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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

係呀,反斗城都有,但我仔果時係學校玩,咁而家都無乜興趣囉,所以我無諗住買........hehehe,係科學館同呢d都好有趣的,係真係值得買/玩架,大陸都唔平得幾多呀應該...

睡覺,
大陸有平既話,我都想買一套一呀.....你報下料丫第時
pigpig 寫道:
睡覺,
我係反斗城買的,有唔同的人體器官模型,大約百幾至二百幾不等.....我記得有一次去科學館,有間買玩具的鋪頭,唔需要入場的,果度都有好多款式,你可以去睇下
如果要特登返大陸買,計埋車錢咪同係香港買差不多,你成日會返大陸嗎?
你真係好攪笑,又有心機 用紙黏土整左一排肋骨出黎<-----

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冬日勳章


1089
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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

palmchristy ,
我囡囡上年初初返學時,好唔習慣,經常扭唔返學,我初初只係以為佢因為未能習慣,但情況連續2個月都無改善,囡囡每日都哭哭啼啼,諗埋藉口唔返學,晚夜又發惡夢,又成日話肚痛.....當時我好心煩....所以每日我都會跟囡囡返學校了解一下....學校老師話囡囡上堂時四圍行....唔合群...返到學校咩都唔肯做,唔做之余仲要有好多佢自己認為合理的解釋....之後發現原來因為學校的英文老師好惡,好大聲,又鬧其他小朋友﹙因為囡囡屬一個對聲音比較敏感的人,所以好怕人大聲的,老師鬧再的同學,佢又覺得老師做法唔正確,好有正義感﹚,所以就非常唔願意上學.....返到家中,就經常大喊大叫,令到我同老公都忍受唔到.....最後,由我朋友介紹打電話到小童群益會的社工處....為我開解....因為當時囡囡的哭鬧 令到我自己的情緒都好差好低落,係學校見到佢喊,我又一齊喊.....
最後,我決定同囡囡轉校,情況真係有所改善,哭鬧情況減少了很多.....但情感依家敏感同脆弱.....
但我的經驗告訴我,原來當囡囡處於一個安穩的情況下,對於佢控制情緒會有好大幫助,雖然囡囡都間唔中會係學校因為一些佢自己堅持的事,而大哭大鬧,但我好感謝學校的老師對佢的包容....

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冬日勳章


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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

Sindy,
佢地D興趣轉得好快ga...跟都跟唔掂呀!
不過,我囡囡去到科學館,就只係對個體量穿梭機有興趣 激死我

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628
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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

pigpig..
       謝謝你呀,你真係我ge人恩人...
       我已經恨左好耐好耐.....
       我會去買..一定會架...
       謝謝你﹗
             
       有興趣人體ge唔係我個仔...係我li個變態阿媽﹗ 我做過三個月護士學生,去過一次殮房,仲多手咁打開一個裝著一個浸緊人腦標本ge水桶,叫其它同學過來近距離咁睇....最初以為有屍體睇,有點緊張,但原來只係入去參觀下咁...
pigpig 寫道:
Sindy,
佢地D興趣轉得好快ga...跟都跟唔掂呀!
不過,我囡囡去到科學館,就只係對個體量穿梭機有興趣 激死我
誰會直率地說出所認識的真實?有所認識的少數人,愚蠢地不隱蔽自己充實的心,向愚民們說明他們的感情和見識,他們總是被人磔死或燒死。 歌德 <<浮士德>>入來做下test,不同的人對事情有不同的看法和感受﹗

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628
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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

Sindy,
        想起來,對上一次去大陸(深圳)應是在二十多年前,讀緊中一.......    我那過期回鄉證張相都仲係細路仔GE時候來....
        而加成日係網上見到去大陸好似好"危險"咁,無打算去了。我係唔係好大鄉里呢? :  :
Sindy 寫道:
係呀,反斗城都有,但我仔果時係學校玩,咁而家都無乜興趣囉,所以我無諗住買........hehehe,係科學館同呢d都好有趣的,係真係值得買/玩架,大陸都唔平得幾多呀應該...

