讀邊打工維持生活開支。我睇下圖書館有無得借，最近有好多書想睇。

http://www.books.com.tw/exep/prod/booksfile.php?item=0010308547

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Dear Ding Dong,

Thank you for sharing.

Extraordinary!  How come you got so much information.   It is very informative and supportive to nuture our little angels or tiny monsters.

By the way, I would highly recommand below book to parents,  in which the author faced some similar trouble with her little brilliant daugther (she enjoyed lying and made up stories at all times).  I hope you would feel more relaxed after reading.  

孩子的成功99%來自媽媽的努力

Annie

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多謝你post左D資料出黎，我小朋友未夠3 years old就開始亂up,一D無傷大雅既我由得佢，但一D例如諉過他人，或令自己有著數既我會好緊張，有時仲會罰企或扣星星，大家都吾開心，而家我會試下以上方法，睇下work吾work....

大家吾好好似條繃緊既橡根咁la,彈倒人又彈倒自己嘛....

繃緊既橡根...又係gift既特質，吾通你....??

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