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Re: 杜曼 vs Montessori
chickchick,
I really like your description and sharing, really appreciate if you could write more and share with the mums here.
nan_nan,
I am a working mum, I also studied both Montessori and GD theories. Like chickchick, I did not buy the Montessori product sets, instead, I studied the theories and practises the theories using my home-made materials with my girl. For GD, I just tried a few days and I gave up as I found it hard to follow a straight schedule, and I felt sad if I could not complete the day's work, so, it is ME who gave up, and there is nothing related to the babies.
I agreed with chickchick that we need to relax and don't set a straight time-table, as things just happen which will make you fail to follow the time-table, if you depend on a time-table heavily, this will just create pressure on you. If my baby likes animals at one time, I will introduce more things, like songs, books, pictures, movies, etc., about animals to her, and bring her to Ocean Park, Zoo, Pet shops, to see the real animals. She picked up really fast in this way.
Every night, I spend about 3 hours with my girl (as she sleeps very early about 9-9:3pm). 30 min having dinner with her, 1 hour going to the supermarket with her, 1 hour reading books, and 30 min painting or playing or watching TV. And on weekends, I spent whole 2 days going here and there with her and joined different playgroups.
Who helps you to look after baby when you go to work? Maybe you could plan something for this carer to use and play with your baby, as you know, 8am-6pm is a long long time (10 hours), better use this 10 hours productive!! |
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