睡覺,
大陸有平既話,我都想買一套一呀.....你報下料丫第時[quote]
[/quote]
誰會直率地說出所認識的真實?有所認識的少數人,愚蠢地不隱蔽自己充實的心,向愚民們說明他們的感情和見識,他們總是被人磔死或燒死。 歌德 <<浮士德>>入來做下test,不同的人對事情有不同的看法和感受﹗

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628
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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

PIGPIG..
        你個囡簡直同我個仔係同一類人呀﹗好似呀﹗你講得好ARM...只要讓他們感到安全,他們隨著年紀長大,慢慢會適應較好的。你要唔要一份"給老師二十個TIPS"(FOR 敏感孩子的老師)的資料???
pigpig 寫道:
palmchristy ,
我囡囡上年初初返學時,好唔習慣,經常扭唔返學,我初初只係以為佢因為未能習慣,但情況連續2個月都無改善,囡囡每日都哭哭啼啼,諗埋藉口唔返學,晚夜又發惡夢,又成日話肚痛.....當時我好心煩....所以每日我都會跟囡囡返學校了解一下....學校老師話囡囡上堂時四圍行....唔合群...返到學校咩都唔肯做,唔做之余仲要有好多佢自己認為合理的解釋....之後發現原來因為學校的英文老師好惡,好大聲,又鬧其他小朋友﹙因為囡囡屬一個對聲音比較敏感的人,所以好怕人大聲的,老師鬧再的同學,佢又覺得老師做法唔正確,好有正義感﹚,所以就非常唔願意上學.....返到家中,就經常大喊大叫,令到我同老公都忍受唔到.....最後,由我朋友介紹打電話到小童群益會的社工處....為我開解....因為當時囡囡的哭鬧 令到我自己的情緒都好差好低落,係學校見到佢喊,我又一齊喊.....
最後,我決定同囡囡轉校,情況真係有所改善,哭鬧情況減少了很多.....但情感依家敏感同脆弱.....
但我的經驗告訴我,原來當囡囡處於一個安穩的情況下,對於佢控制情緒會有好大幫助,雖然囡囡都間唔中會係學校因為一些佢自己堅持的事,而大哭大鬧,但我好感謝學校的老師對佢的包容....
誰會直率地說出所認識的真實?有所認識的少數人,愚蠢地不隱蔽自己充實的心,向愚民們說明他們的感情和見識,他們總是被人磔死或燒死。 歌德 <<浮士德>>入來做下test,不同的人對事情有不同的看法和感受﹗

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11241
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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

我都想要一份呀.....唔該你呀
睡覺 寫道:
PIGPIG..
        你個囡簡直同我個仔係同一類人呀﹗好似呀﹗你講得好ARM...只要讓他們感到安全,他們隨著年紀長大,慢慢會適應較好的。你要唔要一份"給老師二十個TIPS"(FOR 敏感孩子的老師)的資料???[quote]
pigpig 寫道:
palmchristy ,
我囡囡上年初初返學時,好唔習慣,經常扭唔返學,我初初只係以為佢因為未能習慣,但情況連續2個月都無改善,囡囡每日都哭哭啼啼,諗埋藉口唔返學,晚夜又發惡夢,又成日話肚痛.....當時我好心煩....所以每日我都會跟囡囡返學校了解一下....學校老師話囡囡上堂時四圍行....唔合群...返到學校咩都唔肯做,唔做之余仲要有好多佢自己認為合理的解釋....之後發現原來因為學校的英文老師好惡,好大聲,又鬧其他小朋友﹙因為囡囡屬一個對聲音比較敏感的人,所以好怕人大聲的,老師鬧再的同學,佢又覺得老師做法唔正確,好有正義感﹚,所以就非常唔願意上學.....返到家中,就經常大喊大叫,令到我同老公都忍受唔到.....最後,由我朋友介紹打電話到小童群益會的社工處....為我開解....因為當時囡囡的哭鬧 令到我自己的情緒都好差好低落,係學校見到佢喊,我又一齊喊.....
最後,我決定同囡囡轉校,情況真係有所改善,哭鬧情況減少了很多.....但情感依家敏感同脆弱.....
但我的經驗告訴我,原來當囡囡處於一個安穩的情況下,對於佢控制情緒會有好大幫助,雖然囡囡都間唔中會係學校因為一些佢自己堅持的事,而大哭大鬧,但我好感謝學校的老師對佢的包容....
[/quote]

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11241
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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

我都係覺得危險,所以一路都唔敢去囉.........
睡覺 寫道:
Sindy,
        想起來,對上一次去大陸(深圳)應是在二十多年前,讀緊中一.......    我那過期回鄉證張相都仲係細路仔GE時候來....
        而加成日係網上見到去大陸好似好"危險"咁,無打算去了。我係唔係好大鄉里呢? :  : [quote]
Sindy 寫道:
係呀,反斗城都有,但我仔果時係學校玩,咁而家都無乜興趣囉,所以我無諗住買........hehehe,係科學館同呢d都好有趣的,係真係值得買/玩架,大陸都唔平得幾多呀應該...

