考到了心儀學校,成績一般,是否要盡快轉

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Re: 考到了心儀學校,成績一般,是否要盡快轉

Relax!!

剛開學個半月,點解咁快就咁悲觀,對小朋友會好大壓力!

平心靜氣同小朋友傾,話佢知你明白佢已經盡了力,無奈成績未如理想,同佢講老師同媽媽都覺得佢好聰明,下次一定會做得更好!

記住要多D關心同鼓勵!切忌打罵!!

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Re: 考到了心儀學校,成績一般,是否要盡快轉

傳統學校就是那麼吹谷架啦. 依家小一d 中文真係深不可測, 係無耐架啦! 正路如妳覺得小朋友跟不上或從中因壓力而對他日常的行為有變, 那麼最好就盡快轉

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Re: 考到了心儀學校,成績一般,是否要盡快轉

比多少少時間看看吧!咁早佢可能未慣,但遲d都係咁,就要考慮吓,如果唔係就對佢唔好,可能可以好叻,但去到d outstanding 的學校,佢可能變得無信心,因有種成日都唔得的感覺.

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Re: 考到了心儀學校,成績一般,是否要盡快轉

個人認為留意子女的學習情緒, 比在意成績重要.

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思樂媽媽寫道:
傳統學校就是那麼吹谷架啦. 依家小一d 中文真係深不可測, 係無耐架啦! 正路如妳覺得小朋友跟不上或從中因壓力而對他日常的行為有變, 那麼最好就盡快轉

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I have the same issue as kikiwo, my son is in St Jo (Wan Chai). Since he is small kid, he has some difficulties to catch up. I try to push so hard. However, the harder I push, the more resistance from him. He told me he hates his school, he also hates me because I put him in this school. He said he could study anywhere else but not there. When he talked to me, he was in tears. I was so heart broken when I see this

. I don't want to give up now, but I really worry about the stress he gets. Anything I could do better to improve the situation. I don't know what to do !!!

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我贊同viewer既意見, 子女的學習情緒比成績重要, 如果小一已經唔鍾意返學, 對學校無好感實在好難讀下去.

viewer 寫道:
個人認為留意子女的學習情緒, 比在意成績重要.

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你好, 我都係聖若瑟(釆石里)的家長, 1a班, 其實好多小朋友都係咁, 我地係呢到開咗過 forum, 你得閒入去傾吓, 其實我地個個都係一樣, 有d媽咪重話佢個仔食蛋，我個仔都係頭一次唔合格，呢兩次剛剛合格，一次比一次進咪得囉，比ｄ信心小朋水，佢會慢慢適應，越來越好，大家加油！！
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各位好,我小朋友入了聖若瑟(釆石里),但成績有時ok,但默書實在對�個小學生來說太深,今日中文老師致電找我,話佢應該可以再叻d,唔似咁差,叫我管佢緊d,但這間學校都比我預期深,我而家也不知點算,可能我較悲觀請幫吓我

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Re: 考到了心儀學校,成績一般,是否要盡快轉

Ianmammy 寫道:
I have the same issue as kikiwo, my son is in St Jo (Wan Chai). Since he is small kid, he has some difficulties to catch up. I try to push so hard. However, the harder I push, the more resistance from him. He told me he hates his school, he also hates me because I put him in this school. He said he could study anywhere else but not there. When he talked to me, he was in tears. I was so heart broken when I see this . I don't want to give up now, but I really worry about the stress he gets. Anything I could do better to improve the situation. I don't know what to do !!!

Why don't you want to give up?

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Re: 考到了心儀學校,成績一般,是否要盡快轉

比得你入,就梗係覺得佢得啦........我個女轉校時,都用左大半年去適應.......加油呀

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Re: 考到了心儀學校,成績一般,是否要盡快轉

其實都係開左學個幾月, 比D時間比你同你個仔適應la, 就算轉左校, 咪係要從新適應, 吾止St.Joseph(Wan Chai), 好多傳統學校都係push D 學生 ka la, 除非讀蔡繼友, 聖馬加利呢類學樣先會free D 炸，不過, 如果真係頂吾順D壓力而轉校, 千祈吾好再揀番傳統學校。

Ianmammy 寫道:
I have the same issue as kikiwo, my son is in St Jo (Wan Chai). Since he is small kid, he has some difficulties to catch up. I try to push so hard. However, the harder I push, the more resistance from him. He told me he hates his school, he also hates me because I put him in this school. He said he could study anywhere else but not there. When he talked to me, he was in tears. I was so heart broken when I see this . I don't want to give up now, but I really worry about the stress he gets. Anything I could do better to improve the situation. I don't know what to do !!!

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Ianmammy 寫道:
I have the same issue as kikiwo, my son is in St Jo (Wan Chai). Since he is small kid, he has some difficulties to catch up. I try to push so hard. However, the harder I push, the more resistance from him. He told me he hates his school, he also hates me because I put him in this school. He said he could study anywhere else but not there. When he talked to me, he was in tears. I was so heart broken when I see this . I don't want to give up now, but I really worry about the stress he gets. Anything I could do better to improve the situation. I don't know what to do !!!

My son is too a 'small' boy; he came from a kinder of active learning with virtually no homework at all, still less to say dictation, test and examination.  I am glad that up to this moment, he is still happy with his school (the same school as your son).

I would say that I am a very demanding person and with bad temper.  However, I have not given any pressure to my son because I realise that it will cause more harm than good in doing so.  When he told me that he did not do well in a dictation, I only replied in a carefree manner (just pretended) and said, "It's doesn't matter, just work harder next time.  You'll soon have another chance to get a high mark, o.k.!"  Then he showed a sweet smile and answered "O.k."

May be you have used the wrong approach.  Although I am not an educational expert and I do not know whether my approach still works in the long run, I know that giving undue pressure on a kid cannot help to improve the situation.  In my view, you should use encouragement instead of pushing hard!

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Re: 考到了心儀學校,成績一般,是否要盡快轉

I wrote some comments about this school previously.  I said they have a lot of dictations..........blah..blah...blah......  But people said my comment was too negative.  Now your son is one of the victims.  Right?

Your son is not the only one who is suffering from those traditional schools pushing system. Pleasedon't give up!!  Usually a kid starts to pick up at primary three or four.  In the meantime, you and your son have to work hard.

I tell you what??  In GENERAL, Catholic school is more strict and tough than Christan School.  You may ask your friends.

Good luck and may god bless you.