I totally understand your feeling. My girl is now in P.3 and her rank is quite high (no. 2 in the p.3 & no. 1 in her class). But she is not that hard-working as compared to myself when I was at her age. Sometimes quite absent-minded. Even my mom asks me not to be so strick to her. I believe 將勤補拙 but my husband always said that 女兒的腦還未開竅. But I just can't sit & do nothing. Or to the point may be I can't accept she got less than 85 marks one day.
Agreed with Rachel & Mavis. Actually my son's kinder required us to let them taking the responsbility. My son is in P1 and I only go through the things with him every Sat and he will take care of it himself.
Howwever my son try to make his homework very fast but with very poor handwriting. The teacher try to complain this. I don't what should I do.
阿囡今次test不太好, 佢又lazy, 我又busy, 完全沒有revise 呀
阿囡maths test only got 7X,
但阿囡都無所謂, 因為她已經覺得唔錯, 沒媽媽幫, 其他亦可以有8x 及 9x
佢話only maths 不好, she thinks o.k. BUT she forgot last test all of the subject she can got 9x