睡覺,
大陸有平既話,我都想買一套一呀.....你報下料丫第時[quote]
[/quote][/quote]

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628
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發表於 06-8-29 18:17 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

Sindy..
           收pm啦 ﹗
誰會直率地說出所認識的真實?有所認識的少數人,愚蠢地不隱蔽自己充實的心,向愚民們說明他們的感情和見識,他們總是被人磔死或燒死。 歌德 <<浮士德>>入來做下test,不同的人對事情有不同的看法和感受﹗

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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

睡覺,

我都想要一份呀! 可唔可以PM俾我?

上年開學就係因為老師的教學理念同囡囡好唔夾, 攪到好煩好煩.

歡迎到 開心家庭網 (6歲前的早教) 和 開心家庭日誌 (小學後的培育和升中選校) 也歡迎參觀日誌

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8001
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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

pigpig,

雖然個情況無話嚴重到要轉校, 但都唔差得好遠.

話說上年囡囡K1前, 以經俾佢返學校的暑期班, 諗住俾佢適應下新環境. 點知佢可以喊足一個月. 喊到全學校的老師都識佢. 個原因大概係英文老師唔理佢. 最後要調班先至無事.

好啦, 開學諗住佢適應左環境會無事啦. 點知再喊多一個月, 今次係因為老師唔鍾意佢, 話佢成日走來走去坐唔定, 又鍾意自己行埋一邊睇自然閣及音樂閣的東西, 甚至整跌晒D野. 佢老師係非常傳統的那一種, 視此為破壞課室秩序. 結果日日都無好日子過. 當時要成日同老師溝通. 老師以佢經驗, 唔係好接受我地的睇法, 同埋只集中睇小朋友的缺點, 唔會太留意佢地的優點. 曾經幾唔愉快. 要成兩個幾月磨合期先掂.

個囡的情緒問題在學校方面攪掂後, 又到屋企. 因為個妹出世, 佢日日夜晚都大叫大嚷, 情緒失控, 無日安寧. 問幾個醫生都唔識答. 都曾經諗過要睇心理醫生. 如果唔係就有一日我自己要睇.

佢又係對聲音敏感, 同佢大聲小小講野就話鬧佢. 成日要抱實, 又要人話錫晒佢, 動不動就話人唔理佢.

又開學啦, 睇下今次撞著邊個先生, 都要同佢坐低詳細傾下.

歡迎到 開心家庭網 (6歲前的早教) 和 開心家庭日誌 (小學後的培育和升中選校) 也歡迎參觀日誌

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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

睡覺:

我都想要呀! 我個女都同你地o既小朋友差唔多, 又係好敏感!認知比同齡好o的, 但係好無安全感, 成日哭哭啼啼, 好煩!舊年K1搞左整年, 今年K2又開學啦, 好頭痛!

睡覺 寫道:
你要唔要一份"給老師二十個TIPS"(FOR 敏感孩子的老師)的資料

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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

睡覺,
我想要一份[給老師二十個TIPS](FOR敏感孩子的老師).
謝謝.   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com/viewthread.php?tid=1438375&extra=page%3D3

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628
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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

以下是<給老師的二十個tips>的英文原裝版﹕
節錄自 the highly sensitive child 的最後附錄中   作者elaine n. aron,ph.d            thorsons
li本書在香港公共圖書館可以借閱。

如果想要可能翻譯得唔係咁好ge中文版,# 就私下用pm pm我啦,因為li個中文版係一個"傻婆"自己翻譯的,因li個傻婆怕d老師唔識睇英文又或費時睇英文,為左個仔著想,只好硬著頭皮自己翻譯....。
但估計假以時日,li本書會有中文版出版的。


Highly Sensitive Child Twenty Tips For Teachers
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1.Expect that every class will have a wide range of biologically based temperaments and about 15to20 percent will be highly sensitive children (HSCs). HSCs are born with a nervous system that causes them to prefer to observe all the subtleties in a situation and to process all of this information deeply before acting. As a result, HSCs tend to be highly reflective, intuitive, and creative (having a strong sense of ow things came to be how they are and what could happen next); conscientious and concerned about fairness and what others are feeling; and aware of subtle changes, details, or “what’s missing in the picture.” The trait also causes them to be more easily overwhelmed and hurt, both physically and emotionally; slower to warm up or join in : misled by their holding back ---- they offer you an opportunity to develop unusual gifts.

