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DBBoy

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發表於 04-7-15 04:46 |只看該作者

TELLING A LIE TO GET YOUR CHILD INTO DPJS, DGS??

TO MY HORROR I NOTE THAT SOME PARENT SUGGESTED THAT THEY WILL LIE ABOUT THEIR PROFESSION TO GET THEIR CHILD INTO DGS

To lie about ones professional, residential address, etc. to get a son/daughter into a school is the ultimate fault that a parent could commit. Do you expect that your little one will carry on with that lie for the whole of her education years??? Keep lying to her friends, teachers, headmistress???? Just because her over zealous parents wants her to get into DPJS, DGS?

If such rationale is justified because of good intentions, why not steal a ring, to pay for school fees or rob a bank to pay for uncle's medical bills???

Any person who made any false declarations because of good intentions should "come clean" and reverse the fault that they have committed. Otherwise, you have seriously scared the future of your child and put him/she in shame out of no fault of his/her own if the lie is discovered.

THINK TWICE BEFORE ACTING, THE YOUNG CHILD WHO HAS NO SAY AND NO PART TO PLAY IS INNOCENT AND THE PARENT SHOULD BEAR THE SHAME AND GUILT ALONE.  FOR THOSE WHO STILL INSIST, THEN THEY SHOULD GO ONE STEP FURTHER AND IF THEIR SURNAME IS HO, THEN CLAIM YOU ARE IN STANLEY HO'S FAMILY.

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Re: TELLING A LIE TO GET YOUR CHILD INTO DPJS, DGS??

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Re: TELLING A LIE TO GET YOUR CHILD INTO DPJS, DGS??

What is your meaning? Is it if the child tell a lie about his residential address, he can get a seat?
If YES. Once the child study in this school, I will told him that why mummy ask you to tell a lie. If it is the ONLY WAY to get in this school are where you live and your career, I don't think it is a GOOD school.
However, I will not say the one that tell a lie is absoultely wrong. I think they know it is shame to do that. But they did not have the advantage that you have or may be you have.(Like a king to ask the poor people why they don't eat a cognee with mint meat)  All they do is because they love their children.
If the address and the career of the parents is really one of the factor for these schools to choose their candidates, I think you should blame the school but not the parent. THE SHAME AND GUILT is the school.
看我同你們天天在一起，直到今世的終結。

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Re: TELLING A LIE TO GET YOUR CHILD INTO DPJS, DGS??

It is just the regulations of the game. Frankly speaking, the parents who teach their child to tell the lies are wrong. However, they should be forgiven. No body would like to teach their children to tell the lies. What they are doing is just fulfill the requirements of the school.

I am so disappointed that the family background is the first concerned criteria for the school. One of my daughter's classmate cannot get into any private school (the girl is so quiet and passive) except DGS because of the family background.

We don't like the rule but it is so foolish of you to turn away and never look back. We have to balance between the benefit and the cost. What we have to do is to do something to adapt the society.

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JCYL

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發表於 04-7-15 22:57 |只看該作者

Re: TELLING A LIE TO GET YOUR CHILD INTO DPJS, DGS??

Stccmc:
I understand what you are talking. For me, I will not do that, I will tell the truth to the school whatever the result is. What I want to say is "It is NOT shame and quilt for the parents ". Nobody want to do that. We should not say anything to blame them.
看我同你們天天在一起，直到今世的終結。

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囝囝爸

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發表於 04-7-15 22:58 |只看該作者

Re: TELLING A LIE TO GET YOUR CHILD INTO DPJS, DGS??

父母職業弄虛作假比較少聽見, 用假地址是一種十分十分普遍的手法, 很多學校亦知道, 除非你不小心自動爆煲, 否則學校亦隻眼開隻眼閉. 聽聞小一開學時, 名校知道學生地址有近半不住在同區. 對學校來說反而是好事, 選學生來源無遠弗界, 比局限同區更能選到好學生.

一個制度, 使違法的人得益, 守法的人受害, 能沿用至今. 是誰的錯?  家長、學校、或是立法者?

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DBBoy

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發表於 04-7-16 03:16 |只看該作者

Re: TELLING A LIE TO GET YOUR CHILD INTO DPJS, DGS??

This is again good discussion.

Our society has divided law making, judiciary and enforcement to maintain a balance and control.  Once a law or rule is made, everyone should obey it and it is for the enforcement (police) to enforce it.  If it is a bad rule, then the judiciary will give a nominal (lesser) sentence and suggest that the law makers change the rules.

It is not up to those that are subject to the law or rule to tell lies and try to get around it.  If parents do not have the ability to tell the right and wrong of this simple matter, what else can they teach their children is questionable.

There is an old Chinese saying that "To be poor is not a justification to steal".  As parents, we should teach by example and deeds and not by words alone.

NO OFFENCE MEANT BUT THE TRUTH IS THAT THOSE TELLING THE LIE IS GUILTY (AS SUCH WORD IS DEFINED IN THE OXFORD DICTIONARY) AND THE SHAME IS NOT IN TELLING THE LIE TO THE SCHOOL, THE SHAME IS IN THE SETTING OF A VERY BAD EXAMPLE FOR THE CHILD TO FOLLOW AND THE DAMAGE IS, AMONGST OTHERS, IN THE COMPROMISE OF THE PARENTS' OWN IMAGE, VALUES AND STANDARDS.

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