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to be fair then, it was the adjudicator's comments you were not happy with. Not the competition itself right?
Yvonne, you even mentioned last year was good, but this year, you just didn't have an adjudicator you thought was good for your child?
Video_ming, as much as I can understand how disappointing you were and your child's efforts seem not rewarded, do remember she did have the experience of performing in public, and received comments that no doubt is to suggest better performance and further improvements?
I think it's unfair to say because the adjudicator wasn't speaking with "sugar coated" words, just bluntly saying what was wrong with the performances that the competition is NOT fair, and that the competition is unworthy.
It's like parents just saying negative things, but really, you love your child, and want your child to do his/her best.
Very Chinese cultural.. that's all.
But, yes, I agree, adjudicators of ALL competitions should begin with the "positive" words in comments first, then the criticisms.
That's my philosophy in piano teaching with my students, and with my own children too. Positive first, then the bad news. |
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