2.Regarding HSCs genetically based behavioral variation cannot be altered, is perfectly normal (the same percentage with the trait is found in almost every species), and has advantages and disadvantages, depending on the situation.

3.They often have useful insights and strategies for working with their children. They also need reassurance from you: At home they see a bright, competent, outgoing child and fear that at school you will ee someone quite different.

4. If you run into problems with an HSC, consult the child’s previous teachers to learn what strategies worked in the past. Do not assume HSCs are being defiant or are seriously disturbed when they do not respond as you expect. With these children, a good fit between their temperament and their environment is everything. When they are older they will adapt to their world, but at first they need it to adapt to them.

5.Be creative with HSCs, because they are. Select curriculum for them from the visual and performing arts; offer creative writing exercises or clever problems to solve. Choose literature that deals with complex moral issues or emotional themes. Because HSCs often have rather adult minds, let them become involved with you at recess or lunchtime, helping you clean or set up class projects. Because HSCs have close ties with nature, they may thrive with a project involving plants, gardening, or a class pet. And because they are good at grasping others’ intentions and nonverbal communications, they may be the best choices to assist students not yet proficient in English.

6. Watch the arousal level of your HSCs. Everyone feels and learns best when in their optimal level of arousal—neither over- or under excited. HSCs are more easily overaroused and overstimulated than other children and need more calm around them and more down time to process their experiences. This is a factor in all of their school efforts. Because recovery from overarousal requires at least twenty minutes, when possible it is better to prevent overarousal in the first place. Further, once school is associated with acute or chronic states of overarousal, a student will dread attending and become overaroused simply by the thought of it .

7.Balance pushing and protecting. Studies find that for secure HSCs, small doses of overarousing situations at the start of the school year can leave them less prone to overarousal in the same situations later in the year. But HSCs already highly stressed will be hurt from such pushing. Try to sense when a child is ready to be pushed and when you need to back off. But try to avoid having to completely exempt HSCs from what is a turn at bat). This will only discourage them about their future and make them feel flawed. Watch for the right time to ask them to perform; prepare them in stages (a presentation to one our child, then a few more, then reading to the class, etc.) ; or find easier than hitting a baseball). See that each step is successful enough and praised enough by you that they will be eager to try the next one.

8.Plan ways to prevent unnecessary overarousal in the classroom. For example, with younger children, switch to calmer activities, take the class for a walk, or offer fee choices, encouraging the HSCs to do something quiet. With older HSCs, give them increasing responsibility for finding ways to soothe themselves and manage how they express their reactions. For example, agree ahead of the “quiet reading corner” (try to have one, set off by low bookshelves) or leave the room for a few minutes to get fresh air, a drink of water, or stand in the hall. If HSCs have trouble asking you questions in front of the class, give them a card to set on their desk to signal that your help. is needed Do not chastise HSCs for needing instructions privately repeated.

9.Allow HSCs to integrate at their own pace. In kindergarten and the start of middle school or junior high it may take weeks, months, or even a year for HSCs to adjust to the new environment. Especially when very young, if they don’t want to join in , let them take their time. They may simply need to observe for a while. Do not give them too much attention—this will only slow down the process. Do not label this behavior as shyness or fear. Being cautious does not lead to fear unless the caution proves justified. Remember, HSCs are conservative; they do not like to take risks until they feel safe, and to them their school day already seems full of risks.

10. When trying to promote class participation, again, keep the arousal low, the child relaxed. With older HSCs, invite them to speak up in class by reading out loud, if they read well , or first sharing in pairs. Make silences comfortable. Praise them for what they do say without commenting about any difficulty they had. Remain confident that when they feel secure, they will have a great deal to share. Indeed, they often become the most talkative, creative, lively students.

11. Be aware that sometimes your attention, although it is meant to be helpful, will only increase an HSC’s arousal. For example, it may help to look away rather than watch them when you address them. During times such as show-and tell, do not put them on the spot with questions. Instead, share your on similar experiences (the name of your own dog, your own trip to he beach this year) and leave room for a response. In classroom discussions. Invite HSCs to participate and give them a moment to respond; if they say nothing , then proceed as if nothing unusual has happened or offer a possible response, such as “Maybe you were thinking….” Or “Would it be right to say that you think…?”

