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sometimes I need to wait , to observe what's behind the expression of the kids, before going into any solutions.
my son - always a quiet child since kindergarten, frustrated over that as a mom, but hold it back because i learn that kids are diverse and they will change.
I observe - he is very expressive when facing granma as grandma cook good foods for him; he is very expressive with me when going out for good food..he talks and talks about food, he is very expressive about books when reading a good book
wait and wait, every year, class teacher's comments are - he's too quiet, besides that everything is ok. they suggest me to put him to public speaking training, poet training etc etc...But, I felt like that's too pramatic, and not fit the kid's pace.
I still wait and wait, of course I share with him my observation and teachers' observation and ask him how did he feel about that...
wait and wait
This year, he finally tell me that he needs to change
His expression improve a lot, he participate in poetry competition, that's out of my surprise |
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