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引用:Quote:原帖由+annes+於+15-03-02+發表我都
原帖由 awah112 於 15-03-03 發表
其實蒙氏可以自己教,不過我冇學過,所以比幼稚園教 Agree that you can teach your child the Montessori way, which I did, for aspects like, self caring, discipline, responsibility for one's belongings...etc
As for Eng Chin and Math, I only support her on her school work at a non Montessori kindergarten.
My child, ever since she could sit up and play on the playmat, was taught or shown to play one set of toy at a time. She needs to pick the set from the bookshelf, where all her toys were neatly laid .
She did that by pointing at that young age. I would bring the toy to her and play with her. For instance, the shape sorting set, I give her the time she needa to touch, feel, shake, smell and sometimes taste each piece. Then when.she is done with examining them, I would tell her the name of the shape, say square (though it should really be a cube) and then guide her hand to slide the cube though the square shaped hole into the box.
I showed her how toys are supposed to be played and handled i.e. with care. After she was done with the current set, I would ask if she wanted to.change to another set. And then I would respect her and try to comply if possible.
I was likely to have a child who could understand language when spoken to at a very early age. She could indicate by pointing at objects when asked verbally to.choose at 8 months and started talking at 1 year old. I refrain from bringing toys to her so that she could nod to approve or shake to disapprove. I wanted her to take the initiatve to express herself rather than being "served"
at 10 months, i requested her to spoon feed herself mashed baby food. It was a nightmare at first and my maid frowned at having to clean the highchair tray, the floor and everything else that got dirty after every meal. of course.for the first couple of times, you waste food and had to sit in front of her to help guide her spoon to her mouth. After only 2 weeks she could do her job well. And I never had to feed her ever since.
The key is to have patience and keep a close monitor of the child's progress and make sure the tools, and all hardware are suitable for them to use. Be it the plastic spoon, the plastic bowl, the extra large waterproof bib, or clean tray for eating .
When her milk time comes, I would prepare the milk and put it at her designated milk spot. And then move the baby (she didnt walk or.crawl until 15 months old) there for her meal. The intention for this was discipline.
##Do the right thing at the right time at the right place, and concentrate on one thing at a time.##
Eat on the high chair, play on the playmat, milk on the sofa...etc This helped get her in a very good habit that she never 唅飯 as she grew.
At 5 years old now, she eats promptly at the dining table for every meal. Starts her homework at the desk promptly and continues until she is all done, no excuses to get away, no dragging on, 坐底就做,專心地做。
She now has the liberty to schedule her own time after school and homework.
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