12. Break tasks into small steps --- with HSCs it will save you time in the long run. If an HSC is becoming anxious, back off and make the task smaller and easier. For example, when preparing a young HSC to go home (a big transition at a time when the child is already tired), the task can be make into many small parts. Do not ask HSCs to “get ready to go home,” but to “please find your jacket in the coat room,”

13.Adapt your evaluation procedures to temperaments, if possible, at least at first. During tests. Evaluations, or recitals in class, keep HSCs, relaxed if you wish to see their true abilities. By nature they have more information ro process in every situation, and that takes time. So does retrieving that information. Deeply processed, complex information is difficult if not impossible to access in high states of arousal. When there is time pressure or too much attention focused on the student or the outcome, there is always high arousal. Especially at the outset, have a variety of ways for HSCs to demonstrate what they have learned (visual artwork, oral presentations, creative writing, essays, etc.). Start with what is easiest for them, then progress to quizzes for which they are well prepared, untimed tests, and finally timed exams. You wan to gradually train them to tolerate more arousing evaluation procedures by making each increment as successful as possible.

14. Warn HSCs well in advance about changes in classroom routines or the approach of special trips or events. This way they will adapt easily, rather than creating problems.

15.Recognize when certain undesirable behaviors may be due to temporary or chronic overarousal. When overaroused, some HSCs withdraw and seem distracted, dull, forgetful. Unmotivated. Anxious. Depressed, or timid; others will become overly emotional. Perhaps teary or irritable; some will be hyperactive or distractable, as if having ADHD, or even quite aggressive. But in each case, when the stimulation is reduced they are fine. When attempting to stop a behavior, first acknowledge to the child the cause of it, perhaps saying “You must be feeling pretty overwhelmed righy now.” Then suggest ways to handle the overarousal, such as “Perhaps you could use some time in the quiet reading area.” And at some point, perhaps later, suggest what to do next time: “”When you feel overwhelmed, please tell me before you become so upset.”

16.Never use harsh discipline on HSCs. They tend to be extremely rule conscious and usually only require gentle, private reminders. For some, just knowing they made a mistake will reduce them to tears. If reprimanded, punished, or embarrassed, they are likely to recall the distress and associate it with you and the subject matter., but have little memory of the information you wanted them to learn.

17.Look at the classroom environment from an HSC’s perspective. If it is crowded, noisy, hot ,cold, stuffy, dusty, glaringly lit, or cluttered, all of this wil limpact HSCs more. Make whatever improvements you can, because they are warning you of conditions that are affecting all of your student to some degree.

18.Help HSCs with any social difficulties they may have. Give them time to solve things on their own, but if an HSC seems to be suffering for several days or is consistently withdrawn, isolated, rejected, teased, or bullied, consider intervening and also warning parents and counselors. HSCs can be slower making friends and need some help (see the next tip). They also may act in ways that other children can misunderstand. Their tears, for example, can be seen as weakness; their need for personal space as fussiness; and their moments of overwhelming frustration as unreasonable anger. Further, they can be favorite targets for teasing or bullying because they are so easy to upset. But the latest thoughts on ejecting, teasing, and bullying are that adults need to create an atmosphere in which the underlying attitudes (differences should be ridiculed, more aggression should be directed toward the least aggressive class members) are replaced by acceptance and respect for everyone. Keep reminding your students that people simply come in different “flavors,” and these should not be automatically judged as either weaknesses or tickets to stardom.

19. Help your HSCs form close friendships. HSCs thrive in one-on-one relationships and usually need only one good friend for their social and emotional well-being, but that one is essential. Try to have their best friend from last year or from their neighborhood added to your class, seat HSCs together, pair them for tasks so they can get to know each other.

20. Older HSCs benefit greatly from adult mentoring and recognition of their sometimes exceptional abilities. Often they are ready quite early to move into adult levels in one or more areas, an important boost to their self-esteem. And they are frequently so inspired—by beauty, the need for social justice, their spiritual experiences. Or simply their deep emotions—that they will suffer if they cannot find an outlet for self-expression. Encourage them to try different media until they find what suits them (poetry, dance, visual arts. Acting, speaking, and writing—and do not forget writing for the school paper, or starting one if none exists).
誰會直率地說出所認識的真實?有所認識的少數人,愚蠢地不隱蔽自己充實的心,向愚民們說明他們的感情和見識,他們總是被人磔死或燒死。 歌德 <<浮士德>>入來做下test,不同的人對事情有不同的看法和感受﹗

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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

jclee..
        大個d會好一點的,只要唔好讓佢在年幼時受到傷害,產生陰影的話。
           我仔仔k1 k2 k3轉左三間學校,最初同cp及社工講怕別人講閒話(你太保護個細路云云),但佢地話唔好理人地點講,最緊要是父母了解孩子,盡量去幫他們,你估做父母的喜歡三年三間學校的嗎?真的好辛苦好辛苦.....

