練琴好勞氣

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我囡日日練琴都要我好勞氣，無心機之餘又求其，我已經心身疲累，應該繼續堅持定放棄，有無媽咪可以比d意見我呀

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Re: 練琴好勞氣

Hi,

How long have your daughter learned to play?

I have same experience of yours when my 5 year girl learned at the first half year. But now she has improved a lot and will practice by herself. May be after she have gained some techinque, she will enjoy playing it. So be patience. Don't give up so fast.

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syliujoe is right, don't give up. When my son first started, he was the same. Once he learnt a little bit technique,like a simple song, he started to enjoy it. He is going to take Level 2 exam and teacher still says that he doesn't practice enough. So now, I make a daily checksheet, he practices 45 mins daily, he got a sticker. If he got 30 of them, we would get sth he likes in stationary store. I don't need to say "Have you practiced yet?" anymore.

So, don't give up. It takes time. She needs time too.

AY2G

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Re: 練琴好勞氣

個個學琴家長都係為練琴怒氣架, enjoy 練琴? 對小朋友黎講, 一百個可能揾唔到兩個.

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Re: 練琴好勞氣

其實練琴對小朋友黎講係同讀書、做功課冇分別，一樣係"被迫"，但有時情況亦未必如是。

我仔仔初時都係一樣，唔鍾意練琴，成日要勞氣，但係自從轉左現在的鋼琴老師，情況就有所改善。原來佢唔肯練琴唔係純粹因為懶或怕辛苦，而係唔識得方法練琴，現在的老師會在堂上幫他練琴，讓他先將新歌於堂上練熟六至八成，然後再教他家中自行練習的方法，這樣，他只需跟從老師的方法再將餘下的兩成練熟便可。於是，仔仔便覺得練琴不再像以往般辛苦吃力，除建立成功感，更會自動自覺練琴，唔駛再勞氣。就像我之前post過的message中所講一樣，搵到個識教的老師比搵個有知名道的老師重要。

不知 Cindyandy 妳女女的情況是否同樣？妳應該先搵出佢唔肯練琴的原因，然後才對症下藥。

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Re: 練琴好勞氣

gaykid is very right.

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但一首新歌真係好難係課堂上練熟到有67成, 妳諗諗係九個字至一個鐘之間, 真係好難, 初級就得, 好似我囡囡咁學緊一級都好難, 每首歌都有兩版紙, 如果一堂裡剩係教一首就當然無問題, 但一堂學一首進度咪好慢

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其實學琴的初期最困難, 只要過了這一關, 加上小孩子本身有興趣, 便會自動練琴。尤其是年紀小的孩子, 初頭的難關, 是要父母陪

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Re: 練琴好勞氣

Aries媽咪
我自己都係教琴既, 唔方便講太多, 不過一個星期應該可以練到多過1首歌既, 我suggest 你注意下小朋友練琴既方法, 有時方法唔岩, 死練都唔係辦法, 你亦可以問一下老師點樣可以有效率甘去練琴

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SandyMummy 寫道:
其實學琴的初期最困難, 只要過了這一關, 加上小孩子本身有興趣, 便會自動練琴。尤其是年紀小的孩子, 初頭的難關, 是要父母陪

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Absolutely true!

[quote]
somimi 寫道:
[quote]
SandyMummy 寫道:
其實學琴的初期最困難, 只要過了這一關, 加上小孩子本身有興趣, 便會自動練琴。尤其是年紀小的孩子, 初頭的難關, 是要父母陪

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Re: 練琴好勞氣

Cindyandy,

或許您應先了解為何女兒在練琴時會(無心機之餘又求其)，找出問題的根源，才知道適當的解決辦法。例如一、學生的問題：是否不懂得數音？歌曲是否太難或太易? 姿勢是否正確？是否不明白老師在堂上的講解？是否用了不正確的方法練習還是懶惰？二、老師的問題：老師是否解釋得不夠清楚或詳細？三、環境因素：學琴環境是否安靜？有沒有干擾她的東西？練琴時能否專心地在座位上練習，會不會(四圍走)？另外值得留意是家長有否給予鼓勵和讚賞。因為家長對子女學琴的看法對孩子學音樂的價值觀有很大的影響。單憑您所說的情況，難以作詳細的解答。最了解孩子學琴情況的還是孩子的鋼琴老師。

