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樓主: Radiomama	go Any idea on the first day to school [複製鏈接]

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發表於 07-8-10 23:29 |只看該作者

you know my daugther's schoolmates also don't cry and seemed to get used to the school environment very fast, and they are in their pre-nursery class, so i wonder why only my kid is so "sticky" ...she's teh only one who cries from teh beginning to the end of the lesson

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發表於 07-8-11 13:14 |只看該作者

wingchingchu,

在幼兒班的小朋友也不哭?? 莫非世界真的變了?
小兒昨天放學後說, "這間學校好好, 可以讓媽媽留下來."
感覺上有些小朋友特別容易適應學校生活: 常到公園或會所玩耍, 及家中有兄弟姊妹. 但這兩條件小兒欠奉.

努力啊!

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發表於 07-8-11 14:36 |只看該作者

me too
KAM BA TEI

原文章由 Radiomama 於 07-8-11 13:14 發表
wingchingchu,

在幼兒班的小朋友也不哭?? 莫非世界真的變了?
小兒昨天放學後說, "這間學校好好, 可以讓媽媽留下來."
感覺上有些小朋友特別容易適應學校生活: 常到公園或會所玩耍, 及家中有兄弟姊妹. 但這 ...

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發表於 07-8-11 21:36 |只看該作者

radiomama, wingchingchu,

Are both of you are FTM? If yes, this may be the reason why your daughter and son will be more sticky.

Of course, the character itself is the crucial reason.

原文章由 Radiomama 於 07-8-11 13:14 發表
wingchingchu,

在幼兒班的小朋友也不哭?? 莫非世界真的變了?
小兒昨天放學後說, "這間學校好好, 可以讓媽媽留下來."
感覺上有些小朋友特別容易適應學校生活: 常到公園或會所玩耍, 及家中有兄弟姊妹. 但這 ...

[ 本文章最後由 ymc2727 於 07-8-11 21:37 編輯 ]

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	26536

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發表於 07-8-12 15:54 |只看該作者

ymc2727,

I'm not a FTM!

When we go to church, he is quiet and timid. And he only likes to play with the one he is familiar with.

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發表於 07-8-12 16:21 |只看該作者

Radiomama,

I'm sure your son will be OK in couple of weeks' time. Even though he had a 2-week's rehersal beforehand, the environment, teachers, students are not the same as before. So the entire adaptation process has to start from scratch again. Just imagine you migrate to a new country with no friends and unfamiliar environment, will you be worried and scare? Same here! So don't worry, once your son get to know the teachers better and trust them, and he makes a few new friends, he'll enjoy his school life.

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	26536

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發表於 07-8-13 16:32 |只看該作者

The 2nd Day

When we arrived school, my boy just said, "Mom, you go into school and I'd wait you right here." and he was standing on the street.

He cried simply.

I carried him into school and we found a place to sit down and read a book.  He calmed down quickly and then we went into the classroom and I sat at the back.  He was OK by that time and then...........

I stayed outside when he was in the music class and it made him cry even worst than before.  I thought I have made a mistake again.  I didn't tell him that I was not going into the music classroom.

And he cried until we left school. On the way home, he asked, "Mom, why you didn't come, why you stay outside??"  I hardly answered.  Mom wants to stay with kid, only the kid leaves us someday.

I really love to see him enjoying his school life just as the others!!

I'd try my best tomorrow!

Welcome for any suggestion.

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發表於 07-8-13 22:35 |只看該作者

When my girl asked me to stay in the classroom, I told her that the classroom was designed for kids, not for adults. For example, the small chairs and tables in the classroom are not suitable for adults. And, it would be too crowded if all adults entering into the classroom. So, I would stay outside the classroom and wait for her there.

[ 本文章最後由 pcwai 於 07-8-15 14:22 編輯 ]

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發表於 07-8-13 23:21 |只看該作者

Radiomama,

我非常明白你ｏ既情況，因我女女同你仔仔ｏ既表現可以話一樣，我由三個月前已經同佢講８月尾要反學，又同佢睇關於學校ｏ既書，佢依家話就快反學開心到不得了喎，但我預計到時佢實喊，因為我同佢報興趣班，佢每次去之前都話好開心，但去到就變左另一個人咁，係咁攬住我喊，每次我都好無奈，佢試過反非洲鼓班喊左半堂，跟住佢同我講唔鍾意學啦，但佢係屋企好鍾意玩。又試過去學唱歌，頭兩堂又喊，之後無喊啦但老師話佢正係坐係位到唔肯出去一齊玩。佢好似簡人玩咁，佢平時同我親戚既小朋友就好好玩，但出到去一路到癡住我，都唔知點樣可以幫佢融入ｄ新環境到？

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	26536

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發表於 07-8-14 19:52 |只看該作者

3rd day

第三天上學, 仍在眼淚中看世界!

今天他的表現是因為我昨日的忽然消失而導致的, 所以今天要加倍讓他明白媽媽不是要留下他!

茶點過後老師跟他做"太陽伯伯", 他稍為寬心, 之後告訴他我會坐在走廊待他放學, 他終於"放手", 還在課室畫圖畫說要送給菲傭姐姐! 雖然只是短短5分鐘, 但已是很好的進步!

中文老師很可親, 希望可以成功助他轉移情緒!

午睡醒來致電給我, 說想聽聽我的聲音, 很窩心呢!

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	26536

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發表於 07-8-15 14:01 |只看該作者

4th day

今天踏前一小步!

上課兩小時, 陪伴一小時後終於離開了課室, 轉移到他視線範圍"內"的走廊位置看著他吃茶點, 不過大少不喜歡蛋糕, 所以吃了一口就算!

