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Re: 西貢英基幼稚園
Mone,
Sandy is an expat but I cannot remember where she is from.
Well, I hope your daughter won't be like my daughter or a bit less active.Coz the doctor said kid for this age is "Active" but just is "More active" or "Less active" and he said for her is "More active"
I know what you mean by getting upset when you feed the kid, I was the same b4 when she was almost 2, I always feel so upset when I feed her coz she never sit properly or eat properly. And my husband always asks me to relax. But now for the feeding part, she is getting a lot better and she can feed herself after going to the Nursey.
Of course I like sharing experience with you as I am the same as you and ask my friends who have the same background like us.
For us we mainly speak English at home. everything is English even watching TV. Bcoz when our daughter was still little (from new born to 18 months old) I speak Chinese to her and my husband speak English to her coz we both want her to learn 2 languages. But when she turned 18 months old, we just think she only can speak very little, such as Mama, Papa and some baby language. But our friend's son is also Mix but he can speak lots of words in English (He only speaks English as they don't teach him Chinese) So we took her to see the doctor and the doctor said its very common for a mix kid but he recommand us to just use one language as he said for our baby - she can understand both language but she doesn't know which language to use(Chinese or English) to answer it back.
So ever since then we just use one language (English) to talk to her, coz we know we will send her to the local school to learn Chinese, so eventually she still can learn Chinese,plus the people around her will talk to her in Chinese. After she turned 2, we took her to see the doctor again and do some kind of test, Everything for her is doing pretty good coz after we just use one language, she can understand more and she can express herself a lot more (Not so easy to get grumpy as we don't really understand her b4) She can say more single words but for her combined words still not good enough and ask us to observe first.
Now, she is 30 months old. for us we think she has no problem on speaking, maybe she is not very clear with words when she speaks, sometimes maybe only I can understand what she says as I am her mother. But the doctor said for this age, it doesn't matter if the word is not so clear as long as she can say it, only need to be concern when she is a bit older.
After she goes to the Nursery, her speaking improves a lot. b4 she starts the Nursery, she only can understand but cannot say a word of Chinese, but after 2 weeks, I can hear she starts speaking Chinese word and now when she sees Chinese people (like my parents, relatives, teachers, school friends) she will speak Chinese to them. and when she sees Westerner then she will speak English.
Plus also for our case,my husband is always not at home. I have to speak English to her, so that she can keep up her English. But my daughter picks up lots of English from the Disney program/movies and she know how to use it and use it right. That's why I always said to my friends that I know I should not let her watch too much TV(while I am busy) but honestly she does learn things from it, so its a difficult choice!!!
Now she can talk more and always talk talk talk. I will ask her "Is your mouth tired coz you keep talking and singing, no-stop for the whole morning. as Mummy's ears are very tired now!! "
Thank you for the compliment of my daughter. I always say to my friend " She got the Angel face but inside is a little monster" Now she looks more like a girl, when she was still a baby, everyone think she is a boy?!! I also think your daughter is sooo cute, especially the small pic, I want to kiss her little red face!! :wink: |
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