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發表於 05-11-23 16:40 |只看該作者

Very sad, my daughter always fails!

We tried several famous school for P1 admission, but the outcomes is always failed.

My daughter is performing well at her school but she just can not show herself at the interviews. She is slow in warming up and reluctant answering questions to stranger. I feel very sad and pity because she has excellent school results but her character has detered her in gaing admission to famous schools.

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發表於 05-11-23 16:43 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

me too. my daughter is very passive and need time to warm up. whcih schools you applied for your daughter?

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發表於 05-11-23 16:45 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

Don't worry. your daughter should improve when she grows up. Try to give her some training in daily life. For example, when you go to Macdonal , you can ask your daugther to buy on her own in the counter. This training can also be done when you are in supermarket, seven eleven and other shop. Besides, you can participate in some activities in some nearby children and youth centre. All such activities can improve your daughter to be outgoing and talkative.

Regards,

Potatopowder

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發表於 05-11-23 16:47 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

elegant 寫道:
We tried several famous school for P1 admission, but the outcomes is always failed.

My daughter is performing well at her school but she just can not show herself at the interviews. She is slow in warming up and reluctant answering questions to stranger. I feel very sad and pity because she has excellent school results but her character has detered her in gaing admission to famous schools.

K3 會有乜 excellent result

Sorry

你已經忽略左你既小朋友

你仲認為佢適合個 d so-call famous school

為左佢 ? 定為自己 (個 face )

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發表於 05-11-23 16:53 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

My daughter is same!! I try so many method already. Let her buying from macdonal, 7 11, OK shop, park and shop and I spend $5,000 for the very famous interview class also. Just a little bit improve. I know she will improve when she grow up. but, P1 interview all the school like the active gril. Oh, my god.

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發表於 05-11-23 16:55 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

Thanks for your encouragement.

I applied several schools GHS, CKY, SFA, DGS(no chance for this one because I am not rich), KLT but already failed for GHS and CKY which are the schools I thougtht that my daughter has higher chance of getting in. SFA is so difficult and for KLT, I only use it as a back up.

My girl is active only when she is familiar with the enviornment. I sent her to various outer school activities and her behaviour is always a problem, she only does thing when she is happy to do so.

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發表於 05-11-23 16:58 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

Hi elegant, it's me.

Don't say that "your daughter always fails" and feel disappointed.

If she is shy, just give her more chances to prove herself, like asking for something from McD staff, buying something from 7-11, with you nearby to support her but far enough so she has to do it herself.

Also, if kids really want something, they will try their best.
So try to divert your kid into wanting good things for herself, then you will see her potential.
Let her know that, if she wants something, she will get it only by trying her best.

You said you tried for several famous schools, but there's always keen competition for such schools. There is no guarantee that even if you were to be intereviewed for P1 yourself you would be admitted, so why expect so much of a 6y-old ?
Take it easy la.
At least your kid is not naughty like mine.

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發表於 05-11-23 16:58 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

Hi elegant,

r u in waiting list of GHS or reject by them?

santungma

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發表於 05-11-23 17:04 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

Thanks Bluestar and Potatopowder,

I think I will try your method to build up my child's confidence.

santungma,

My daughter is on waitlist for GHS, but I sense that they are not giving out reject letters because almost everyone is on wait list.

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發表於 05-11-23 17:10 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

elegant 寫道:
Thanks for your encouragement.

I applied several schools GHS, CKY, SFA, DGS(no chance for this one because I am not rich), KLT but already failed for GHS and CKY which are the schools I thougtht that my daughter has higher chance of getting in. SFA is so difficult and for KLT, I only use it as a back up.

My girl is active only when she is familiar with the enviornment. I sent her to various outer school activities and her behaviour is always a problem, she only does thing when she is happy to do so.

有一次係一間食館聽到一個 k3 (度) 既小朋友同父母既對話 :

父 : 好耐冇同你去 mcdon.. 食野, 今期換 9 9
女 : 唔食喇
父 : (奇怪 !?) 點解呀 ?
女 : 我 xxxxxxx (好直接, 冇停係到諗)
父 : (係咁笑) 咁就乖

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發表於 05-11-23 17:24 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

I want to send my daughter to those school because those school are recognized with good education system, but not because those school are ' Famous'. I am more concerned on the sort of teaching system the school and this I believe is important for the child's development. Of course I do consider my child's ability before applying those school. I do not believe that the child with slow warming up character will reflect her learning ability or ultimate performance.