他在k3時已好很多,因為學校人數較少...老師也沒以前的兇。

        阿仔而加升小一,佢返左兩日小一預備班,雖然有點戰競,但so far都適應到,我仲鼓勵佢主動認識朋友仔,佢第二天就回來告知他已結識了兩個小朋友,表現得很高興,又話喜愛返學。其實也可能係因為佢以前成日轉校,哈哈,他在適應新環境上就更容易啦﹗

         雖然和別的孩子比較,現在依然是有點"不一樣"。但他真的比以前進步左好多喇。所以只要你能適當地配合他們敏感的性格,他們會慢慢適應過來,會變得更"強壯"和適應力更強的。   
jclee 寫道:
睡覺:

我都想要呀! 我個女都同你地o既小朋友差唔多, 又係好敏感!認知比同齡好o的, 但係好無安全感, 成日哭哭啼啼, 好煩!舊年K1搞左整年, 今年K2又開學啦, 好頭痛!

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睡覺 寫道:
你要唔要一份"給老師二十個TIPS"(FOR 敏感孩子的老師)的資料
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誰會直率地說出所認識的真實?有所認識的少數人,愚蠢地不隱蔽自己充實的心,向愚民們說明他們的感情和見識,他們總是被人磔死或燒死。 歌德 <<浮士德>>入來做下test,不同的人對事情有不同的看法和感受﹗

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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

睡覺:
唔該晒!
我都希望個女大左會好o的!

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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

睡覺,
你咪甘客氣啦.....大家一齊分享下 可能下次我有野要你幫我手呢
你真係幾大膽呀!如果俾著係我,要我入殮房 死硬.....我就係因為怕要打包屍體,所以放棄去考護士囉......
我都想要資料呀.....中文版,唔該
原來你囝囝今年升小一,又係一個新挑戰!佢已經踏出左成功的一步了!要努力加油呀!
我囡囡以前講野,唔會理人的,鐘意就講,好無禮貌,但俾我話得多,依家好左好多,雖然都會忍唔住直接話人的不是,但就會細細聲係我耳邊講,都算有進步啦
點解我會講禮貌呢樣野呢....因為我覺得,好多時佢地唔能結識到朋友仔,係因為講野太直接,我相信年紀越大,情況會越嚴重,你贊成嗎?

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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

palmchristy,
我印象中,你囡囡就讀一間有資優知識非常豐富老師的幼稚園,是嗎?點解都會出現呢個情況呢?
我覺得老師對於小朋友,真係好重要的,要搵一個老師接受佢地,又同小朋友岩的話,就更加難.....
因為如果班中的老師,都視小朋友為仇人般,係好難相處的,正如你所講,需要一段好長的了解期先叫做勉強適應,大家都好辛苦
我囡囡就算到依家上堂時或興趣班時,好多時都係度遊魂,初初開學就有走出位,但後來佢都叫做控制到自己無四圍行,但對眼就唔係成日望住老師,四圍望甘囉....不過,老師問佢,佢又知道老師講緊咩....所以有時老師都無話一定要佢望住佢,就算佢走出位,只要佢唔影響到別人,都由得佢.....
甘你囡囡因為妹妹出世的情緒問題,最後又點解決呢?
至於聲音敏感,我依家用的方法就係每要佢做一件事,起碼預5至10分鐘俾佢,例如:飲奶﹙佢係一個飲得超慢的人﹚,收玩具.....,我會同佢講,你唔想媽咪大聲,你就要俾幾多分鐘內做完,唔係到我大聲時,你又唔高興,我覺得都幾有用.........
我好贊成你開學前搵老師好好地傾一次,是很有用的!我今年已經做左,因為囡囡返了2個星期暑期班,所以就順便同囡囡k2的班主任傾了....班主任給我的感覺,好像都對這方面的孩子有認識,希望下星期開學,會一切順利!
我都祝你會一切順利!

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Re: 資優兒童最早可於幾時發現?有什麼特徵?

睡覺,
我想要一份[給老師二十個TIPS]中文版,
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