對 德 望 學 校 政 策 的 不 滿 [複製鏈接]

麟媽媽 寫道:
我過路的，同個topic無關的….
不過看見Msma好像看見一些名校舊生一樣。
呢D叫sense of belongings，
舊生多數係咁，家長都係咁真係難得。
我走架喇….唔好Fee 埋我…..

cher_mummy 寫道:
拿! 你唔對la. 玩針對!

係呀! 係呀!  快d呀! 行得麼冇x哥

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麟媽媽 寫道:
我過路的，同個topic無關的….
不過看見Msma好像看見一些名校舊生一樣。
呢D叫sense of belongings，
舊生多數係咁，家長都係咁真係難得。
我走架喇….唔好Fee 埋我…..

DocDaddy 寫道:
Dear shrek123,

Thanks for your opinion.
However, I did not agree with you in a few aspects.

Firstly, we did not try to defend our school blindly and not to accept any criticisms. In fact, if you had read my writing, you would notice that I did mention some inadequacies of the school and tried to make some suggestions to solve the problems. What I felt was that those problems were not big ones, at least not big enough to make someone to consider changing the school for their daughters.

Secondly, as you are only a potential P1 parent, you may not have the chance yet to realize the change of your daughter after stugying in the school, like what I do. My daughter becomes more independent, more eager to learn, and more brave (she bursts into tears quite easily in the past).

Thirdly, we are not without choices. My daughter was accepted by 3 famous private primary schools (at least some people think that they are)last year.
Why I choose Good Hope is that I understand the teaching format (which I prefer to make my daughter stonger), I see the results of their teaching (some of my colleagues, juniors & junior classmate in the university were Good Hope graduates). Moreover, we will not have great difficulty to change to another school nowadays as what Lovelymama said. So actually it is that I want to let my daughter to stay in this school instead of being no choices.

Forthly, over-defend is not good to the school, I agree. But making too many negative comments without trying the best to solve problems; always thinks in a very negative way & avoid the problem instead of facing it are also no good. These will set a very bad examples to our next generation, I guess.

Lastly, I always think that if we do not love the school, how can we ask our daughters to love their school. (Just like if we do not love our daughter, how can we ask them to love us)

Sorry for the disagreements with you.

Best wishes.

c0271 寫道:
我只是路過的。
其實家長有時說說學校有甚麼不是，很多時只是發發牢騷，想找人互相呷下，談的都會是一些小事，這都是很普通的。但一到GH，每次都會有一些很極端的反應，挑起大家的情緒，令小事化大，最後變成罵戰，大家不歡而散。這樣令很多真正想互相分享的 GH家長卻步。可惜!

Darth 寫道:

我都係路過，係旁觀者 ( 我冇小朋友讀 gh )，我都有同感。

其實，睇開 bk 都好耐 (真係睇好耐喇，係一直冇註冊)，我都覺得好多學校都有被批評，但係次次討論 gh 都好大件事，點解要咁？

我都覺得 gh 本身係一間好學校，比我，都會 consider gh 為一個好好的選擇。我亦覺得唔應該為學校行政問題而轉校，因為真係冇人知另一間會唔會有另一 d 問題。我覺得最緊要小朋友自己覺得間學校點：如果佢自己都唔鐘意 gh，咁轉都無防；但如果小朋友鐘意，又讀得好，我覺得一動不如一淨。

另一方面，msma，我覺得你好多時，為 defend 德望，語氣真的不好，而且唔係第一次喇。其實，你都話間間學校都會有不善之處喇，咁有投訴又有幾奇？我小朋友讀的學校，都有做得不好的地方，我亦都有好多朋友同我講，佢地 d 小朋友係其他名校遇到的不好的遭遇。有 d 人好好采，永遠平平安安的，但有 d 人可能真係咁唔好采，遇到唔開心的經歷；有 d 家長，遇到有不滿； 可能覺得好少事，唔理，但係有 d 家長，會好唔開心，好想講出黎，吐下苦水。

我知你係想間學校好，但係似乎做得唔夠得體，如果你真係有心幫忙，我覺得你可以做學校與 Lovelymama2006 的橋樑；新生的家長，對學校當然會不熟識啦，而且間間學校文化不同，你既然有小朋友讀 gh 多年，你其實可以幫手等佢可以同學校溝通得好 d。而唔係一開始就叫人轉校。

件事本身對與錯都好，你其實有冇諗過，你咁樣出 post ，係令人幾反感呢？人地對你個人反感係其一，其實，我覺得有 d 人會因為你的言論，對學校亦會反感。


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c0271 寫道:
我只是路過的。
其實家長有時說說學校有甚麼不是，很多時只是發發牢騷，想找人互相呷下，談的都會是一些小事，這都是很普通的。但一到GH，每次都會有一些很極端的反應，挑起大家的情緒，令小事化大，最後變成罵戰，大家不歡而散。這樣令很多真正想互相分享的 GH家長卻步。可惜!