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Re: 如果個仔成績名列前茅，你
我覺得家長時時拿自己小朋友既成績同同學仔既成績比較, 其實不健康和跟本對小朋友冇咩益處!
1, 每個小朋友的資質不一樣, 興趣不一樣, 能力不一樣..etc, 某個小朋友對語文可能很有興趣又學得好, 所以佢語文分數可能好高, 但若你小朋友冇呢方面, 成續可能好低, 但唔代表你小朋友唔叻, 因為我自已覺得 (of course, it is my personal opinion) --> [size=small]天生我才必有用! 所以你小朋友一定有另一方面很好的! 總括來講, 就是每個人的特質不一, 所以不能用分數來比較!
2, 著只顧著分數, 名次...就會好易忽若小朋友本身既發展 (即 discover yourself), e.g 你小朋友邊一方面有興趣? 邊一方面特別冇興趣? 學習方式是怎樣 (多是visual? audio?...etc), 佢既夢想係咩? (呢類答案應該不用和別人比較便可以得來).
想小朋友有自信心, 又有長進心, 又不安於現況 (像版主的描述), 又唔想有和別人比較的壓力, 我諗就要從家長開始, 要灌輸小朋友對事, 對人, 對人生既觀念吧 (當然每個家庭都有唔同的觀念)!
[size=large]不與別人相比, 只求突破自己because we are unique and this concept is more likely to be more effective and productive in terms of personal development.
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precious_times ,
In responding to your questions, I suggest you to find our more information about those schools to see if they can meet your kid's needs (knowing your kid's needs first). Of course, the schools also need to see if your kid is the type of kids they want to have at their schools as well.....Anyway, happy parenting.
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發表於 07-5-23 01:23
