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Re: 九龍塘聖家
Edma,
Sorry for replying late. Actually I wrote you a long reply last night but accidentally it was deleted before I sent it out. So forgive me for reverting to you tonight.
I agree with S that might be you have over-scheduled your daughter. Of course some parents tend to pack their kids with as much activities as possible,but that's not my cup of tea. I believe that one needs breathing space to keep her sane and balanced psychologically. I personally allow some idle time for my daughter, doing nothing or let her go things that she likes (which I don't find much "meaning" or "purpose" in doing).
I can't criticize others for giving their children lots of extra curricular activities because people do have different values and place their emphasis in different ways. But I think there is one thing that parents should think twice before arranging activities for kids, is it doing more good to harm to the child or the way round. If that particular activity makes the child more stressful than ever, belittle herself because she feels bad about her performance, than perhaps we can talk to her to see if she really enjoys the activity. It's pointless if she doesn't like the thing she's doing and you spending money and time on something that no one actually wants.
Perhaps I've gone a bit too far. My point is, there are two things that you might need to review . The first thing is : Is her schedule reasonable?(Mind you, don't expect a P.1 student can finish everything everyday, but keep track of her progress ). The homework seemed to me very reasonable, of course there are daily fluctuations but it's always possible to finish them within 1 or 1 and a half hour ). Then the second question is, is your daughter concentrated in her work? This is an important issue. If she is concentrated and self-motivated in her work and study, then you will have a very easy life. To cultivate that self-discipline and self-confidence is very esssential and useful . She will benefit from that for her whole life. |
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