之後聽老師講故事和唱遊, 我便悄悄離開了他的視線範圍, 一小時後, 他從另一個課室回來取書包, 也是平平靜靜的, 放學時老師說, 他在音樂室裏只是細細聲地哭, 很溫文的.

他再度看見我時, 沒有眼紅和大哭, 真叫我喜出望外! 乘車回家時他說, 蛋糕不好吃, 我跟他說不要緊, 明天的茶點會好好吃的了! 接著他問我, 為什麼不留在課室, 我就說課室的座位很小巧, 是給小孩坐的, 所以媽媽坐在外面. 這答案好像暫且能解答他一時, 但我想也許明天他仍會繼續要求我留在課室. 之後他告訴我遊戲時間他沒有玩, 只是站著看! 這小朋友真叫人頭痛, 平日到公園也常常只是站著做旁觀者, 上幼稚園也是這樣的話, 會否太"文靜"呢?? 只好盼望老師也會照顧一些文靜而又不活潑的孩子就好了!

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	1406

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發表於 07-8-15 14:17 |只看該作者

Similar to your boy, my girl always keeps watching other kids. My girl is also passive and shy.

The progress of your boy is quite good ar. Add oil!!:)

原文章由 Radiomama 於 07-8-15 14:01 發表
今天踏前一小步!

上課兩小時, 陪伴一小時後終於離開了課室, 轉移到他視線範圍"內"的走廊位置看著他吃茶點, 不過大少不喜歡蛋糕, 所以吃了一口就算!

之後聽老師講故事和唱遊, 我便悄悄離開了他的視線範 ...

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	26536

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發表於 07-8-15 18:01 |只看該作者

ozmum, yanchuchu, pcwai,

Thank you very much for your support! My son and I would try my best!

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	26536

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發表於 07-8-16 13:54 |只看該作者

5th day

小兒跟姐姐及婆婆說, "今天喊少少!"

真的, 只是少少. 今天陪伴了30分鐘後便離開他的視線範圍, 探子回報(學校的姨姨)說他已經沒有哭, 還在吃茶點! 之後偷望他幾次, 也看見他會跟著老師活動!

放學時問他吃什麼, 玩什麼? 他說沒有吃茶點, 只飲了水, 還打翻少許, 不過自己用紙巾抹乾了, 也沒有告訴老師!

沒有玩玩具, 只是坐在一旁看書!

在他面前我當然是一副深信不疑的樣子啦!!

希望明天會更好!

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發表於 07-8-16 16:51 |只看該作者

Radiomama,
看完你的post,字裡行間深深感受到你對兒子的愛,小兒9月也要開學(n1),我也很擔心,因他也很纏身而我又很心軟,我怕我哭得比他利害

,不過我會提醒自己,這是兒子成長必經階段,象徵他長大了.若要他學懂堅強獨立,我要先做得到呢.

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發表於 07-8-16 17:05 |只看該作者

Radiomama,
我覺得你已做得好好,相信你兒子很快就會開開心心上學去,努力.加油

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	26536

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發表於 07-8-16 17:42 |只看該作者

SYM,

多謝鼓勵, 今天跟一些pn的家長傾談, 她們的確憂心如焚!
不過, 我曾到過pn那邊看那些小朋友, 好神奇, 今天那班是上tue/thur的, 竟然都不哭了, 只是兩天時間, 好叻啊!

所以大家都要加油!

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發表於 07-8-17 00:05 |只看該作者

原文章由 Radiomama 於 07-8-16 17:42 發表
SYM,

多謝鼓勵, 今天跟一些pn的家長傾談, 她們的確憂心如焚!
不過, 我曾到過pn那邊看那些小朋友, 好神奇, 今天那班是上tue/thur的, 竟然都不哭了, 只是兩天時間, 好叻啊!

所以大家都要加油!

Hi all mamas,

Don't give up when sending your kids to have their school days. When my son studied pre-nursery when he's 2yrs old, he cried for almost nearly 1 mth until he adapted with other classmtes and teachers. But after that, my son loves to go to school and don;t want to late for school, he will go to bed early and wake up happily for school.

but he will change to a new k1 in this sept, hope he can adapt a new environment and enjoy school life.

all the best

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	26536

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發表於 07-8-17 13:56 |只看該作者

6th day

昨晚回到家中, 剛巧遇上小兒耍性子, 向著爺爺等人說, 不要上學! 大家見他大哭, 當然順著說"好好", 這下真可怕, 當我再對他說每一個小朋友都要上學時, 他哭得更癘害, 而我換來的是給老爺責我不要這樣"硬"!

今早一覺醒來, 繼續哭說不上學, 與爸爸一起出門, 想不到爸爸心裏原來也在想, 不上學就不上學, 遲一年再算吧! 真給他氣壞!

幸好他是之後才在電話跟我說, 不然, 必定

!!

一路上, 沒有再扭計, 回到學校乖乖的換鞋, 然後進課室, 安頓他之後, 我便站在一旁, 15分鐘後, 便離開課室. 之後老師有機會來等候室告訴我, 他已安靜下來, 沒有哭!

放學時, 他的情緒很穩定, 還要留在學校玩了一會才離開, 與昨晚判若兩人, 神奇神奇!

對於3位老師已完全記住了, 下一步要認識新同學了!

[ 本文章最後由 Radiomama 於 07-8-17 13:58 編輯 ]

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發表於 07-8-17 22:06 |只看該作者

hi, all mami, my boy also started nursery fm last week, he still cried but teacher said cried lesser than b4. but he still didn't listen to the teacher, did what he wanted.
May I know all your kids can talk now? my boy just say less than 15 word(incl eng and cantonese), I 'm so worry as he is now in international class, and I speak to him in eng when he was born, but now I started to speak cantonese, cos I relied on school for eng speaking. my boy now is 27mths old, do u think I need to take him to see the speech specialist? Pls Share!!!

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