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發表於 05-11-23 17:25 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

totally agree with elegant

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發表於 05-11-23 17:27 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

elegant,

Actually, I agree with you that GHS only send waitlist letter rather than reject letter. I rarelly hear that someone will receive reject letter.

In fact, most of the children are also like your daughter who need time to warm up.

I think you can receive good news from one of your target school. Tomorrow is better than today.

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發表於 05-11-23 17:41 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

我衷心希望您不要為此而唔開心, (請盡量收埋您傷心(very sad)的情緒)

有可能你孩子只是慢熱 / 害羞;
又或者該校睇漏眼(如您自信囡囡學習能力ok;咪當佢地唔識貨law);

我相信除了dgs, 其他女校都有後補位, 不要太憂愁!

以下文章可能幫到您囡囡:-

如何幫孩子甩掉害羞性格
　　
有的孩子因性格靦腆，在大庭廣眾之下就顯得手足無措。這種性格如果成年後伴隨孩子走上社會，即使孩子有一技之長，也往往因不善與人相處而屢受挫折。因此，家長應該幫助孩子甩掉靦腆。　　家長不要常說“這孩子就愛害羞”，尤其在人多的時候，否則會加重孩子靦腆的心理，不敢向別人表現自我。靦腆的孩子其內心對自己的缺點也很厭惡，家長對他們要抱有同情心，要經常找出他們的閃光點進行鼓勵，而不要責難他們。家長可讓孩子隨意給別人打電話，心理學家認為這是一種訓練孩子不害羞的好方法。或者多邀請一些小朋友到家裡來玩，讓孩子在小伙伴的面前多發表一點自己的見解，對正確的地方家長要多加表揚。另外，還要鼓勵孩子多參加學校組織的活動，培養他們的集體觀念和勇敢精神。

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發表於 05-11-23 17:49 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

thanks Yukyuk

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發表於 05-11-23 17:58 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

Elegant:

Don't Worry Be happy

My kid is same, he only got the seat from GT, but now we decide to give up. Thus, he only get the waiting at KRS only.

Don't Worry Be happy

;-) 學做人, 求知識 :-P

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發表於 05-11-23 18:03 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

唔好因為咁而唔開心或失望啦,,,,
上年我女個網因為無乜心儀o既活動教學小學,所以我跨區選左舊油天,round1 round2加埋第三輪叩門,,,
到interview時,阿女只係好落力咁表現自己唔合作o既一面,佢特登排隊唔跟人行(我離遠見到蔡校長拎起個女張表格望,當時阿女重眼超超校長),事後阿女重話自己扮蟹,打橫行跳上樓梯...........
阿女做出呢d行為好明顯佢唔想入呢一間學校,因在統一派位佢知入左st.rose佢鍾意呢間多一點,所以用盡方法令自己去唔到第二間!!
作為媽咪,我認為自己已盡左力為個女爭取,現實無可能盡如人意嘛,而且入到st.rose也不錯,最緊要個女開心!
唔好淨係諗唔好的一面,凡事也有兩面的,既然都覺得小朋友本身在幼稚園成績好好,只係interview時warm up唔夠,咁只少你都認同左小朋友o既能力了.....
有時interview除左睇小朋友本身性格外,都好睇佢平時啊!
唔好唔開心,小朋友睇住父母的啊!唔值得呢~

~~~My dogs Phoebe,Minnie,Ah Bert and Rico~~

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發表於 05-11-23 18:18 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

Don't feel upset. If your daughter is keen on study and good at study, she will do well in any school.

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發表於 05-11-23 18:37 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

Cheer up - all daddies and mammies!! The 10-minute interview does not mean anything at all. It's just a game we all have to play, and a belief (which we know we do not believe totally at heart) that famous schools are better.

Look around - we are all responsible, dedicated and thoughful mums and dads who are willing to sacrifice everything for our kids. I am sure with mums and dads like us, every child will excel in the school they are in and enjoy a very warm and loving childhood.

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發表於 05-11-23 18:39 |只看該作者

Re: Very sad, my daughter always fails!

有無考慮下其他較二線私校, E.G. 德貞. 好多都有位.
但先讀津校再考慮轉校一樣得. GHS 一年班升二年班時, 有人走O架. 你有心讀, 個女原校成績不俗的話一定有機. SFA都收插班生.
塞翁失馬, 焉知非福. 小兒之前小一抽到一間自己最心儀津校, 但入到去才知差差差. 逼著我替小兒轉校, 轉左去SFA, 現在開心到不得了. 他日你真係考慮轉校去SFA, 想要NOTES 之類, PM 我丫.

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