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Re: 練琴好勞氣

我同意以上咁多位o既講法

Cindyandy,

練琴係要捱o既，唔係個個都會日日, 次次 enjoy 練琴o既時間。如果你小朋友係 6 歲樓下, 我覺得都應該比多少少機會佢。但如果係 7 歲或以上，仲要係已經學左一兩年，都冇乜成績, 日日要唉佢求佢練琴，你都仲可以大方埋最後今次，轉過個先生又或者仔細了解唔想練o既原因，對症下藥。要死心，唔玩，其實除時都可以，但如果有天份，唔珍惜，係幾可惜o既...

Ruby1219

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Mountainview,

Ha ! I exactly did the same as you ! For over one year already and in fact now I do not need to use that ! (cos' my son always forgot to put the sticker after he practised alone).

Now, he does practise on his own, I'll accompany him on weekends if I have time. Seems he's ok. But of course the teacher asked him to practise more and he did have some complaints, but still manageable. I would definitely insist to continue. Learning piano is a long term 'battle'. I really think that it's not only hardship to the kid, but also we parents. So, I always push myself to motivate him, with both soft and hard approaches.

Ruby

MountainView 寫道:
syliujoe is right, don't give up. When my son first started, he was the same. Once he learnt a little bit technique,like a simple song, he started to enjoy it. He is going to take Level 2 exam and teacher still says that he doesn't practice enough. So now, I make a daily checksheet, he practices 45 mins daily, he got a sticker. If he got 30 of them, we would get sth he likes in stationary store. I don't need to say "Have you practiced yet?" anymore.

So, don't give up. It takes time. She needs time too.

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Ruby1219,

So impressed!! Try our best!!

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Hi, Ruby1219,

We just started this method but at least it works. I hope he can practice longer very soon and don't need stickers encouragement. But now, he still works very hard for his favourite sticker only

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Heidi媽寫道:
我都好有同惑, 陪女練琴真的很累很辛苦, 當中亦有諗過放棄, 但最後也繼續堅持, 唔想呀女覺得小小辛苦就可以放棄, 呢個也不是解決事情的方法, 比我更覺得要做好每樣東西同時覺得一定要大家都付出才代價的。
我女學琴已有3年半, 由一開始學琴每一陪練琴, 幼稚園時時間比較多, 所以每天也陪她練約2小時, 不單只坐在她隔離陪坐, 還要不段提及她老師所教授的技巧, 她彈我哼歌, 不過最重要亦莫過於不段的讚賞和鼓勵。
當她有時彈得不留心, 好像要快快練完沒有心機的時候, 我會責罵她, 有時會叫她洗個面, 飲杯水, 令自己提起精神才開始過, 因為一直練些錯的東西, 簡直晒時間! 現在她二年班了, 呢幾個月開始佢自己練琴, 也是我下班回家吃飯後開始練, 而我亦開始慢慢放手給她自己安排練習, 我就做其他東西亦一直聽佢練習, 當然聽到錯的會立即糾正, 我發覺佢终於開始識針對自己的錯處去練習, 我希望佢能夠為自己去改進, 習琴時間是很漫長的, 我只希望囡囡能扎穩根基, 對音樂提高興趣和不段地探索。

Heidi媽,
你囡囡可練琴2小時, 她一定很喜歡學琴, 我囝囝下個月6years old, 學琴1.5年, 每天練琴5-10分鐘, 他今年剛升小一, 晚上都無時間, 我是在職媽媽, 他讀全日, 放學後到補習班, 晚上6時半-7時才回到家, 但他無話唔學琴, 我自己本身不懂琴, 錯了我都唔知, 他要自己去學習, 有時都覺得他已經算好, 大家努力, 唔好放棄

AY2G

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Re: 練琴好勞氣

家長恕氣嘅另一個好重要的原因係肉赤啲$$, 當你見到阿仔/女今個星期又係彈翻上星期啲歌, 即是話老師今堂唔俾佢pass, 也即是話佢上星期練琴達唔到老師要求. 大拿拿幾百坟堂渦, 當佢唔認真練琴時, 點叫家長唔恕氣.
不過恕氣還恕氣, 始終小朋友最終係咪可以堅持學落去, 完全取决於家長的參與程度.

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